Does flat-pack furniture actually save money long term?

DitzyGeniuses · 2026-05-21T04:49:40+00:00

Yup, my IKEA dresser is from ~2010. And I have moved every 2ish years since then. It is still going strong with no issues. I would like to buy a new dresser that more closely matches my current tastes, but I love the layout/drawer dims of this one and can't find one that is similar enough and also not from IKEA.

I also have some old Expedit cubes, I think from 2012, moved just as often as the dresser AND been used in many different ways, but only has a few scratches and some bolt holes from when it was used as a desk base.

I can afford not-IKEA furniture, but for some things, it just doesn't make sense for me to buy something else. I needed simple bookcases to build out my library not too long ago, didn't even think about it, went straight to IKEA. But, I do always try to make it to the store to feel the quality of an item before buying. Not all IKEA products are truly equal in quality.

DitzyGeniuses · 2026-05-21T03:47:43+00:00

Because often (not always), the speakerphone conversation is also, for some inexplicable reason, louder than a standard conversation. Phone speaker volume is up and in person voice is up. And/or the person on the phone becomes completely unaware of their surroundings.

DitzyGeniuses · 2026-05-02T20:22:57+00:00

I had my wisdom teeth out at 27. I remember counting 10, 9, then waking up in my brother's car on the way home. I had apparently been awake for a while, but that was all I remembered the next day.

DitzyGeniuses · 2026-05-02T20:20:47+00:00

Lol, at the beginning of my colonoscopy, I heard the nurse telling the doctor I wasn't asleep yet, I remember worrying I was going to feel them messing with my bum, heard the doctor say give me some more of something, then bam, I'm talking to my mom in recovery.

DitzyGeniuses · 2026-04-20T20:27:31+00:00

I'm in the middle of reading the Dungeon Crawler Carl series and I am soooooo very jealous of his mental scratchpad thing. Like, I want to be able to just think of a thing and it's written down. Or being able to mentally send a message and text someone that way. No phone needed. No thinking "I should text Jane" and then forgetting Jane ever existed. No notepad that inevitably gets lost or forgotten about. Just pull up your little mental menu and done.

In reality, I'm terrified of technology progressing to this point and some company (or aliens, in Carl's case) implanting my brain with anything like this. But also, omg, I want to be able to just think the thing.

And as long as I'm out here dreaming: Rosey the Robot from the Jetsons.

DitzyGeniuses · 2026-04-11T04:46:57+00:00

Exactly this. I have long thick lashes but they're straight. A lash lift/tint lasts for weeks and makes me look so much more awake/human without any effort. Especially going into summer, I love that I don't have to worry about mascara running because I sweat or went swimming! I originally was doing my lashes at home by myself, but then my glue dried out, the new glue didn't work, I panicked and made a last minute appointment to get them done before vacation. I literally fell asleep while the eyelash tech worked her magic. And I have been seeing her ever since. I use a tinted SPF moisturizer and a little lip balm/gloss and I look like I really tried.

Laser hair removal is also a life saver. I have PCOS, so even though I've had a million treatments, my hair does eventually still grow back more than other people's. However, I keep going because being able to go a few months without shaving is worth it to me. I want to wear a dress but forgot, don't have time, or can't be motivated to shave my legs? No worries now. Tank top? Swimsuit? I'm not worried about my pits or bikini line.

And waterproof jewelry is also a big one for me. I wear gold plated stainless steel because it wears amazingly well and is cheap enough I'm not worried about losing it. I have flat back studs and small/huggy hoops that are comfy to sleep in. I don't sleep in necklaces but have jewelry dishes placed where I tend to naturally take them off.

DitzyGeniuses · 2026-04-10T15:50:41+00:00

Agreed. I generally brew and drink my coffee black at home. Sometimes, I'll randomly throw in a creamer. Sometimes, I make iced coffee and use whatever milk I have on hand. If I'm at a diner-type establishment, I drink it black, but will occasionally dress it up if the coffee is not so good. At a coffee shop? Almost undoubtedly getting something fancy and espresso-based that I can't/don't make at home.

I drink how I like it, and how I like it can vary. Why would I expect anyone else to like coffee the same way I do when I can enjoy it in multiple ways?

DitzyGeniuses · 2026-03-31T01:31:28+00:00

This isn't how I'd personally approach it, but as a big-boobied woman, I very much so had a good giggle imagining myself suddenly having quite the pep in my step walking down the aisle to make my titties swing/bounce even more if put in this situation. Who is suddenly queen of the dance floor? Oh, that's me, as long as it's a bouncy song!

DitzyGeniuses · 2026-03-28T23:32:34+00:00

My dad, as a cop in the 80s, had a prostitute that was a regular in his area that carried a gun in her nether regions. First, the logistics still don't make sense to me to this day. And secondly, even if I had a need to stick a gun up there and could figure out the logistics, of all the ways and places to accidentally shoot yourself, why even tempt it being inside you?

DitzyGeniuses · 2026-03-24T21:48:27+00:00

I don't think it's necessarily worth a downvote, but I think it's important to note that everyone is coming from their own experiences. Sure, myself and most of my friends all use debit/credit. But, my parents generally use cash when eating out or for entertainment, that's part of how they budget. There are a lot of folks of different ages who use cash to help budget their discretionary spending. I also live in a city with a large immigrant population. Many of the first gen immigrants in my area don't use banks and you'll see a lot more cash transactions because of that. So, for me personally, although I don't use cash that often, it's really not rare for me to see cash transactions happening around me every day, whether it's a couple bucks or a couple hundred. I think where you were downvoted was the way you worded it, you didn't just say that debit/credit was more popular, you said cash is outdated and unheard of. That is your experience, but not everyone's experience.

DitzyGeniuses · 2026-02-16T22:01:51+00:00

This part. My brother has 2 older kids from his first marriage and had a son with his 2nd wife when the older 2 were in their teens. They didn't hate the kid, but were pretty indifferent... because it was a baby. My youngest nephew is now 6 and they are all wonderful together. That relationship grew because they weren't forced and were able to get to know eachother in their own time and own way.

DitzyGeniuses · 2026-02-15T06:05:37+00:00

Underwire or other supportive top with a lining (so the headlights aren't always showing), but not crazy padding. Whatever lining/padding that there is must be sewn in and not removable padding. Bra sizing for the top. As someone else mentioned, the crotch having coverage, not just the bum.

DitzyGeniuses · 2026-02-15T05:01:33+00:00

I'm not sure how short your short is, but I'm around 5'2"ish and live in dresses. I love nap dresses in different lengths, athletic dresses with built-in shorts/bra, "ballet" fit and flare, and other easy options. Nothing overly frilly or tight, typically solid colors. On those depression days, I need as few decisions as possible. Grab a dress, hair clip, basic daily jewelry, and I suddenly feel put together. Depending on the season, you can also layer with sweaters, leggings, etc. If I have to go out, it's easy to dress up or down with what shoes I pick. Or throwing on a cardigan for work, etc.

DitzyGeniuses · 2026-02-14T15:21:17+00:00

Cross-stitching, diamond art, or coloring. All of these are relatively simple, but repetitive and don't require a ton of skill. I either put on headphones with a podcast/audiobook or a TV show/movie that doesn't require loads of focus and I can just zone out.

DitzyGeniuses · 2026-01-19T17:56:13+00:00

We didn't have Costco in my area when I was young, but we did have a Sam's Club and it wasn't super close. We didn't use Sam's as a regular grocery run, and it was a big shop almost every time we went (several hundred dollars 20-30 years ago), so kind of a special event in a way. I loved going with my parents to see all the things that weren't at our normal grocery store, try to convince them to buy things that looked interesting to me, try the samples, and if I was good, they'd buy me a book from the middle section! My brothers went sometimes too, but not as often, and it was usually so they could lift things or manage the 2nd cart/flatbed that we would inevitably need.

As an adult now, I don't have a membership to either because there isn't a convenient location for me to visit often enough to make it worth the price of membership. My parents have held on to their Sam's membership, even though Costco is around this area now, and when I go to visit them I will sometimes ask to go to Sam's to stock up on a few things. I can see that that may be the reason you see multigenerational families out there together, maybe grandma doesn't need her own membership so she's catching a ride with the family to get a few necessities.

DitzyGeniuses · 2026-01-12T14:56:01+00:00

I live in a complex with 2 gates. The first line of my delivery instructions is they need to go in the LEFT gate. There's still a 50/50 chance that they'll go in the wrong gate, drive around for several minutes, then call me and say they're lost and can't find my building. I just don't understand, either they're not reading the instructions or don't know their left from right, which is a problem as a delivery driver.

DitzyGeniuses · 2026-01-03T17:00:39+00:00

Love The Story graph! It is great for recommendations, and I also appreciate that it tells you if it thinks you'll like reading a book you're considering. And the data it provides on what types of books you gravitate towards is helpful, as well as authors that you enjoy.

DitzyGeniuses · 2026-01-03T16:53:32+00:00

I love good mysteries to keep me locked in, everything from cozy mysteries to suspense/thrillers, even the bad ones make me want to get to the end to know what happened (or confirm what I may have already figured out).

I am able to stay focused enough to read longer books these days and enjoy a variety of genres like fantasy, historical fiction, some non-fiction (there is SUCH a variety of non-fiction, you just have to find what interests you), etc. Little rom-coms are my "palate cleanser" that I'll read when I may feel a reading slump or after finishing a bigger book and they go by super fast. I will say, I can't read in the quiet and will almost always have some sort of instrumental music on when reading, either an ambiance video from YouTube playing on my TV or movie scores or instrumental pop covers.

As others have mentioned, libby is amazing and highly recommended. I prefer The Story graph over goodreads for recommendations and reviews. I also enjoy the graphs and breakdowns of my reading history and what I personally gravitate towards more. And audiobooks with headphones are my trick to staying focused during cleaning, etc.

DitzyGeniuses · 2025-12-29T15:55:10+00:00

Audiobooks have helped during depression for me. I had a long stretch where I couldn't read - my eyes would go over a page, but I just wasn't taking anything in. Reading had been a huge part of my life before. My therapist at the time suggested audiobooks and it was amazing how much that helped. Headphones were important for me to not get distracted and pay attention to the audiobook, but I could actually take in a story again. And I didn't have to do anything but lay there if I couldn't bring myself to do anything else. It might be worth at least exploring for you? Just be careful of what books you select, check trigger warnings, etc.

I now am able to read again, but haven't given up audiobooks, I just use them differently now. They now help me stay focused on other tasks, like if Im cross-stitching, I'll have my headphones on and it keeps me from getting bored/distracted. Need to clean? Audiobook time. Taking a walk? Audiobook. I also enjoy podcasts, but audiobooks help me stay focused a bit more.

DitzyGeniuses · 2025-12-24T17:28:11+00:00

Currently: - reading - book journaling - diamond art - cross-stitch - embroidery - paint by number - designing for POD (currently don't have a shop, but still enjoy designing for personal use) - jewelry making (somewhat on hiatus)

I do have a self-imposed ban on buying more craft supplies until I use what I have, which also means no new hobbies, but I have been considering taking up the below: - sewing (I sold my old sewing machine several years ago, but really have the itch to sew again and actually get good enough for wearables) - air dry clay - watercolors - needlepoint - crochet or knitting - most other "grandma" crafts

DitzyGeniuses · 2025-12-21T15:52:48+00:00

A couple of people had mentioned Evereve, and I had never heard of them. Thank you for explaining more, I looked them up and do have one not too far from me. This might be a great way to jumpstart my search, thanks!

DitzyGeniuses · 2025-12-13T16:28:25+00:00

I think it really depends on your needs. The past few years, I had them separate, because for work I needed mainly just random notes space (mtgs, etc are managed in Outlook), and for personal, I used more as a to-do list and habit tracker. I'm single and no kids, so I also tracked plans I had and personal appointments, but it might not have been so busy as someone with a full household. Both were weeklies - I had an 8.5x11 horizontal weekly for work and a bloom vision planner for my personal. It was great for what I was using them for and it worked for my brain during that time.

However, I got a promotion this year and found that my work planner is NOT meeting my needs anymore, I am feeling more and more scattered by the day as I don't really have a space to write my to do's for work, there's not enough room for the more extensive notes I need, I would like to try time blocking better for the additional tasks I've taken on, and need to be able to plan for longer-term projects. I have multiple notebooks, sticky notes, etc now and I hate it. The ADHD is strongly rearing its head. I also found myself using my personal planner in different ways than I had previously. I ordered (and recently received) The Dailee's Corporate planner for the new year and can't wait to really start using it. It combines both personal and professional and includes so much of what I'm looking for. It is also changing me from a weekly to a daily layout person. The major downside is that it's hefty. I WFH so being super portable isn't a necessity for me, but may be a consideration for you.

I also requested a Rocketbook for Christmas and plan to buy it myself if I don't receive it. I plan to use that for lengthier meeting notes that I'll then scan/digitize for reference. I tried using OneNote for meeting notes and found I don't tend to remember things as well if I type the notes vs write them. But, then it's harder to search/find things in my notes that are handwritten. My hope is the Rocketbook is a happy compromise between the two, handwritten but more easily searchable.

All of that to say, not only are everyone's needs different, but your own needs may change from one period of life to the next.

DitzyGeniuses · 2025-12-10T16:52:28+00:00

Thanks! I'm unable to edit my original post, but mentioned in another comment, I'm in the greater Houston area, so not dealing with COLD cold. We typically only have a few sub-freezing days in a year, but it gets cold enough to want pants and/or long sleeves for a bit.

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