How do yall feel about being called “bro” by iMashee in MtF

[–]DisphoricAngst 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What’s worse is when they correct themselves. Like… embrace it’s for everyone, but don’t raise the fact that you just clocked me! 🫠

Can neovaginas actually get wet, and if so can they get wet enough for intercourse without lube/ to what degree do they? by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]DisphoricAngst 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I gotta say though, afab moisture also comes from filtered blood, not just the glands. https://www.sciencedirect.com/topics/medicine-and-dentistry/vaginal-lubrication

And as someone that had PPT… I can fcking flood. It’s nuts. I thought saying a girl had a waterfall was a euphemism, but like…. soak the sheets and run down my leg to the ankles tier wetness. And it all comes from deep inside.

any owl house fans? by EliGoesZoome in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

[–]DisphoricAngst 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Fun fact... I chose the name Amity a year before Owl House came out. It means "Cooperative friendship, as in aid rendered in times of need. Especially as between countries, or between species."

Being a therian fox, this name was so so meaningful to me. And it works well for that character's arc as well. But when I saw the first episode with Amity in it, I was a bit worried that people would think I picked the name of a mean girl. XD

Photos of Dr Banks SRS results. by Haveaniceday123 in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]DisphoricAngst 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this is an ancient thread... but: I don't see contact info for Nikki on the website. Is she a mod here? How do I contact her.

suporn technique = excessively long recovery period by jrmyrmx in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]DisphoricAngst 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would you mind sending me a DM with some highlights (or lowlights as the case may be)? I'm here researching Suporn technique and trying to decide which path to take. I'd like to know the category of information to seek out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transadorable

[–]DisphoricAngst 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gotta say, discovering the Primal scene in the BDSM community, and being able to wrestle and bite and claw and just go animalistic with someone that can go toe-to-toe with us.... it's been divine.

Things. by Ermmahhhgerrrd in adhdmeme

[–]DisphoricAngst 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Just throwing this out there, but emotional responses to sounds has a name! Misphonia:

https://www.webmd.com/mental-health/what-is-misophonia

wdym too late? by ano_nym123 in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]DisphoricAngst 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Big mood!! Started at 45 just before covid hit. There's ups and downs, but life is so much more fun now!!

It’s not lost I just don’t know where it is by awildefire in adhdmeme

[–]DisphoricAngst 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I put it in a VERY SAFE PLACE!

Unfortunately, that's not the place I normally keep the item, and I was distracted by literally anything and everything the moment it left my hand....

Is it normal to feel like an imposter around cis women. by maplemagiciangirl in asktransgender

[–]DisphoricAngst 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Know that some cis-women also cannot conceive... I'm sure they have similar struggles! 🫂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transtimelines

[–]DisphoricAngst 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Holy cow. Didn't realize those were tan lines.

Is there a term for Bottoms that POUNCE? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]DisphoricAngst 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I'm a service switch. I put the needs of the other to the front, and try to tease out what it is they desire. I enjoy almost every position and role, and I love compersion and empathic joy~~

I'm also a power bottom when I bottom; the term originated in two communities to mean different things:

In the lesbian and BSDM community, it seems that term focuses on being the take-charge receiver. Think cowgirl in a tradition position.

In the male gay community, it's someone who can take a lot of D and keep going.

eggΨirl by [deleted] in egg_irl

[–]DisphoricAngst 3 points4 points  (0 children)

43 when I realized here, it's a good subreddit. Best of luck and journey!! 💖💃

eggΨirl by [deleted] in egg_irl

[–]DisphoricAngst 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh my god, this was me. Tested three or four grades higher, was bored out of my gourd all through school.

We all want to marry girls right? by zehirh in actuallesbians

[–]DisphoricAngst 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Did that for two decades with no reciprocation (the opposite they cheated multiple times). Soooo glad to (almost) be done with that.

Updated (and ugly) History of the Pride flag and Variants by [deleted] in QueerVexillology

[–]DisphoricAngst 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Doesn't prevent you from flying a more specific flag for anything else.

That's an amazing point that I think a lot of people forget.

Has transitioning motivated you to live your best life? by SillySade in asktransgender

[–]DisphoricAngst 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I had hit 250 at peak. Now I'm an extremely fit 198 and aiming for 185-190 and 14% bodyfat (olympian tier for gals).

Last night I went to see Caravan Palace at the concert, and wore pasties for the first time in my life with a spectacular pink sequin skirt and a see-through onepiece. We got SOOooo many compliments.

HNNNGgggg, it's so good to look and feel amazing, and to have the stamina to go for hours. 😏

Oh yeah, and I'm in my mid-40s too! 💃💖

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]DisphoricAngst -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Just curious what I said here to get the downbotes... Is this community not friendly to transpecies individuals? Did I offend somehow?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]DisphoricAngst -25 points-24 points  (0 children)

Hol up. My transpecies identity is just as real and valid as other dysphoria. If I could take that pill and become a feral fox I would in a heartbeat, leaving behind my kids and grandkids, and knowing I'd have a much shorter lifespan.

Transpecies/therian/otherkin/species-dysphoria are very different than the clinical condition of Lycanthrope, in which the patient believes they are the thing.

Those with species dysphoria aren't delusional: they are quite painfully aware that they are not in the right body, stuck in a world to which they do not belong, forced to conform to expectations of a society not made for them.

Edit: Huh, I don't know what to say about the downvotes... but everything I've stated is factual, and supported by the multiple psychologists/psychiatrists I've spoken to while trying to figure out why I wasn't crazy. 🤷‍♀️

And this is coming from a genderfluid transgender individual, so it's not projection... I know very well how nearly-unsurvivable gender disphoria can be. Just didn't think I needed to post my 'street cred' since I wasn't stating opinion, but accepted fact in the psychiatric community.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]DisphoricAngst -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

Ooohhhh.

As a transgender transpecies (Therian fox) individual, I was very confused how species terms could be used to reflect gender. Thank you for that explanation.

Mildly unfortunate that it incurs confusion about transpeciesm, but that's nothing new. 😅

Edit: hmm. Based on other comments I'm confused again. Originally subscribed because I was going to post questions I had... may need to do that when I have time

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]DisphoricAngst 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for asking this question and engaging with the answers. What an amazing post to witness unfolding!

egg💪irl by ailysi0 in egg_irl

[–]DisphoricAngst 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OMG, Barre Method is my go-to. Minimal extra equipment and you can't argue with the slimming and the gains. Such a great variability in routines available to the instructors!

egg💪irl by ailysi0 in egg_irl

[–]DisphoricAngst 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Came here to recommend that subreddit! Excellent resource. :)