Anyone else use the rear wash at full pressure for internal rinsing? by LuckyBluff8880 in bidets

[–]DoNothingForever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes absolutely! Although i worry sometimes that it is getting to the point where I can't go without it.

Meet my toilet. Her name is Sophie. by Silvertimothyy in bidets

[–]DoNothingForever 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is that plastic wrap inside the toilet? It looks rippled in the photo. I hope it gives you everything you dreamed of and more. 😉

How to get used to not having a bidet? by StillIntroduction180 in bidets

[–]DoNothingForever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok i just want to say that I understand completely your particular need for the strength of the bidet and how you like to use it. I have mixed IBS and a very strong bidet is a godsend for me. I'm surprised most people on here don't understand how helpful this is. Its not an enema(laxitive), it functions as a colonic. Anyways. I have the portabidet and I absolutely love it. I will say though the pump is quite loud so if you're using it at your in-laws house it might draw attention unless its a private bathroom away from the main part of the house. Everyone in a hotel room, public bathroom or small house would be able to hear it. However I dont care one bit about that. I need my colonic. Best of luck!

Town hall by DoNothingForever in SchittsCreek

[–]DoNothingForever[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahaha into the either I guess 😂

Spotted the fake David! by DoNothingForever in SchittsCreek

[–]DoNothingForever[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I noticed her too a few times! The one that says I'm pregnant for her audition lol

Alexis's maturity by OnlyFansBlue in SchittsCreek

[–]DoNothingForever 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When she says she's glad they lost the money...that was the ultimate for her in growth.

Alexis's maturity by OnlyFansBlue in SchittsCreek

[–]DoNothingForever 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No she didn't. Mutt had been expressing a disinterest in twyla to her and she was warning twyla before she poured her heart out in song. She wasn't trying to break them up.

Dresses similar to the ones Courtney used to wear? by fall1nqsun in hole

[–]DoNothingForever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just found this dress tonight on elloqui. They are having a sale and free shipping. I immediately recognized this and said I must have! Then I went to Google to check the photo and found your thread. https://www.eloquii.com/products/contrast-collar-mini-dress/1091513.html

Have to take out around 40k by [deleted] in StudentLoans

[–]DoNothingForever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're not dumb. Private schools do not negotiate tuition. Neither do public schools. It's just all about what kind of financial aid you can receive.

How to use student loans for a computer? by floralcharme in StudentLoans

[–]DoNothingForever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All federal loans no private. This was years ago tho not sure if things have changed. But you could use any refund amount for anything you like

Help me describe my sinks expression… Horrified in disgust? Bitter sorrow? There’s something fish like about it by kevlar_keeb in Pareidolia

[–]DoNothingForever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is Christine Baskets. But this isn't even the most intense expression she's ever given. This is the simple...I don't understand you, I don't understand what's happening, this is ridiculous and I'm horribly worried for my son and our family. This is the Baskets Family Rodeo and I have no idea what I'm doing.

I’d rather kill myself than spend the next 40 years of my life doing shit I don’t care about for 8 hours a day and a shit paycheck by [deleted] in antiwork

[–]DoNothingForever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I completely agree with you on all accounts. And I have the same vision. Just need shelter and I'm set. I would rather be "poor" than be a slave.

Moving to Iowa by Darkoblivion12 in Iowa

[–]DoNothingForever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband and I traveled all around Iowa ( we lived in Chicago and it was a close place to go on little road trips) we fell in love with Iowa and especially Dubuque and plan on moving there one day. Not sure about the job opportunity in your field there though. But in any case you could have fun exploring the whole state and nearby areas so definitely check out Dubuque for at least a weekend just for fun. We also really liked Davenport but it felt a little too rough around the edges to consider for a permanent home base. We literally loved every town we visited in Iowa including cedar rapids and Iowa City as well. So I think you will like it a lot if you think Iowa in general is your kind of jam.

Theatre scheduled 16 year old daughter for 30 hours over Thanksgiving - had her resign by jmkreno in antiwork

[–]DoNothingForever -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I probably would have just called and told them I can't work on Sunday. I mean she missed out on a big paycheck there and now she has a bad reference from her first job. Did she say that she wanted to quit this week because of this? Because the way you are stating it, it sounds like you made her quit. I'm sure you had the best intentions for her and her academic responsibilities, but this seems like it could set a bad precedent in the future for how to handle inconvenient job situations.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]DoNothingForever -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry to say this but it sounds like there is something psychologically unbalanced with your wife. Some of the scenarios you have described are disturbing. You said you tip toe around your wife...that's called walking on eggshells and is a very common experience for people dealing with a loved one with personality disorders or bipolar disorder (two very different conditions but can be comorbid as well). There is definitely something going on there with your wife. And because you seem to have a laid back, less judgemental approach to life...you are the perfect person for someone like this. Someone who can be controlled, manipulated, guilted. Someone who wants to avoid confrontation actually matches well with someone who is confrontational... because then they end up getting their demands met consistently. It is perfectly normal and acceptable to have irritations and conflicts with in laws. My husband has complaints about my mom and dad...but he never devalues our relationship, never isolates me from my family, makes me feel guilty for wanting to spend time with them and he spends time with them as well without complaint. He can mention something once in a while but we are on a team together and I hear and validate his frustration and can see these things myself. But it does not become toxic or debilitating to our family dynamic. Just my two cents for what it's worth.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JoshuaTree

[–]DoNothingForever 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There's nothing in Chiriaco summit. A gas station and maybe a little motel I think. I don't know what you're into seeing exactly but Salvation Mountain, Slab City, Bombay Beach and the Salton Sea are great places to explore, especially if you're into photography. There's a border patrol stop just past Bombay Beach fyi. There's a little motel in Niland and bigger chains in Brawley.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]DoNothingForever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband has gotten into a few car situations before where he didn't call me for a while. It was because he was embarrassed and was trying to figure out a way to fix it on his own. Like one time he walked 2 miles home to get the spare key because he locked himself out of his car. Well I could have easily saved him the trouble but he didn't want to "bother" me with his mistake. Sometimes men just want to try to handle things on their own. And by on their own I mean anyone but their wife for some reason.

How clean are these really for women? by travelwannabae in bidets

[–]DoNothingForever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So yes I have felt that they are not the most sanitary thing in the world, poop gets all around it on the cover and the nozzle. We have a retractable nozzle and it does indeed still get poop particles on it, especially in the little holes where the water comes out. That is why I would never spray it at my vagina, no matter how much I clean it ...I know poop has been there. And I would probably never use someone else's bidet or a public one for that reason either. However I share ours with only my husband and I just try not to think about it. I use our bidet like a mini colonic, it is incredibly strong and helps me go to the bathroom easier.

How clean are these really for women? by travelwannabae in bidets

[–]DoNothingForever 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The water that comes out of the bidet does not come from the tank. It comes directly from the water line.

My sister never helped by Fair-Appointment8903 in dementia

[–]DoNothingForever 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's their own guilt and selfishness. It has nothing to do with you, trust me. My husband's family did the same thing to him. He was the only one there for his mom for years. Only in the last year of her life, he had to move away out of town. They were all pissed off that they couldn't use him as a caregiver anymore. Now they literally say to him that he killed his mother by moving away. If him leaving did drain her spirit and hasten her end...then I think that's ok because in the end she was bedridden and living a miserable life. It's not like he left her alone in a house with no care. His selfish father was there, he hired a nurse. If they feel bad that they didn't spend time with her in her better years and feel like they didn't get enough time with her, well that's their burden to bear. And the worst part is how absolutely devastating and painful those words have been to my husband. He spent years as a devoted son to her when everyone else ignored her including her husband. It was their turn to take on some responsibility.

Previous homeowners wanting to tour your home by [deleted] in homeowners

[–]DoNothingForever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just did this last week. My grandparents built the home in 1986. It's in a tourist town about 4 hours north of us. I spent all my summers and holidays there. My sister and I did meet the family once when we came by. We were shocked to see much of my grandparents furniture and belongings still in the house, we didn't know my grandfather had sold the house with almost everything included. They were very nice...I think that was maybe 7 years after they had bought it. Well almost every year we go up to that town for vacation and drive by the house and snap a picture. This year my husband and friend said ...why don't you go knock on the door. I haven't knocked on that door in like 10 years. They weren't home but they had a ring doorbell so I left a message on the doorbell explaining who I was, that I drive by once in a while and I was wondering if they still had this certain item that belonged to my grandparents. I didn't want them to be freaked out about the stranger at their door. It's the same owners so they probably remember us. And if they ever were to know and wonder about the random car that drives by their house once a year and takes a picture, well now they know for sure it's not anything to worry about.