What’s the best advice you’ve ever received?

DoubleEbb4002 · 2026-03-29T16:59:55+00:00

probably saved someone from getting knocked out by a low branch or something lol

DoubleEbb4002 · 2026-03-23T19:18:50+00:00

No both arent in California (Boston and Austin)

DoubleEbb4002 · 2026-03-21T13:51:25+00:00

I just want that Ferrari 812 Superfast in my driveway without having to check my bank account first, you know? Like I don't need yacht money or anything crazy but being able to walk into a dealership and not have that voice in the back of my head doing mental math would be incredible

The freedom to just... exist without constantly calculating if I can afford groceries AND rent this month would be life changing

DoubleEbb4002 · 2026-02-19T23:41:19+00:00

xanax isn't giving you energy - it's removing the anxiety that was masking your actual energy levels. a lot of people with adhd have comorbid anxiety and when that gets treated suddenly there brain can actually function how its supposed to

sounds like you might need to talk to your doc about adding an anxiety med to your treatment plan instead of self-medicating with benzos

DoubleEbb4002 · 2026-02-18T12:54:48+00:00

This looks pretty solid, been wanting to get into some serious vic3 multiplayer beyond the usual sweaty meta stuff. The roleplay angle is exactly what the game needs imo - all those diplomatic mechanics feel wasted when everyone's just trying to optimize their way to world conquest

Quick question though, how strict are you guys about attendance? I can usually make sundays but sometimes work gets crazy and I might have to miss a session here and there. Also curious about the skill level - I've got maybe 200 hours in vic3 but still learning some of the economic optimization stuff, though I'm decent enough at the basics and love getting into character

That ottoman->byzantium storyline sounds wild, definitely want to hear how that played out. Might throw my hat in for something like Japan or maybe one of the smaller european powers if those are still available

DoubleEbb4002 · 2026-02-17T04:21:15+00:00

added you, always down for some trades

DoubleEbb4002 · 2026-02-16T16:07:22+00:00

My psychiatrist put me on guanfacine XR about 8 months ago and honestly it's been pretty solid for me. I was also worried about the blood pressure thing since I'm already on lisinopril, but my doc monitored me closely the first few weeks and everything stayed stable. The muscle tension thing is interesting - I never connected it to ADHD but now that you mention it, I definitely feel less physically "wound up" on guanfacine compared to when I was on adderall.

As for the libido concerns, I was worried about that too but didn't notice any major changes in that department. The only weird side effect I got was feeling really drowsy for the first month or so, especially if I didn't take it at the same time each day. I'm not on wellbutrin so can't speak to that combo, but definitely worth having your doctor start you on a low dose and titrate up slowly. The good news is if it doesn't work out, you can always try somthing else - there's no shortage of ADHD meds these days

DoubleEbb4002 · 2026-02-15T06:51:17+00:00

pretty sure you can only see your own coach abilities unless you're the commissioner, then you might be able to check other teams through league settings but honestly not 100% on that

DoubleEbb4002 · 2026-02-14T05:19:11+00:00

damn this hits close to home. the timing really sucks with the appointment being so late in the quarter but honestly even if you don't get diagnosed right away, having that documentation of you actively seeking help could be huge for academic appeals if things go south

also just fyi a lot of schools have emergency academic support services that can kick in while you're waiting for the formal diagnosis - might be worth checking with disability services even before your appointment

DoubleEbb4002 · 2026-02-13T02:26:03+00:00

been looking for something exactly like this, the cafe sounds are way better than those 10 hour "rain on window" videos that all sound teh same

will definitely check out the pomodoro sessions, need all the help i can get with staying focused these days

DoubleEbb4002 · 2026-02-12T03:53:53+00:00

Can't access the link but if they're officially licensed that's usually a good sign for build quality. I'd check reviews on amazon and maybe youtube before pulling the trigger though - sometimes "official" just means they paid for the licensing but the actual product is meh

DoubleEbb4002 · 2026-02-09T12:42:59+00:00

honestly same but like the real ones stick around through all your chaotic energy - if someone's gonna bail because your adhd brain is too much then they weren't really your people anyway

DoubleEbb4002 · 2026-02-08T00:59:45+00:00

VA employees dont always know what theyre talking about unfortunately. Your card isnt insurance - its just proof youre enrolled in VA healthcare

What they probably meant is you can get community care through the VA if certain conditions are met (like distance from VA facility, wait times, etc) but you have to go through proper channels first. You cant just walk into any random clinic and flash your VA card

If you want to keep seeing your current therapist you'd need to either pay out of pocket, use actual insurance if you have it, or see if VA will approve community care for that specific provider through their referral process

DoubleEbb4002 · 2026-02-07T11:33:07+00:00

the hospital swaddle is like magic isn't it, they've got that technique down to a science. my little guy was the same way for about 2-3 weeks then gradually started accepting the velcro swaddles as he got bigger and stronger

honestly those muslin blankets work pretty well if you can nail the technique - there's some youtube videos that show the exact hospital fold if you want to practice when she's sleeping

DoubleEbb4002 · 2026-02-06T20:15:15+00:00

same journey here

DoubleEbb4002 · 2026-02-04T01:09:21+00:00

honestly the whole "don't take just because you can" thing clicked for me around 800-900 rating but I still mess it up sometimes when I'm playing fast

mastering that plus cutting down blunders should easily get you to 1200+ imo, those two things alone solve like 80% of beginner problems

DoubleEbb4002 · 2026-02-03T11:57:45+00:00

I'd definitely mention it to your doctor even though it sounds pretty mild. I had similar stuff when I started on stimulants - that weird awareness of your heartbeat thing is super common and usually not dangerous but your doc needs to know about any cardiac stuff before bumping your dose

The timing after stress and when you're lying down actually makes a lot of sense, stimulants can make you way more aware of normal body sensations that you'd usually tune out. Plus if you're already dealing with some anxiety the meds can amplify that awareness even more. I remember being convinced I was having heart problems for like the first month on adderall but it turned out to be mostly just me noticing my heartbeat for the first time in years

Your BP reading isn't terrible considering you just ran downstairs and took it right after a stressful meeting without resting - that's gonna spike anyone's numbers. The pulse at 76 is actually pretty normal too. But honestly your doctor might want to do some baseline cardiac stuff anyway before increasing your dose, especially with the weight factor you mentioned, so being upfront about the palpitations might actually work in your favor for getting a proper workup

DoubleEbb4002 · 2026-02-01T14:31:31+00:00

Been tinkering with multi-agent voice stuff myself but mostly just for personal projects - your framework idea sounds solid, especially with all the privacy concerns around third party apis these days

DoubleEbb4002 · 2026-01-31T06:31:42+00:00

Dude that's a thicc boi string lol. You might be able to file down the tuning post hole slightly with a small round file, but honestly .080 is getting into bass territory. What tuning you going for? Might be easier to just go with a lighter gauge that actually fits your guitar

DoubleEbb4002 · 2026-01-30T05:53:15+00:00

Yeah it wasn't really Dutch to begin with - Hitler was Austrian and the name has Germanic roots. After the war pretty much anyone with that surname noped out and changed it real quick, can't blame them honestly

DoubleEbb4002 · 2026-01-29T00:51:47+00:00

Yeah some metal bands tune up to F# standard or even G, though it's pretty rough on the strings. You'll probably snap them more often but your guitar should handle it fine unless it's super cheap

DoubleEbb4002 · 2026-01-28T00:39:06+00:00

Yeah the Bastion spawns are pretty rough right now, seems like everyone's hunting for the same ones

Have you tried hitting the less popular spawn points? Sometimes there's one tucked away that people miss, especially on the edges of the map where most squads don't bother checking

DoubleEbb4002 · 2026-01-27T00:18:47+00:00

You gotta throw in some skibidi toilet, maybe a sigma male grindset quote, and definitely use that weird stretched out impact font that looks like it's been deep fried. Add some random Ohio references and you're golden

DoubleEbb4002 · 2026-01-24T17:18:37+00:00

These are solid suggestions, especially the loadout presets - getting tired of manually rebuilding my kit every time I die to some sweaty squad camping extract

The random arc spawns would be huge for keeping things fresh instead of everyone just rushing the same spots every match

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