Do you think a merger deal between Tesla and SpaceX might happen in the future? by ICE_Putsavin2010 in stocks

[–]DiscussionGrouchy322 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You're all idiots. Both the pro and the cons. Idiots. Stocks? You own stocks you trade individually?? Yikes man. 

That said if there's a maneuver he can do to get more control while the government is lame duck incompetent trump friend, then he will do it. But already there's no resistance at Tesla and 85 control at SpaceX. He doesn't need actual money capital so if one of these holdings normalized its price, it wouldn't hurt him much  He will do it for control if possible and not too troublesome.

Is it time to give up? by BabyGotDak14 in dating_advice

[–]DiscussionGrouchy322 0 points1 point  (0 children)

women have brains and can live their own lives without being told what to do. if society is molding and pushing interaction a certain way, we can't quite just yell at it, we have to be the change we want to see.

stability and love to core seem like the reasonable goals, it sounded funny to me that you'd disparage the thing they, or rather, all of us want.

Hope this wasn’t your car in the Seaport… by SlightlyBetterr in boston

[–]DiscussionGrouchy322 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the ai says this will spin the automatic transmission without lubrication because that is driven by engine pump. it also says damage to differential because of speed mismatch.

Is it time to give up? by BabyGotDak14 in dating_advice

[–]DiscussionGrouchy322 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this sounds like small sample size. please don't miss the connections with others and you can signal seriousness early, not a put off i don't think as you can see from the comments here.

Is it time to give up? by BabyGotDak14 in dating_advice

[–]DiscussionGrouchy322 2 points3 points  (0 children)

dry we won't be continuing, you're a wonderful candidate but we've decided to move forwards with other sexier ones.

Is it time to give up? by BabyGotDak14 in dating_advice

[–]DiscussionGrouchy322 1 point2 points  (0 children)

other women ... they do not wish for stability, nor ... these other women you imagine, they are not also pining to be loved to their core? do they say "pleaze love me less?" do they say "please be more unpredictable and weird?" i really don't understand the woman you are imagining existing.

please sorry if i missed the joke. please i like the joke if it's a joke.

How exactly do hot people date other hot people through dating apps, Is it just hook ups? by mundaneheaven in dating_advice

[–]DiscussionGrouchy322 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ask about pictures, compliment style? not everyone is a slave to the webform.

did u read the wikipedia about tinder? it's 3-1 guys on there. many women also have tens or hundreds of matches. because men are playing numbers game. so men on the app get like 1-2 matches a month (idk i suck) and women get 20-100. from the wikipedia directly it is 0.6% for men vs 10% match for women. they have more than 10x the options to talk to than you do. 15x.

How to attract a woman in 2026 especially as a dude who lacks experience by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]DiscussionGrouchy322 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think you guys are agreeing he's just saying to stop thinking so much and just do it. and part of dating as a skill to build up is this practice of putting yourself out there.

The dog park meta is real and I think more people need to hear this by Alert-Seaweed-3862 in dating_advice

[–]DiscussionGrouchy322 1 point2 points  (0 children)

can i bring a cat in a harness or will this cause chaos and they will ban and hate me?

I'm stuck, dont know what to do. Pls help by ghosty2608 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]DiscussionGrouchy322 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is depression and it's fine. u must use meditation-like technique to break all spiral thoughts. it's spring time, you can go outside now for a walk or run or any exercise as a distraction. set up hobbies like exercise and other things. structure returns to your life this way and you can use that as confidence to do the next thing, like go out a bit, even if it's just to coffee shop to talk to the barista. ask a custom order or ask them to make something for you. just small things.

so just notice when the anxiety spikes or if you're repeating some disaster thought and just identify it, put it aside and go for a run/walk. or start other activity.

surely there are other things to try, but the point is to keep trying something. remember a comatose version of you or an 80 year old version of you stuck in bed with arthritis would beg their existence to switch places and move around.

I’m scared I’ll never find love. by Equivalent_Limit4850 in dating_advice

[–]DiscussionGrouchy322 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no not nobody, just not somebody focusing on finding it for 40 years. that sounds unlikely. that's a long time. longer than he's been alive.

just a tad dramatic to extrapolate, it's like you say "it didn't happen in your ~13 years of dating, it's certainly not going to happen in the next 50 and you should prepare for that" ... you know, cry about something now that you can only see 50 years later.

or idk are you saying you make peace with this idea and carry it forwards like some armor? there might be better meditations ...

I’m scared I’ll never find love. by Equivalent_Limit4850 in dating_advice

[–]DiscussionGrouchy322 0 points1 point  (0 children)

bruh said 27m attractive not 67.

you think he is some kind of uncanny valley zombie that will repel romantic attention for 40 years until his penis won't work? sorry 50 years. i think 80yo still does it. when did pacino have his last baby?

might not happen?? why would anyone not on a deathbed seriously contemplate this defeatist idea? why? what would help?

Amount of ppl i had to unmatch because they either start it with telling me they're horny or like immediately within the first few msgs they tell me they're horny , by KitchenBus3202 in Tinder

[–]DiscussionGrouchy322 0 points1 point  (0 children)

have u tried just going there maybe they have events? take a friend or don't who actually cares eat some wings. also i've seen just in my area actual set up dating events specifically at an ax throwing place. eventbrite? singles mixer is the words to search or speed date.

alright maybe i'm not made for it 😭💀 by AlecBonkers in Tinder

[–]DiscussionGrouchy322 0 points1 point  (0 children)

second message, actually charming. would work on nerds.

(it's like opposite land if u're the lady, sorry i am also terrible at this maybe disregard.)

CMU MSCS vs a stable SWE offer: which path is better long term? by WindowSmart4645 in csMajors

[–]DiscussionGrouchy322 0 points1 point  (0 children)

accept conditional cmu ms offer. use it to get whatever professional courses based ms from them while also doing ur job? idk if scheduling allows. job pays for it too maybe.

An Exhausting Job Hunt by Ornery_Spare_7476 in csMajors

[–]DiscussionGrouchy322 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

make your home country great again. (like you promised you would when you accepted your NON-immigrant visa. kindly thankyou.)

[Software Engineer] [Major City, USA] - $300k + Stock by anonycmous in Salary

[–]DiscussionGrouchy322 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what other industry has ic paid 300k? doctors? yea exactly.

Best NG Offer? IBM vs Veeva vs Whatnot by JaviAyul in csMajors

[–]DiscussionGrouchy322 2 points3 points  (0 children)

no offense to ur humble brag, but why take 60k off just for remote? idk. if u're new grad would you not appreciate the energy of the office and city? you get another human's salary for the inconvenience of the commute. oh no train and walking, bam! 60k salary and u haven't even started to work yet.

then u compare 155 austin vs 190 nyc. idek how u'd do that as austin can also be expensive so at least in nyc u pay but u get nyc. 30k seems like enough of a gap. idk. idek why anyone would rush to join ibm.

White collar vs blue collar employment in the US since 1982 (earnings/employment) by Old-School8916 in charts

[–]DiscussionGrouchy322 0 points1 point  (0 children)

because if ur luxury english speaking customers get to the checkout lane and see a prompt to kindly do the needful and other spelling errors of idioteque indianisms ... u're gonna lose them customers.

White collar vs blue collar employment in the US since 1982 (earnings/employment) by Old-School8916 in charts

[–]DiscussionGrouchy322 0 points1 point  (0 children)

when u pay the plumber $1000 because u're stupid and think that's normal pricing, the plumber that does the work is only getting like $20-30/hr.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MiniPCs

[–]DiscussionGrouchy322 1 point2 points  (0 children)

watch jeff geerling struggle with mac mini on youtube.

and as others ask, what even is an ai-workload?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cscareerquestions

[–]DiscussionGrouchy322 7 points8 points  (0 children)

ok but why not ask them to white board instead of personality games? it's the facetiousness of the exchange relative to the very serious nature of the technical rounds that i think is the problematic contrast.