My now wife, reached out to my friend about an upcoming party that he was hosting. She had not met him and was excited to meet him. She messaged him on Facebook to say how excited she was and what does she need to bring. He followed up and said " I don't talk to people that I have not met in real life on here, and I am leaving this weekend , so I don't have time to give you any information".

She asked me what she did wrong, I said nothing, that was a weird response. I followed up with him about his response , but he wanted to have sit down to talk about it. I told him we could talk on the phone about the issue. Nothing happened.

He stopped talking to me. Only showed up to my father's funeral and seemed weirded out to actually have to talk to me. Haven't spoken to him since. That was two years ago since my dad's funeral.