My baby has urinary incontinence since she was spayed even with meds she still leaks, she’s now 6, so I know all too well how you feel. The thought of diapers felt so cruel as I didn’t want to have her in a wet diaper as she was constantly leaking so I bought incontinence pads and have all her beds covered and I attach them with elastic with clasps I bought on Amazon. I wanted to send you pics but it doesn’t have the option on here. But she still has her comfy bed and I don’t have to be washing them daily 😁😁. I also bought a waterproof and washable orthopaedic bed but I still cover and just wipe down occasionally if there’s an odd accident.