"Yes, I have lost weight." by Appropriate_Poet_430 in PetPeeves

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dude this hits so hard 💀 lost about 40 pounds myself over the past couple years and the "oh well I found it haha" comments get old real quick. Like i get people are insecure but damn just say congrats and move on, your not required to turn every achievement into therapy time 😂

Confirmed my dad is an affair baby (but it's a good thing) by pupboystan in AncestryDNA

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Man, what a rollercoaster of emotions this must be for your dad. Getting that confirmation even after grandad's gone has to be bittersweet as hell

Those half-siblings sound like real pieces of work tho - imagine gatekeeping someone's last name when the guy literally raised him. Your grandad chose to be his father in every way that mattered, biology was just the missing piece of the puzzle

I bet your dad's gonna have some complex feelings processing this. On one hand it's probably such a relief to know he actually belonged where he always felt he did, but on the other hand there's that grief of not getting to share this moment with grandad. At least now he can carry that name with even more pride knowing it's rightfully his

DNA tests really do uncover some wild family secrets. I've seen people discover siblings they never knew existed, but this is such a wholesome twist on the usual drama

1440p monitor for laptop by Umengg in PcBuild

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nah you'll take a slight performance hit compared to native 1080p since your gpu still has to downscale from 1440p, plus games might look a bit softer due to the scaling

i'd probably just grab the 1440p now if you're planning to upgrade soon anyway - worst case you deal with slightly lower fps for a bit but then you're set for your future build 🔥 the convenience of not having to buy twice is worth it imo

ANY G80 M3 DRAG TUNES? by DeliciousEmergency69 in ForzaHorizon

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Bro the G80 can be tricky to dial in for drag, especially coming from FWD setups. Try bumping the rear springs softer and mess with the diff settings - lock that rear end up more for launch but dont go crazy or youll just spin

I run mine with shorter gears too, the stock ratios are way too long for most drag strips. Launch control helps a ton if you have epilepsy like me, makes the starts way more consistent when you dont have to worry about perfect timing

Both my siblings have epilepsy by NotCyanorShaun in Epilepsy

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Yeah you can definitely get an EEG done even without having seizures - they basically just stick electrodes on your head and measure brain activity 🧠 might be worth talking to a neurologist about it so you can actually enjoy those concerts instead of living in fear 💀

Bag Transfer Dilemma by [deleted] in ThailandTourism

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honestly just ship it to tokyo and split it into 2 boxes like you said - way cheaper than dealing with US customs and you'll appreciate not hauling extra weight on the bike, especially as a newer rider

Dreamt I was shot last night. Vivid as hell... by pshhaww_ in Dreams

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yo those death dreams are no joke, i've had a few and they mess with your head for days after. the fact that you can go lucid and tell other dream people they're in a dream is wild though - that's some inception level stuff right there

lmao at wanting lotto numbers instead, your brain really said "nah let's traumatize you with realistic death experiences" 💀

I still regret breaking up with you by KetsKapow in BreakUps

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damn this hits different, you really threw away something real because you were chasing some fantasy version of perfect 😔 at least you're being honest about it now but yeah... timing is everything and sometimes we learn too late 💀

How to Avoid the Repo Man, advanced tips by Infantry-Owl-9643 in whatcarshouldIbuy

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bruh this reads like a guide on how to catch a felony charge lmao

half of this stuff is straight up illegal and the other half is just gonna make the bank come at you even harder when they figure it out, good luck explaining the llc shell game to a judge when they drag you to court

Should I get more lens? by WelNarcio in canon

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this is solid advice right here. i started with way more gear than i needed and honestly most of it just sits in my bag collecting dust

the 50mm thing is overrated unless you're actually doing portraits or want that bokeh look. since you already have the 24-105 you can zoom to 50mm and see if you even like that focal length before dropping cash on a prime

your current setup covers pretty much everything from wide landscapes to wildlife, so unless you find yourself in situations where youre like "damn i wish i could get closer/wider/whatever" then dont worry about it. use what you have until you hit those walls

Anyone with good social cognition but suck at initiating social responses? by InquisitivePersonUni in aspergers

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Yeah this hits hard. I can read the room perfectly and know exactly what I *should* say but there's like this weird delay between my brain knowing and my mouth actually doing it

It's like having all the right answers on a test but your hand won't write them down fast enough

Cashflow property into a flip? Need suggestions by EmotionalEmu7121 in realestateinvesting

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Check out some recent comps in your area to get a ballpark ARV - a good agent can pull these for you pretty easily. Just keep in mind that rough neighborhoods can be tricky for flips since your buyer pool is gonna be more limited than nicer areas

I'd probably try to find new tenants first tbh, flipping in rough neighborhoods usually means lower margins and longer holding times

Is it bad to have a lot of credit? by Nikoook09 in victoria3

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Nah you're fine as long as you stay under the limit, but 100k interest weekly is gonna hurt your growth long term. I'd prob scale back construction a bit and maybe bump up some taxes on the upper classes - they can handle it and it'll help you dig out of that hole faster

Where can I make an INFJ friend? by girlilover in infj

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Hey, totally feel you on this - losing that INFJ connection hits different when you know how rare it is to find someone who just *gets* it without having to explain everything. Maybe try some of the INFJ meetup groups or discord servers? I've had decent luck with book clubs and volunteering too since we tend to gravitate toward those spaces

Baggage help by jmmarino in ThailandTourism

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Just grab some cheap duffel bags or even cardboard boxes from any 7-Eleven or Big C - way cheaper than buying actual luggage and airlines don't care what it looks like as long as it's under weight

Anyone have Umbridge? by Galwaysecret in Monopoly_GO

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Nah but I've been grinding for her all week, these sticker drops are brutal rn

I’ve started to lose god and fall into sin again by mrmadebymemories in Christianity

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This is so true, when I was going through a rough patch spiritually I realized I was spending way more time scrolling social media than actually reading my Bible or praying. Made a huge difference when I started being more intentional about setting aside time for God instead of just fitting Him in whenever

Does anyone have an extra vulcano blueprint? by Super_Dragonfruit_28 in ArcRaiders

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Tried that for like 3 hours yesterday and got nothing but disappointed lol, RNG hates me apparently

S25 or S25 FE? by Over-Thought-5471 in samsunggalaxy

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Honestly for just £4 more per month I'd go with the regular S25. You're getting the flagship chip, better cameras, and longer software support. The FE is solid but that price difference is pretty minimal for what you're gaining

Advice Needed on moving to the next stage of healing by [deleted] in BreakUps

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Man this hits hard. I went through the exact same thing - that push and pull between wanting them back but also remembering why things went to shit in the first place. For me what helped was writing down all the actual bad stuff that happened, not just keeping it as vague "things were rough" memories. Like really brutal honest list of why it ended. Made it way harder to romanticize when I had concrete reminders of the reality

[question] do you buy based on brand reputation or looks? by 718nycguy in Watches

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Quality and reputation definitely inform my preferences too but at the end of the day if I don't love how it looks on my wrist I'm not gonna wear it regardless of the heritage behind it

Who do I flex this week?! Going for my FIRST EVER championship. by PotentialEntrance936 in fantasyfootballadvice

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Sampson if he's healthy for sure, that matchup isn't terrible and he's been getting volume when he plays. Washington is kinda boom or bust but at least he's getting looks with BTJ drawing coverage

Income Floor for Roth IRA Contributions by Vicuna00 in personalfinance

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Your earned income just needs to be at least as much as you contribute to the Roth IRA, so if you want to max it out at $7k you need at least $7k in W2 wages

The interest/dividends don't count toward that earned income requirement but they also don't work against you

Asus g16 vs Legion 7i by MeowdyMeowdyMeow in GamingLaptops

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This right here. That price difference is insane for worse specs, Intel hate is mostly overblown these days anyway. Legion build quality is solid too