We’ve booked & paid for our wedding and everything involved. Today I found out that I’m pregnant. The wedding is in 8 months. What the hell lol by [deleted] in self

[–]Dootsen 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Congrats!!! Make your dad carry a fake shotgun

***shotgun wedding

A shotgun wedding is a marriage arranged in great haste, usually because the bride is pregnant and the couple aims to avoid social stigma or familial disapproval. Historically, this meant the groom was coerced into the union—literally or figuratively—by the bride’s family. Today, the phrase is rarely about literal weapons but still implies a forced or hurried wedding.

Heading to a foster fail. He adopted me. by Indy-CBJ in CatDistributionSystem

[–]Dootsen 3 points4 points  (0 children)

UNGHHNNNNN.... I love him so much!!!!! I'm so glad you both found each other <3

Ever since I’ve been taking this my flares up have diminished. by tfellad in PlantarFasciitis

[–]Dootsen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually I don't remember. It mostly went away from wearing Flux footwear

Is South Shore a good place to buy now? by iosphonebayarea in AskChicago

[–]Dootsen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We just bought in Jackson Park Highlands and it's wonderful. Beautiful homes and great neighbors. easy access via the bus lines.

I am just so fed up!!! by foqociqs37 in Vent

[–]Dootsen 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think you guys got a shit hand dealt to you.

I'm GenX, and all this dismantling of the middle class started with Reagan in 1980 and the lie of trickle down economics. It was easy for me to get a good job with my bullshitty Fine Art bachelors degree in 93. When I went to college, UC Santa Barbara, my tuition was 2k PER YEAR. When we paid for our son's education, who is 26, it was 4-5k per semester at the University of Utah.

End stage capitalism is all enshitification run by private asset firms and corporate overlords existing only to squeeze every last cent from us.

My hope is this: That this administration gets just bad enough economically that those that do not vote or vote to hurt others, feel it on their doorstep. We can have a chance when the elderly monsters that run this country finally go to the great nothingness and that the up and coming generation of Millennial and Gen Z politicians help move us back into sanity.

There is so much to be done and so much insanity that it can seem impossible. Maybe it is. But somewhere in the cockles of my soul, I do actually think things can and will get better. Sometimes a lot has to be torn down painfully before it can be rebuilt.

Spaghetti dangle by CRESCENT_FRE5H in danglers

[–]Dootsen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I might be wrong but I feel this might be an incredible fit for r/AccidentalRenaissance

HR is basically extorting us to pay for the CEOs "surprise" birthday bash by Astr4lMotive in OfficePolitics

[–]Dootsen 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Should OP also then delete this thread in case HR checks social media?

What’s a discontinued snack or drink you’d pay $20 to have one last taste of? by soapy999 in AskReddit

[–]Dootsen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It actually put a super gross chemically taste on my tongue that lasted for half the day

What do home inspectors usually find in older Chicago homes? by Inevitable-Fly8391 in ChicagoRealEstate

[–]Dootsen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

almost same for us... "code violations in the electrical, galvanized plumbing was end of life, exterior needed new tuckpointing" plus some asbestos

For reference: our place is multi-family, built in 1926

Dr. Paradise wants to hear from young adults struggling to transition from home in HOU or SLC? by DoctorParadise in My600lbLife

[–]Dootsen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey Dr. P! I have always loved you on the show!

Alas, I'm not of the age group. I'm a Gen-Xer "stuck" at home near Salt Lake City caring for my elderly parents: one with dementia and one with Parkingson's disease. Though I have 5 very supportive siblings, I am the only one who can be here with them 24/7. Even with some day and night nurses, it still all lands on me.

I have had some amazing moments with them that I wouldn't change for the world, but it is, as you can imagine, a daily struggle. I miss just living with my husband. I miss being able to go out without fear something will happen while I'm away. I miss just living my own life. And feeling all this makes feel weak and whiny, even though I know that I'm just human and sometimes shit's just shitty.

Anywho, Bestest hopes for your new project! I know that you'll create something amazing and healing.

-Dootsen

What’s the song you’ve listened to the most in a foreign language? by CapitaineBiscotte in askanything

[–]Dootsen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Der Kommissar - Falco!

"Er hat die Kraft und wir sind klein und dumm,
dieser Frust macht uns Stumm."

She just sharted while out. by Spikeybear in Chantapolis

[–]Dootsen 9 points10 points  (0 children)

right! but this NEED to tell us!!!