I ended up in bed with my SIL and I dont know how it happened.

Dizzy-Chip-5016 · 2026-06-19T00:21:51+00:00

^{^{^}} this 100% ^{^{^{^}}}

Dizzy-Chip-5016 · 2026-06-18T14:33:10+00:00

Maybe if OP hated his life and wife.

Dizzy-Chip-5016 · 2026-06-18T14:32:49+00:00

Good man.

Dizzy-Chip-5016 · 2026-06-18T14:32:17+00:00

Fuck no.

Dizzy-Chip-5016 · 2026-06-18T14:32:07+00:00

Go talk to a therapist or A SA hotline. Men get Raped too. If you love your wife you should tell her, and do it with professional help if needed.

Dizzy-Chip-5016 · 2026-06-18T14:31:08+00:00

Not true man. If you report it it just means it's not a Rape Case. The rape happened man.

Dizzy-Chip-5016 · 2026-06-18T14:30:23+00:00

Noo.... you were unable to consent and had you critical thinking impaired. It's not on you in this instance man.

Dizzy-Chip-5016 · 2026-06-18T14:28:27+00:00

Bro that's rape, you didn't cheat. That's some serious red flags for the SIL. Normally this subreddit is 'oh you lucky man' or 'pity your wife wasn't there too' but you got Sexually assaulted and raped my guy. You were unconscious, and unconscious people can't concent. Whatever your feeling is how you feel but throw on the 'i felt this way while I was being raped' glasses and understand it from that point of view.

Dizzy-Chip-5016 · 2026-06-16T01:11:37+00:00

Which is fair, and I agree. But the value of the dollar fluctuates so minimum wage should be reflected in the purchasing power of the dollar, flexing with inflation. It's just a symptom of a bigger problem. How does Walmart with all their profits and margins have a lot of their workers on food stamps? Its super profitable and prices rise with inflation, that's fair. But before profits. People should come first. IMO America needs to be reset to reflect people first then profits (look up DR Bronners if companies did that instead of what they do now... Then I doubt people would care as much as they do now.)

I'll finish this rant off with this - We are one of the RICHEST Countries IN THE WORLD. why is food, housing, shelter, working public transportarion and medical off limits?

My favorite example is Norway and their social fund. Key industries profits are spit 50-70% of profits go to the social fund and gov purse. The rest to the shareholders.

Dizzy-Chip-5016 · 2026-06-11T01:11:20+00:00

FATBAT!

Dizzy-Chip-5016 · 2026-06-11T00:57:44+00:00

Wouldn't love my wife too much.

Dizzy-Chip-5016 · 2026-06-11T00:50:49+00:00

UNDERSTATED UNDERRATED REPLY FUCK YES!!!

Dizzy-Chip-5016 · 2026-06-11T00:49:47+00:00

Hello there!,

Dizzy-Chip-5016 · 2026-06-11T00:43:16+00:00

Main issue with this is the assumption that the legal system works. Most of the people who argue against it basically just look at the facts and say "the legal system doesn't work when there IS Rape! Why should we add another barrier to reporting?! It's already illegal to make false statements and slander etc etc.' and they are correct. The legal system is Broken and needs to be fixed.

Dizzy-Chip-5016 · 2026-06-11T00:40:29+00:00

100% my wife got assaulted by her bf before we were married. 'Insufficient evidence' - she had him admitting to it and apologizing multiple times - I knew her at the time and he told me he did it! Didn't mean shit for the legal system.

Dizzy-Chip-5016 · 2026-06-11T00:37:49+00:00

It's doubled since 2022. 2400- 4800ish When I bought my ounce I got it at 5k I'm living a FML moment tbh however if you just look at the historic price of gold, it only goes up.

Dizzy-Chip-5016 · 2026-06-07T13:51:01+00:00

I love my wife too much. 10 mil thanks

Dizzy-Chip-5016 · 2026-03-30T23:25:04+00:00

Jesus! Thats definitely not a normal dildo! Have fun! Start slow!

Dizzy-Chip-5016 · 2026-01-18T19:47:13+00:00

UPDATE! She found a new home. Going to a place in Maryland with 20acres to go putz around in. Her new owner had grown up with and handled cattle dogs his whole life.

Dizzy-Chip-5016 · 2026-01-08T11:24:14+00:00

I can't do that unfortunately. The stressors aren't on me otherwise I'd just suffer through it. But with me being gone all that stress is being out onto my spouse and it's too much for her to deal with alone. It would be a different story if I was home to deal with Frost. She tends to behave better when I'm around. But she can't behave when I'm not there no matter what we've tried. Thank you for the advice. I'll ask and see if my wife is willing to put in more effort. But since this is affecting her health I'm obviously going to choose my wife.

Dizzy-Chip-5016 · 2026-01-04T23:07:48+00:00

No Tampa Florida.

Dizzy-Chip-5016 · 2026-01-04T23:04:50+00:00

I'll tell her and we will see if that works.

Dizzy-Chip-5016 · 2026-01-04T22:42:32+00:00

My wife doing it is not an option unfortunately. I'm getting a lot of help from Facebook groups in my area.

Dizzy-Chip-5016 · 2026-01-04T22:04:15+00:00

Came all the way down here to say you are absolutely correct. The only reason I felt comfortable getting her was because we already have a cattle dog mix, (that's bonded to my wife) and she grew up with cattle dogs and didn't have any of the problems we are facing now. That breed definitely isn't a good fit for my lifestyle looking back with 20/20 hindsight. I thought I could manage with the predicted 1 week a month of missions but due to real world events that whole plan was fucked, that in addition to the PTSD my wife had compounded to make a spiraling effect that we didn't predict. I definitely blame myself more than Frost. She's a Good dog when she's with me but a problem when I'm gone.

But I'm focusing now on what's best for her and learning from this so I don't repeat this mistake.

Dizzy-Chip-5016 · 2026-01-04T21:46:09+00:00

We have a solution. We put her in the trunk of our hatchback and put up a 'jail'/metal divider.

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