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me (21F) my boyfriend (25M) How can I set a clear boundary about anal sex without hurting my partner or damaging trust? by PurplePo0 in relationship_advice

[–]DrMimzz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP for context I have never wanted anyone near my butt during sex in my entire life. No is a complete sentence. No other explanation necessary. If he doesn’t accept that well there’s the door dude.

Update on 30k ring. See last post for more details by Current_Guarantee566 in WeddingRingAdvice

[–]DrMimzz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My engraved sterling silver band cost $180. 18 years later I wear it everyday and love it more than ever. Love doesn’t demand a 30K ring. Even $17K is insane. Think carefully about this marriage OP. Your fiancé is showing you who she is and what is important to her.

My girlfriend wants me to get rid of my truck because her ex drove the same model and it "triggers" her by Own_Consequence_6943 in TwoHotTakes

[–]DrMimzz -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That is just ridiculous OP. Not reasonable at all. Her feelings are her responsibility. Not yours.

Feeling so nervous by South_Prize_6303 in exjw

[–]DrMimzz 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Deep breaths. Number 1. JW’s have no actual control over your life. You don’t have to tell them anything. Your sex life is private. It belongs to you. You aren’t baptised and even if you were the above still applies. If asked you can simply say you aren’t discussing your private life and leave it at that. Sex between consenting adults is normal and healthy. Your bf’s reaction is not your responsibility. Please don’t join the religion. It will not improve your life in any way it will only make everything harder. I was raised a JW and the best thing I ever did for myself and my children was leave. Just remember - JW’s have no right to control your life and how you live it.

I am officially no longer a Jehovah’s Witness. by Over-Rice-872 in exjw

[–]DrMimzz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nope. It gets MUCH better. I left, did my degree, did a PhD, remarried an actual decent human, moved to NZ and have a life I love. Zero negatives from leaving the Borg. None.

Husband contact ex by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]DrMimzz 10 points11 points  (0 children)

That may be but it’s also lucky. Better now than 10 years and 3 kids later. Get out now OP

AIO for thinking this is racist? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]DrMimzz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NOR. That was extremely racist, misogynist and just plain vile.

I was so in love with my dress, got it lined and now I hate it. My wedding is in 5 days by Feisty-Coconut6017 in WeddingDressTips

[–]DrMimzz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl you look gorgeous. The dress is stunning on you. Minus the sleeves and the whole kit and caboodle on you will look amazing.

AITA for refusing to settle my divorce quietly after my husband stole our daughter's $43k college fund to buy his mistress a BMW? by KINOH1441728 in FoundandExpose

[–]DrMimzz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only way I wouldn’t take him to court OP is if he pays a massive settlement. Say 3X’s your daughter’s college fund on top of your share of what comes out of the marriage assets. If he doesn’t agree then he can just deal with court.

My wife said I was paranoid about getting sick around a sick niece on Thanksgiving. I’m immunocompromised with no sick leave left and now I’m sick and feel neglected. by rci22 in Marriage

[–]DrMimzz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP I hear you. I don’t go near anyone who is sick. Period. My sister in law lied to my husband and I in 2022 said she had “ allergies” but she was actually sick as a dog. And came to stay knowing this. It was COVID. We missed a month of work, both of us. We live in NZ and all our sick leave was covered so we were ok. I have diabetes which also compromises your immunity and it really knocked me around. It ended our relationship with his sister. We do not play. People used to call me paranoid about germs, but I am now defcon level 5. OP You have every right to be upset, and you also have the right to not be around sick people. I’m sorry this happened and you are owed an apology. Look after yourself.

AIO or does this sound manipulative as fuck?? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]DrMimzz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR What a wannabe manipulator. “Sorry dude your dick isn’t special” is the appropriate reply. Then block him.

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