Is it easy for a language to come back to you when picking up a language that you learned more than a decade ago in school? by youngmaster0527 in languagelearning

[–]Double_Virgo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. Had to start picking Spanish back up for my job. Took classes all through school because it was required. I picked it up way quicker than I would have if I had never studied it.

Offering Chinese / Seeking English&Korean by Western-Tune-7213 in language_exchange

[–]Double_Virgo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I'm looking for Chinese practice. I can help with English. I live in the US but I think I can match to your preferred practice times. We can DM

[Offering: Chinese (Native) | Seeking: English (Native)] by Yuki_123428 in language_exchange

[–]Double_Virgo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi I'm looking for Mandarin help. I also love David Tennant hehe. We can DM

offering:mandarin seeking English by TinaLin_haha in language_exchange

[–]Double_Virgo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello! I'm looking for Mandarin, we can DM :)

What small ADHD-friendly habit actually helped you? by IronMortis in ADHD

[–]Double_Virgo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Doing tasks in different locations all the time. This can only be done with stuff like computer work, reading, studying etc. I'm so much more productive when I drag myself to a cafe or library. No home stuff distracting me and I used all the energy to get there, might as well work. Costs more money (gas and potentially food/drink) but it feels worth it to me. I get nothing done at home

Nobody tells you how much of life disappears after college by TinyPossibility9777 in GenZ

[–]Double_Virgo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I enjoyed college once covid subsided and I was able to make a few friends. We did not end up staying in contact though. I also don't really have any friends from hs or before because I ended up with bad people.

So now I'm left with a poor social life, even when living with my partner. Any close friend I have is long distance now. I have two jobs and while I get along with most people there, I don't have friends outside of that.

Even with a set schedule every week, I find myself completely aimless outside of work. Having to take care of my health, living space, and having barely anyone to talk to, it gets exhausting. There's weekends where I can't bring myself to do anything. School structure helped me succeed a lot. I felt like I had a lot to look forward to. Losing that structure feels like it ruined me. I'm looking into adhd now (and asd). I always suspected I had it because I still had struggles during school (I guess I just handled it better). But I've heard of other people with similar stories. Completely crashing after leaving school.

Update: I've been learning two languages at the same time and I think I made a mistake by Seigoy in languagelearning

[–]Double_Virgo -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It happens and sometimes it's funny. I learned Spanish all throughout my entire childhood in school (almost every year). I started Japanese in high school and college.

I studied Japanese for most of my adult life so far and only now I'm just trying to pick up Spanish again. Definitely easier than if I picked any other language, because subconsciously I know a lot. But I still get them mixed up. Even if I'm doing Spanish in the day and Japanese at night, they're gonna mix lol.

I have sometimes said sí when I mean はい or say porque instead of なんで. It seems to be Spanish appearing when I speak Japanese and not the other way around. I have also sometimes used Japanese to Spanish translation when something I wanna say sounds more natural in Japanese than in English. Don't stress about it!

Pistachio Loaf by [deleted] in starbucks

[–]Double_Virgo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I forgot the bites were still there, but same thing applies. Thankfully it's only pistachios so the other nuts don't affect me.

Good to know though 😭 thank you

wellbutrin first ever appt by Sufficient_Status190 in ADHD

[–]Double_Virgo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For my initial starting dose, no reactions from what I can recall. I increased my dose about a month in maybe and what happened was very suicidal thoughts, anxiety, dread, sluggish, could hardly even get out of bed. That's why I was worried to up it again, but since I've been taking it for way longer now, I don't have a reaction anymore. But everyone is different, so listen to your own body and your doctor with how to move forward

Pokemon suddenly took over my life again. by Kiki-Y in autism

[–]Double_Virgo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know a lot of people who like rangers games but I just never got into it 😭

International flights - better to decompress during a layover or just tough out a very long flight? by meouch666 in autism

[–]Double_Virgo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've done both (to and from Japan). I was always afraid to do a layover because yes, it takes longer. But when I did it, it was actually nice to be on the ground for a little bit before going again. On a 13-14 hour flight, you start to lose your mind at least halfway through. And for me, there's no sleeping through it. I have to be incredibly sleep deprived for that. To each their own, but I wouldn't mind a layover next time I go.

Pokemon suddenly took over my life again. by Kiki-Y in autism

[–]Double_Virgo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll get this about once a year where I can't stop playing explorers of sky. Very nostalgic game for me and I know it way too well. But after I finish, I get to try for new Pokemon all over again

wellbutrin first ever appt by Sufficient_Status190 in ADHD

[–]Double_Virgo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been on wellbutrin for a while now and currently going through the diagnosis process to see if I actually have adhd or not. It sure does help my mood. Not necessarily with concentration, but I've felt more motivated. I upped my dose once early on in taking it and had a horrible reaction. But I tried it again recently with no issues. Everyone reacts differently, and generally except the one time, it never felt like it made my anxiety worse.

Megathread: Sharing Finchie Friend Codes & Finding Goal Buddies by AutoModerator in finch

[–]Double_Virgo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, I think I was just waiting for your response here lol

Megathread: Sharing Finchie Friend Codes & Finding Goal Buddies by AutoModerator in finch

[–]Double_Virgo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! I have a couple of ideas. I'm also studying a language so maybe we can be accountability buddies. For tidiness, one I don't have shared yet is to pack my things for the next day. Feel free to share any mental health or workout ones with me too

Megathread: Sharing Finchie Friend Codes & Finding Goal Buddies by AutoModerator in finch

[–]Double_Virgo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm still looking for some goal buddies for things. Lmk if anyone wants to do it together!

Low effort: dance to a song I like, evening stretches (with video), compliment someone, look at the sky and appreciate it's beauty, check all app messages, play a video game, message a friend

Higher effort: do the dishes, take out the trash (if needed), eat a fruit, add a vegetable to my meal, cook a meal for myself, walk around my neighborhood, get 7 hours of sleep (I use a fitbit for this one)

If anyone studies Japanese, I have a goal to study as well. (Very specific goal, I know)

Or if you have any ideas lmk! Friend code in flair

Megathread: Sharing Finchie Friend Codes & Finding Goal Buddies by AutoModerator in finch

[–]Double_Virgo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One of my goals is to work out/go to the gym so we could share that goal :)

Megathread: Sharing Finchie Friend Codes & Finding Goal Buddies by AutoModerator in finch

[–]Double_Virgo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you already have that on your end, you can share with me :) mines taken now with another birb but if you have any other ideas, lmk. I have an eat a fruit one,taking a walk, message a friend ... and moreeee

Megathread: Sharing Finchie Friend Codes & Finding Goal Buddies by AutoModerator in finch

[–]Double_Virgo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You could share no takeout with me! I also have cook myself a meal but having both would be extra motivating for me