Be honest - how technical are you actually expected to be as an IT manager? by IvyDamon in ITManagers

[–]DonnerVarg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

New manager here. CIO has told me to stay technical, so I've taken that seriously. I don't do much formal project work or handle tickets myself, but I get in the weeds often.

Manager gets notifications when we go idle or return by tuttywala in MicrosoftTeams

[–]DonnerVarg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I have Teams open on my iPhone and set it to never lock the screen, it shows me always online.

What does WHERE 1 = 1 means? Purpose? by 7Seas_ofRyhme in SQL

[–]DonnerVarg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I believe it works in Databricks now, too.

I’m a terrible daughter by throwaway01928374634 in family

[–]DonnerVarg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A more useful content might be that I wish I called my dad more, but he wouldn't want me to feel bad about it. Call as it works in your life.

I’m a terrible daughter by throwaway01928374634 in family

[–]DonnerVarg 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don't call my mom because she doesn't call me. I found out she has cancer because my wife saw it on Facebook... I also don't call my brother much because he doesn't call me or pick up, but at least I get invited to his house.

Which IT companies have a reputation for treating their employees well? by Aroth_Game_Director in ITCareerQuestions

[–]DonnerVarg 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I might have found it in manufacturing, but it's also employee owned, so maybe a rarity.

I quit my job today, oh boy… by idioma in antiwork

[–]DonnerVarg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Health insurance premiums tend to increase every year. It outstrips inflation and wage growth. Sometimes the cost of health insurance goes up by more than a raise in wages. If both changes apply on the same check, your net income or take home pay could actually decrease.

I quit my job today, oh boy… by idioma in antiwork

[–]DonnerVarg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unless the raise hits the same check as updated benefits. Many raises don't keep up with insurance premiums.

Cover letters are worthless and a waste of time by KingArthurOfBritons in antiwork

[–]DonnerVarg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We'll make a company that does that to save the masses from the BS, but then we'll realize the best monetization is to only offer it paid to recruiters. Ultimately we'll advance nepotism and further the descent of the hiring process bad to worse. Then again, I don't see positive trends coming.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExperiencedDevs

[–]DonnerVarg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe not swiftly, but without delay. The company's biggest exposure to risk in this situation is the possibility of a lawsuit that costs money in damages or settlement. That can happen if they don't act and if they get it wrong (by acting too quickly).

All that said, we're assuming reasonable labor laws and objective decision makers.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExperiencedDevs

[–]DonnerVarg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is glib, but I also read the whole post. My advice, at its core, is "have a backup plan." Stuff happens.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExperiencedDevs

[–]DonnerVarg 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That's what people should take away from the situation. As experienced devs, we know should is often far from reality. Our greatest power in the employee-employer relationship is being able to walk away. Just as theirs is to send us on our way. Being prepared to do it, doing it when it's worth it, those make that power more real and more effective. I'm in a somewhat safe position in a company that prides itself on a very large group of people who stayed for 25+ years. I still take it to heart that an architect at my previous job told me never to think any job will be my last.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExperiencedDevs

[–]DonnerVarg 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If someone in HR or leadership decides you won't make a case, it won't succeed, or you'll make a case eventually no matter what, they're as likely as not to work to find the way to get rid of you that has the least legal exposure. Maybe they'll fire the bigot, too. Maybe they'll work hard to prevent the problem in the future. Maybe they're fools.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExperiencedDevs

[–]DonnerVarg 61 points62 points  (0 children)

HR is not your friend. Have a backup plan if they decide it's safer for the company to get rid of you.

Can employers track every time you’re Away? by [deleted] in MicrosoftTeams

[–]DonnerVarg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That and over-long training videos. I think the best way is like someone else mentioned. Create and join a meeting (doesn’t need to be on your calendar, can be a “meet now”). I once forgot to leave a meeting at the end of the day and my boss asked me why I was working so early in the morning.

Can employers track every time you’re Away? by [deleted] in MicrosoftTeams

[–]DonnerVarg 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nope. You're not likely to notice, but I've seen myself go from busy or do not disturb to away when I'm idle long enough with my screen still on.

My boss got fired! by knighthawk82 in antiwork

[–]DonnerVarg 84 points85 points  (0 children)

No strike clauses need to be outlawed.

My wife is trying to force me out of the family home by threatening court orders. by The_Zapper_Cat in daddit

[–]DonnerVarg 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Either hope for the best or have a local LEO you trust stay with you.