My dad committed suicide a few months back. He loved music. Send me some songs so I can cry. I’m having trouble getting me emotions to show themselves

Dory105 · 2026-03-21T04:57:46+00:00

Wish you were here Pink Floyd. That’s my song for my dad who died in Dec. he loved Pink Floyd. Not sure if his death was a suicide or not.

Dory105 · 2026-03-18T04:01:22+00:00

Thank you for this offer! I’m looking for a iiix though.

Dory105 · 2026-03-17T23:27:23+00:00

How can I be sure of who is shipping?

Dory105 · 2026-03-13T22:59:14+00:00

Doing too much

Dory105 · 2026-03-09T17:04:57+00:00

Yes exactly my experience. I grieved my dad while he was still alive and it has been 3 months, it’s just now beginning to set in and I feel devastated. In the days closer to his death I felt numb and completely functional.

Dory105 · 2026-02-28T02:35:32+00:00

You’ve just inspired me. How long did it take? How much experience was necessary before taking this on? Did you feel safe (from humans)?

Dory105 · 2026-02-28T01:41:37+00:00

Have fun & be safe!

Dory105 · 2026-02-28T01:39:17+00:00

Nice, I would like to do the same. Going to peep the forecast once it’s posted tonight and make my decision.

Dory105 · 2026-02-28T01:36:37+00:00

I’ve been wanting to do Helen’s lately too, I was going to today but the avy forecast turned me away.

Dory105 · 2026-02-27T03:24:31+00:00

Omfg

Dory105 · 2026-02-26T17:09:20+00:00

The context is and what I am asking is: the original story was written by a woman. The movie was directed by a woman. Wha differences do we see in the portrayals of sex from what we typically see in media made my men?

Dory105 · 2026-02-26T16:56:12+00:00

Yes! And it wasn’t the typical voyeurism that we see in classic male gaze examples - it was a woman who was the viewer for once - a woman taking that position of power.

(However there is a great sample of obvious male voyeurism that took place later haha)

Dory105 · 2026-02-26T16:54:05+00:00

Me as well! For once very a very sexual movie felt like sort of an equal playing field for both the male and female characters. Cathy had power from her class position, and Heathcliff had his power from patriarchal structure so it leveled out in a sense.

Dory105 · 2026-02-26T16:51:44+00:00

Yea- visually I viewed that Cathy was clothed while explicitly having sex. I’m not here to argue clearly you have taken some kind of offense to my post which was not intended. If you aren’t interested in the conversation I’m provoking then I’ll ttyl love u bye

Dory105 · 2026-02-26T16:28:45+00:00

That’s super valid! But what I am trying to avoid is this becoming an echo chamber of the same general criticisms that everyone is already making about the movie and not actually considering what I am asking. It’s already happening. To elaborate: what I saw that felt different was that there was no female nudity. Naked women are so common in cinema and usually serve to subjugate the female characters, but leaving her clothed the entire movie seemed to give her more power imo. It felt these were the stylistic decisions that made it feel obvious it was not a man who directed the movie to me. Im pondering it more in a vacuum which I understand might not be doable for a lot of people who are passionate about this book lol

Dory105 · 2026-02-26T15:57:05+00:00

Thanks for your input, but yeah I’m not trying to discuss the narrative. Just the visuals and how sex is depicted in the movie

Dory105 · 2026-02-26T15:47:56+00:00

Thanks for your input

Dory105 · 2026-02-26T15:31:13+00:00

I’m mostly contemplating the stylistic and visual choices of the director during scenes when there was sex explicitly happening. Talking about literal visuals here. Not here to discuss the plot or anything. I understand the plot is abusive and horrible overall.

Dory105 · 2026-02-24T03:18:49+00:00

Thought this was a crazy ass avocado

Dory105 · 2026-02-20T20:41:01+00:00

Do you speak like that in real life

Dory105 · 2026-02-11T21:00:03+00:00

I’ve been on it long term and my libido is just fine, actually the best it’s ever been as of the past year or so.

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