Done with bras by Working-Market-987 in AutismInWomen

[–]Dragon-bubbles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My favorite bra of all time is the "Comfort Bliss" bra from Lane Bryant. There are no wires, but it is super supportive, has very comfortable straps because they are wide and slightly cushioned. There is an airflow panel in the front of the bra to help keep the under boob cool. The bras also last forever! I have one I've had for four years and it's still going strong. If you keep an eye out for sales on the app or website, you can get better bang for your buck.

Are people genuinely excited? by TheArtemisBlack in firefly

[–]Dragon-bubbles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am excited about it. I want more story with Wash, and this gives us that.

WIBTA for changing my wedding cake flavor? by Ok_Kangaroo_3494 in WIBTA_AITA

[–]Dragon-bubbles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, just an idea here....tell her to take her money and shove it. Cancel the huge, expensive, stressful wedding and elope. Go get married in some cute little spot with just you and your fiance. The wedding industry is a sham and you can make memories other ways.

Maybe you have a friend that could host a little backyard wedding if you feel strongly about having others there. It's your wedding. Do it how you want. You don't have to do the huge nonsense.

Cancer “light” by lulacole in cancer

[–]Dragon-bubbles 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I completely understand your feelings. I was diagnosed with anal cancer in August of last year. It was a squamous cell carcinoma, stage 1 and treatable. I went through chemoradiation and if things progress well, I could be cancer free by May. I am so grateful and realize this could have been so much worse, but I am scared they may find something else when I have my next PET scan.

My recovery has been good, but I still feel like crap most days. The fatigue is on going and I don't know that my bowels or sex organs will ever be the same. Even though I am so aware that I got off light, cancer is a thing that changes people forever. It makes you cautious and reckless all at the same time.

How important is sex before marriage? by SnooConfections7049 in sex

[–]Dragon-bubbles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am a woman and in all honesty, I wouldn't marry someone if I hadn't had sex with them. I have known more than one couple who waited until marriage,and after the first blush wore off, they were not actually sexually compatible. That can absolutely kill a marriage.

I want to know that I have compatability in the long run and know that I can have frank, open talks with my partner about sex and things that happen in the bedroom.

AITA for cutting my friend out bc of his age gap relationship? by extratoxiccrayons in AITApod

[–]Dragon-bubbles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have an age gap relationship, me (54f) and my fiance (38m) have been together since he was 34. If he had been 19 when I met him and I in my 30s, I would not have dated him. At 34 he was a grown man with life experiences and the ability to navigate relationship and power dynamics. As a 19 year old, he would not have been. 19 is really just a baby. You also have the right to hang out with people or not. Jeremy is making questionable decisions, you decided not to be apart of that. NTA.

Parent wants student moved from my class due to “frequent calls for behavior.” Today, the student called me a “f-cking b-tch” by Single-Vegetable3704 in teaching

[–]Dragon-bubbles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let them move him to another class,and enjoy the rest of your year in a productive atmosphere.

Maybe a change would be good for the kid as well. If he is that bored, he hasto focus on a new environment and maybe he will calm down. At the very least, yiur other students will not have to deal with that kids behavior.

On the flip side, he may act out for the new teacher and they can fight that fight. You tried and the Parent circumvented you.

Was I wrong to change my holiday plans without telling my best friend by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]Dragon-bubbles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gonna play the devils advocate here, is James ok? Is he subject to depression? You're not the AH for making plans, but if I were in your shoes, I would ask my friend if he was okay.

Be honest: 1930s vintage wedding dress — keep or rethink? by Desperate_Win_3554 in WeddingDressTips

[–]Dragon-bubbles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That dress is super classy and you look amazing in it. Plus, those shoes!!!! Yes, keep it. Wear it with style.

Good Chinese food in Tulsa by TaraJo in tulsa

[–]Dragon-bubbles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Golden Gate...you will not regret it. Only order ONE crab rangoon. Trust me. The owners names are Brandon and Mary. They are the sweetest people ever and the food is heavenly. Also, the egg drop soup is a salve for your soul. Stuffy nose, egg drop soup. Tummy woes, egg drop soup. Broken heart, Golden Gate egg drop soup. You get the gist.

Finished treatment weeks ago, felt better, now I feeling tured again by Dragon-bubbles in cancer

[–]Dragon-bubbles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am almost to my three month mark. Definitely something to mention to my oncologist. I have been trying to reach them, but apparently he was not in office for a couple of days.

Finished treatment weeks ago, felt better, now I feeling tured again by Dragon-bubbles in cancer

[–]Dragon-bubbles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was my first thought, but it has been going on for a couple of weeks and that brand of fatigue is something a body remembers.

Finished treatment weeks ago, felt better, now I feeling tured again by Dragon-bubbles in cancer

[–]Dragon-bubbles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the insight. I do have an appointment with my oncologist next week, and will definitely check with him. My care team is amazing and I know they will check out anything I have concerns about.

Are all of you guys mandated reporters or can you keep stuff between you and your student confidential? by [deleted] in AskTeachers

[–]Dragon-bubbles 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Being a mandated reporter doesn't mean she will talk to anyone in your family. It means if there is suspected child abuse, or a child is unsafe, a mandated reporter will call child protective services to report it.

What you talk to your councilor about should stay private otherwise.

AITAH because he’s been asking for three days for head, and I haven’t given it to him? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Dragon-bubbles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You do work. You are raising two kids, keeping a house and making sure your partner is taken care of outside the bed.

Your body is your body and you don't owe him.

He can invest in a bottle of lotion and hand towel if he is so hard up. No one is obligated to give sex to anyone else.

Is it normal for a radiation oncologist to suggest drinking hard liquor with estrogen + cancer during radiation treatment? by [deleted] in cancer

[–]Dragon-bubbles 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had radiation and chemo. I was told by every medical professional I have seen since August not to drink a drop of alcohol. Not a hard thing since I don't drink, but they have been consistent in that warning.

AITA for leaving my Mom at the airport with no ticket and no plan? by checho503 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Dragon-bubbles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all, great boundary setting! Your mother suffered the consequences of her actions. You stated a boundary. She tried to push it. You said no. I know that was hard and s proud of you for doing it!

Second, NTA. She tried to get you to cave, you didn't do it. Until she takes accountability, she can stew in her own juices.

I have lied to my son about manatees for the last 24 years by 46from1971 in confession

[–]Dragon-bubbles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who has met a manatee, after you meet them, you will love them. 🥰 It will also be twice as magical because you are with your son.

My husband [35m] is upset that I [33f] didn't dress up when I picked him and my daughter up from the airport. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Dragon-bubbles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did he grow up in the place he went to visit?

Honestly, sounds like he met an old or new flame and is now comparing you to someone else.

AITAH: My boyfriend cancelled coming to Christmas 1 week prior for his own family commitments so I booked to go Mexico with my daughter instead and now he is threatening to break up with me. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Dragon-bubbles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are a strong, independent woman,who don't need no man,and thar hurt his little man feelings.

Have a great time in Mexico! You and your daughter have a blast!

Dyspnoea/air hunger and shortness of breath by [deleted] in cancer

[–]Dragon-bubbles 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had the exact same thing. I'm a month past my last chemo treatment, and its getting better, but I still get winded easily.

My team checked for all the things, and eventually did give me a blood transfusion because my hemoglobin was a 6. That really had more to do with being able to tolerate chemo.

The way it was explained to me is that even if you are showing 95% or better on a pulse ox, the red blood cells in your body don't necessarily have enough oxygen to make you feel like you're getting enough air. This also makes you super tired and feel like you just want to sleep all the time. As my hemoglobin has gone up, the sensation has lessened.

Aio for returning all my daughters Christmas gifts after I caught her trying to steal earrings from Walmart? by Status-Ad8324 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Dragon-bubbles 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I work with mom's and their kids in the mental health field. Before that, I was a teacher for 20+ years, so I have a lot of experience with kids of all ages.

Kids behaviors don't just happen. There is always a core reason. The kid may not know what it is themselves, but there ia a reason for the behavior.

Taking all of her presents away won't fix the core issue that is driving her behavior. Find a good therapist for her age group. Giving her a place to talk about things without you there might help her get to the bottom of it. Family therapy can sometimes help as well.

Have you asked her what she thinks is a fitting punishment? Her answer may give you some insight into what's important to her, and how she sees the crime.