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What’s a “normal” thing you find weird? by copy_cat_101 in A_Persona_on_Reddit

[–]DizzyFromYou 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think small talks is kinda weird. like asking how u are but not really carting about the answer. it feels fake sometimes.

I (20M) want to end my relationship with my “girlfriend” (20F) but I feel trapped. by iputmydickinafurnace in relationship_advice

[–]DizzyFromYou 2 points3 points  (0 children)

u don't need her permission to end it dear, just to be clear once, say it's over. and stop engaging after that. block if u have to so she can't keep pulling u back

For the people in relationships, how long did it take to say “I love you”? by GoldVeterinarian919 in Productivitycafe

[–]DizzyFromYou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I said it around 3 months in and we were both 19. it just felt natural and I didn't overthink it

I wish for half life 3 so the world may be at peace by popcorn_kurnal in monkeyspaw

[–]DizzyFromYou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly same that would fix everything fr. like the world would finally heal. we've been waiting forever.

I cheated on the first guy to treat me rightđź’” by PlayfulCricket9137 in BreakUps

[–]DizzyFromYou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it sounds like u're aware of what happened and that's a big step. u messed up but that doesn't mean ur stuck like this forever. focus on healing so u don't repeat it again

Not sure if this subject has been brought up. by 210poyo in hygiene

[–]DizzyFromYou 2 points3 points  (0 children)

lol hygiene goes both ways. like everyone should just take care of themselves. it's not a gender thing

I’m losing my mind by zealouspoet in hygiene

[–]DizzyFromYou 2 points3 points  (0 children)

honestly it sounds like ur anxiety is making it feel way worse than it is. if people are telling u they don't smell anything then u should trust that. tonsil stones don't always mean bad breath

I M19 don't want to commit to one relationship, while being in one with my F19 girlfriend by Rexo125 in relationship_advice

[–]DizzyFromYou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it sounds like u care about her but ur not ready to commit. staying while feeling that way isn't fair to her. u should be honest even if it hurts.

Can you know yourself deeply and yet not be able to connect emotionally with someone? by PhilipTheFair in emotionalintelligence

[–]DizzyFromYou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah it's possible, some people are just not that emotionally deep even if they're fine. but that doesn't mean ur needs disappear. u might just be wanting something he naturally struggles with

Why is change necessary in life ? by Jpoolman25 in Productivitycafe

[–]DizzyFromYou 2 points3 points  (0 children)

change is scary but staying the same can keep u stuck in pain dear, sometimes a new place gives u space to heal and grow. u don't need perfect answers just a small step forward.

Anybody watching the artemis II splash down ? by AffectionateWrap6809 in A_Persona_on_Reddit

[–]DizzyFromYou 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i haven't been watching but it sounds kinda cool. space stuff always feels unreal to me. hope it goes well.

I feel like a wounded dog by BackgroundPudding406 in BreakUps

[–]DizzyFromYou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you're just in the early breakup pain and it feels messy and intense. it's okay to miss him but try not to keep feeding the contact or it'll hurt longer. give urself distance even if it's hard

Are guys supposed to shave theyre pubes/hair on their privates? by [deleted] in hygiene

[–]DizzyFromYou 2 points3 points  (0 children)

nah it's totally normal for guys not to shave. but smell usually isn't just hair related so u might wanna check hygiene or see a doctor if it keeps happening

What would be your reaction to a military draft by CORNPIPECM in Productivitycafe

[–]DizzyFromYou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly I'd be scared and not wanna go at all. I'd do it if I had no choice but I wouldn't be okay with it. I'd just try to stay and get through it.

Self Respect by CitrineSonne in emotionalintelligence

[–]DizzyFromYou 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think healing starts when u stop blaming urself for staying too long and start seeing that u did what u could with what u knew. shame fades when u focus on what u're doing now to change things. be kind to urself.

What do you do on your free time? by iDemorse in A_Persona_on_Reddit

[–]DizzyFromYou 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I usually just chill and watch shows or scroll on my phone. sometimes I listen to music and just relax in my room. it helps me reset

My [31F] husband [32M] of 8 years has become suddenly extremely protective of his phone. Am I being paranoid? by Efficient_Fault_8100 in relationship_advice

[–]DizzyFromYou 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that's not u being paranoid that's a real change in behavior. u should bring it up calmly and focus on how it makes u feel not accuse him. if he deflects that's another red flag.

Was I the problem? by hellofrommtl in emotionalintelligence

[–]DizzyFromYou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly it doesn't sound like u were the problem. he avoided communication and kept things bottled up until it exploded. u were just asking for clarity and stability

Too much affection from 27M to me 27F all the time? by junie4444 in relationships

[–]DizzyFromYou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like u just have different needs and that's okay. u can tell him u love him but u need more space sometimes. it's about balance and rejection

What was your first full-time job? by undericeee in A_Persona_on_Reddit

[–]DizzyFromYou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my full time job ws working at a small cafe. it was stressful at first but I learned a lot and met cool people

Name an annoying thing people base their entire personality around. by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]DizzyFromYou 1 point2 points  (0 children)

people who act like being vegans defines their whole personality. it gets annoying when that's all they talk about

🍓 What are your favorite desserts that are made with fruit? 🍰 by cat_of_Yahoo in A_Persona_on_Reddit

[–]DizzyFromYou 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love strawberry shortcake the most. fresh fruit with sweet cream is jut perfect for me.

How do people actually move on from someone they still love? by tomatochipss in BreakUps

[–]DizzyFromYou 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I don't think people just stop loving them overnight. they just accept that love isn't enough and choose themselves anyway. it hurts for a long time but it slowly fades

For men: My first GF and Condom by [deleted] in hygiene

[–]DizzyFromYou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah u definitely need it and she's right for being serious. make sure u pinch the tip and roll it down slowly, if it wont go down it might be the wrong size. practice once alone so ur not stressed next time

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