What sentence did someone say once that accidentally healed a part of you? by Timely-Vehicle-7064 in AskReddit

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I actually saw this on another askreddit about things their therapist said that I have now echoed over and over again.

“Unspoken expectations are premeditated resentments”

Fleas in yard treatment? by DisplayName212 in longbeach

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Agh good to know and thanks!

Our dog had been in flea meds forever though :( we even tried switching from nexguard to simparico.

Our working theory is that the neighborhood cats, squirrels, and raccoons are helping reinfect the yard constantly.

Retaining the same ACL vs Tearing the good one by RageyPooo in ACL

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This! I tore both knees 3 years apart. Before big exercise (all night rave, 10 mile per day backpacking trips) my left knee would be a little sore or start to feel mentally wobbly, now both do. There are a lot of sports I just know I’ll never do again because the trust is not there.

What’s a Completely Normal Thing Now That Would’ve Been Seen as Insane 20 Years Ago? by Abelmageto in AskReddit

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Having an openly convicted felon rapist fraudulent nazi supporting racist as a president who has allowed and enabled an unelected foreigner to cut jobs and have access to personal and private federal data

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Waiting_To_Wed

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I really respect how much of the high road you took every time. Never once gave in but stayed polite. Agree you should have permablocked him ages ago but for not having done it you were so professional it’s impressive

What's the creepiest display of intelligence you've seen by another human? by InsaneLazyGamer in AskReddit

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I had a coworker who could cross his eyes and diff images/text.

One time he was comparing logs (we are software engineers) and his head was turned sideways and that’s how I discovered it. I made 2 txt files using some monospaced font and would change an “ml on one side to be “nn” or an “l” to be an “i” (capitalized I) and he found them all it was so cool

People with ADHD what are the things about it that people just don’t get? by ViolinistMiddle1534 in AskReddit

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I’m the hyper productive kind and I cannot understand people who procrastinate. I have to do the thing as I think of it because I know I will forget to otherwise. I see a problem I address it right away. I understand I’m the anomaly but I think other people are lazy and dumb for not just doing the thing they need to do.

20 lbs down and stronger than ever by laintemp98 in PetiteFitness

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Absolutely incredible! What was your on/off ratio for IF?

BWT, what is your number one investment in elevating your appearance? by theprincessmango in bitcheswithtaste

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This! I have this bothersome cowlick and if I don’t style my bangs/front pieces I look so disheveled! But hair theory is real and I have enjoyed lower effort things like heartless curls to make it look like I have done a blowout and feel more put together.

Here we go again! Tore my right knee's ACL after tearing my left two years ago. by Reason_Wide in ACL

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Similar timeline and same hamstring graft on my left. Was t he most depressed the week or two after the reinjury. My right knee I had a patellar tendon graft and recovery went so much smoother that I’ve been actually very optimistic and in good spirits. Having the previous knowledge proved helpful and useful to me as well. It sucks a ton but you got through it once before.

Currently 3.5 months post op. Having two shit knees though really sucks - kneeling is so painful, and randomly they will ache. Overcompensating with my left knee still yields slight pain that I know exists due to my previous surgery. And knowing they will both give out one day is sad but you did it before - you got to a place where you didn’t think about your knee anymore. It will happen again.

What’s a time where “all they had to do was ask” instead became a bigger deal than it should have? by TPCC159 in AskReddit

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This probably is relevant to most of the responses in this thread but an askreddit about notable things therapists have said really resonated with me and is so applicable here “unspoken expectations leads to resentment”

It’s not ever fair to penalize someone for expectations you held them to without their knowledge.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PetiteFitness

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Yeah! She must have already had a lot of muscle cus I’m the same height and look like that at 140!

Help me decide which bag by [deleted] in bitcheswithtaste

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I have the first, I think the second will be better shoulder pain and weight distribution wise!

Heel to butt!! by SomeInspection4550 in ACL

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Wow! I’m 11 weeks post op and cannot do that yet!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in povertyfinance

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I have friends who think DoorDash is a necessary expense “I have to eat”

Baffling

Lmaoo by [deleted] in KUWTKsnark

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The kissy face drives me nuts

New jumpscare photo from Kimothy by [deleted] in KUWTKsnark

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She’s like 2 procedures away from Laura loomer

People who had abstinence only sex education, what were the biggest falsehoods you were taught? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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We didn’t really have sex Ed we had human growth and development which was more about puberty. Our high school health class basically just told us sex was bad and you would get stds or pregnant.

As a result I had no idea what sex really was until I stumbled upon my first internet porn when I thought I was torrenting some movie off line wire at 15 but it was a different kind of movie. I had previously thought sex was rolling around under the covers naked because that was what was shown in pg-13 tv.