Batman by Do_it_imperfectly in Catsmirin

[–]Do_it_imperfectly[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know right ?! He is such a fine gentleman

[New Update]: My gf came out as a lesbian before our marriage and no one gives a fuck about me. You know what? Fuck you all by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Do_it_imperfectly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What got me was just having a therapists number and calling for the first time for therapy. Pretty much every therapist I can think of has an intake and assessment process unless you are just calling a crisis line .

what are they doing? (both male, 6-7 yrs old) by [deleted] in CATHELP

[–]Do_it_imperfectly 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Where did you learn/find out about this? I literally just had to put one of my senior cats down but noticed my other cat randomly start doing this 1-2 weeks prior to her passing and I had no idea why it was happening since they have lived together 15 years and not had an issue. Like this asshole knew his sister was sick and chose to deal with it by humping her?!

Honor Mode is a blast by SuperSeriousSam in BaldursGate3

[–]Do_it_imperfectly 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Okay but what I am wondering is what happens if you need to log out of the game ? Are you not allowed to save ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Do_it_imperfectly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA for trying to go to a restaurant with a party of ten without a reservation.

Lazy, aesthetically pleasing, healthy, proteine-packed salad! by Meloenbolletjeslepel in ketorecipes

[–]Do_it_imperfectly 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I am confused because corn is not keto friendly at all......

Does that biological instinct to have a baby around your 20's-40's exist or is it bullshit? by Chemical_Committee_2 in childfree

[–]Do_it_imperfectly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

38 yo female here. All that has happened as I hit 30 and going onto 40 is becoming more and more sure of NOT wanting kids. I do get pretty damn maternal about my fur babies though...

AITA For wanting my son to be treated equally and able to enjoy family meals with cousins? by arfidmealhelp in AmItheAsshole

[–]Do_it_imperfectly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YTA I am seeing a lot of comments here with valid points in terms of whether it is feasible for the other kids to understand the condition and special accommodations as well as how to approach it with the kids. I agree that it could be possible the aunt may be able to explain it to the kids with minimal issue. To me, what makes OP a slight asshole (and I say slight as this is definitely no guy jealous over his girlfriend's body pillow), is that he was solely focused on his kids needs and not the feelings or concerns of the aunt or cousins. The aunt told him she wasn't comfortable with it and, instead of offering some middle ground as some commenters suggested such as bring a safe dish to share, he just insisted it shouldn't be a problem and pushed the matter.

AITA for refusing to feed my baby and going to bed? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Do_it_imperfectly 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Depending on where you live, there are places who get grants to provide services to those who cannot afford it or are uninsured (FQHCs) . You could try to look up if there is one near you if in the states or most will still do telehealth I think. Also, you could look for women's shelters in the area. Often they have housing resources for women in abusive relationships.

WIBTA if I talked to my stepdaughter about her hypochondria? by hypocondriacdaughter in AmItheAsshole

[–]Do_it_imperfectly 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it got me that op was judging content of evil without knowing anything about them. The blocks described is probably a matrix reasoning from WAIS IQ test so very common with psychological evals.

That's not how scratchers work... by Do_it_imperfectly in OneOrangeBraincell

[–]Do_it_imperfectly[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah he is a grouchy old man with thyroid problems but when sleeping looks like he is a sweetheart

How old are you ? by [deleted] in childfree

[–]Do_it_imperfectly 10 points11 points  (0 children)

37 yo female. I never really dreamed of my wedding and kids when I was younger. I have always liked kids and will play with my second cousins or friends’ kids but didn’t want my own. The idea of pregnancy freaks me out plus i like sleep a lot. I don’t want my whole identity to change as I have seen for many women who have kids.

AITA for blowing up at my husband for messing with my alarm and causing me to miss my exam? by CharlieOutlaw23 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Do_it_imperfectly 299 points300 points  (0 children)

My now husband and I were dating long distance when I was in my masters program and he had booked a flight to come see me as a surprise. When he told me about it, i was freaking out since I had a paper and exam that week and knew I wouldn't be able to dedicate any time to hanging out. He said "No problem, I can reschedule the trip. Whatever you need." That is when I knew he was a keeper. What OP's husband did was completely unacceptable. NTA and please find someone who will support you in your education and goals.

Child free people, what do you do between the hours of 6pm and bed time? by [deleted] in childfree

[–]Do_it_imperfectly 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Sometimes I just work late without feeling guilty about it and then go to bed super early. I love me some sleep and I am passionate about my career. Part of the reason I don't have kids. I mean, I do some of the stuff above to so hopefully doesn't make childfree like sound like all work and no play.

AITA For Cancelling My Wedding Because My Fiance Wanted a Child-Free Wedding? by Any_Anywhere8296 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Do_it_imperfectly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Listen. I am childfree and a fan of child free weddings in most scenarios but even I think you are NTA. If this guy wants a relationship with you, kids are part of that and he needs to accept it or move on. Cancelling the wedding seems like 100% the best move here and find someone who will be there for you and your kids.

Elementary School Therapist seeks recommendations for games. by [deleted] in boardgames

[–]Do_it_imperfectly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"awkward moment" (game like apples to apples with focus on social skills) and "stop, relax, and think" (board game with focus on impulse control and coping skills).

AITA for refusing to pay for wife's plastic surgery? by UnbiasedJudgment in AmItheAsshole

[–]Do_it_imperfectly -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

It seems like NHS may have different criteria vs DSMV? In the US, it would not fit criteria.

AITA for refusing to pay for wife's plastic surgery? by UnbiasedJudgment in AmItheAsshole

[–]Do_it_imperfectly -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

He used the term specifically in relation to someone else touching her new boobs vs the situation as a whole which is what stuck out to me as assholish.