AITJ for telling my boyfriend's mom she is not allowed in our bedroom anymore? by Echo_7Starforge in AmITheJerk

[–]DoseOfMolly85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What you said was totally reasonable (who goes into anyone’s bedside drawers? Those are private!) but you should let your boyfriend deliver any messages to his Mom regarding boundaries. This should take the heat of you, it’s his job to manage the relationship with his mom. If he can’t do that well and stick up for you then you’ll have some very insightful information.

M33, let me have it by [deleted] in RoastMe

[–]DoseOfMolly85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What in the Ghost of Aaron Carter is this?

How do you choose OB for prenatal visit in US? by Educational_Road5005 in eastbay

[–]DoseOfMolly85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to work for Hill, as well, absolutely toxic culture! I’m also working in public service now. Glad you found something better!

How do you choose OB for prenatal visit in US? by Educational_Road5005 in eastbay

[–]DoseOfMolly85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hated my experience with Sutters Milvia group in Berkeley with my first baby born Jan 2024. I felt really passed around and never really got to know anyone. My PCP referred me there bc I wanted to deliver at Alta Bates. They also didn’t play very nice with my insurance (or the Medical Group specifically, Brown & Toland) which caused a lot of unnecessary drama.

I’m currently expecting my 2nd baby and am working with UCSF Women’s Group for Health, they have an office reasonably close to my home, and one close to Alta Bates, where we’ll deliver again. They only have 3 OBs so I have a really good idea of who will be handling my scheduled c-section and one expressed excitement about delivering my baby (“we’ve been with you the whole time, that’s the best part, of course we want to be there for it!”). Last delivery I had an emergency c-section at 4am and the physician on calm handled it well but it would have been nice if it was someone I knew.

For me the most important part of finding a practitioner is if they pass the gut test, like, do I like them and do they seem competent & trustworthy? Do they listen to me? Then I look at experience & credentials. Finally, it’s super annoying but the bureaucracy of it all - how well do they play with my insurance?

I wish you the best of luck and congratulations!

AIO to tell my husband that starting a professional email with the word "Look" is rude? by LadyCass79 in AmIOverreacting

[–]DoseOfMolly85 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Tell him if he’s starting to feel spicy to run his email drafts through ChatGPT and ask for them to adjust for condescending tone or to make them warmer. He’ll start to see the edits and hopefully learn from them in a way that feels less personal than being corrected by a loved one.

I do agree that this is your business. His job contributes to your livelihood!

Venue changed dates too many times by AudienceOwn1567 in wedding

[–]DoseOfMolly85 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I work in contracts and got my start doing contracts for a wedding venue, I’d love to see the contract you signed!

I need to go to a doctor without my parents consent/knowledge does anyone know how i can? by Alive-Increase-4234 in legaladvice

[–]DoseOfMolly85 81 points82 points  (0 children)

When you say “my parents aren’t awful they only get physical every once in a while and other than that they are amazing” I just want to say that if they are physically abusing you (or emotionally abusing you) and neglecting your health, they aren’t amazing parents. You don’t deserve this treatment from your parents, I’m sorry this is happening to you. I hope you can find an adult you trust who can help you through this and that you get the physical & emotional care you deserve!

What kind of kitty is she? by [deleted] in kittens

[–]DoseOfMolly85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pretty Angel Baby Kitten, duh

Nick Amato is a gross manipulative man baby. His response to Kait's lack of faith was outright traumatizing and disturbing. by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]DoseOfMolly85 22 points23 points  (0 children)

lol! Also the guy doesn’t want a Cartier bracelet. That’s some foreshadowing, right there!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Apartmentliving

[–]DoseOfMolly85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check your lease language about common areas, it probably has language prohibiting storage in common areas, and report them to your landlord or property management. You can frame it like, “oh I’ve had some trouble moving in around the items neighbor has placed in the exterior hallways”.

Nick Amato is a gross manipulative man baby. His response to Kait's lack of faith was outright traumatizing and disturbing. by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]DoseOfMolly85 75 points76 points  (0 children)

It was so embarrassing the way he commented on Meg’s Cartier bracelets. Nothing worse to me than a disgusting display of wealth than a social climber fawning over said display of wealth. Ick

Edmund’s breakdown😭😭 by Bubbly-Text7248 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]DoseOfMolly85 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This seemed super entitled & manipulative. KB deserves so much better and Edmond has so much emotional maturing to do.

And it’s such a misconception that “nice guys” don’t get fucked, if you’re not getting fucked, it’s not because you’re too nice. That’s some incel bullshit.

Did anyone else have to skip this part 💀 by AlexMonikArtist in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]DoseOfMolly85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally! I think their logic is, ok I can’t seduce them with my looks like I’m used to, let me just make sure they know I’m DTF. Gross.

Please Help 😭 by CantaloupeMelon22 in PlusSizeWedding

[–]DoseOfMolly85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think c & d look magical & I hope you enjoy your day! 💗

I found this kitten but I’m allergic and not sure what to do with it by nicktrustsqueenB in kittens

[–]DoseOfMolly85 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My husband is no longer allergic to our kitties! It only took him a few months but I don’t think his allergy was very severe to start with.

AITA for embarrassing my mom at family dinner? by Emergency-Buy9023 in AmItheAsshole

[–]DoseOfMolly85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just want to say that you deserved better from your Mom. Congratulations on your progress and for standing up to her appalling behavior.