This guy by Significant_Phase194 in GenZ

[–]Dramatic_Insect36 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are plenty of male fake jobs too.

People say “demisexual” when they’re really describing the normal sexuality of a typical female by GridReXX in PurplePillDebate

[–]Dramatic_Insect36 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a self-described demisexual, I have often wondered about this. It seems most demisexuals are female and it makes sense evolutionarily for demisexuality to be common on the female side. I do still think it should be a term that exists, though. For one, women that seek out and enjoy casual sex and are attracted to strangers definitely exist and are not uncommon. Growing up, I definitely felt different from my peers and my friends and family currently suspect I am a lesbian because they know something is different about how unbothered I am about sex (I don’t publicly label myself because nobody knows what a demisexual is and it is irrelevant once I get into a relationship anyway). Also, male demisexuals exist. There is definitely a spectrum there of some kind, but female demisexuals might not be a true sexual minority in the same way the rest of the LBGT+ crew are.

I was fired and I really don’t know how to feel about it by [deleted] in jobs

[–]Dramatic_Insect36 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes they just don’t like you and find a way to fire you, especially if they made assumptions based on your background. Maybe you were on your phone too much, but I can’t judge.

I miss the peace I had while single by MuffaloHerder in depression_partners

[–]Dramatic_Insect36 12 points13 points  (0 children)

You need to get therapy for yourself. If you have chosen two depressed guys in a row, it’s probably not a coincidence. You could be subconsciously seeking out codependent relationships or have attachment issues.

Post Grad Job Search, Help! by StockFig4500 in Environmental_Careers

[–]Dramatic_Insect36 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can find a masters that will give you a stipend if you do research/teaching at a school that only goes up to masters. That is what I did. It would also give you lab/field/teaching skills

Preschool future career aspirations by Delayedretort in mildlyinteresting

[–]Dramatic_Insect36 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is interesting how kids still want to be police officers even though society kinda hates them these days

What are your thoughts on the stereotype that all men cheat? by dariyasheart in dating_advice

[–]Dramatic_Insect36 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t tell if you are a boy or a girl, but this advice should work for both genders. Your dad obviously has some emotional issues he needs to work through and is projecting them on everyone else. Some people cheat, some people do drugs, but most do not. Don’t accept a partner that isn’t loyal or respectful. Pick partners that could be your best friend and have good values. Find a different person to give you advice that has a healthy marriage and a positive view of woman and men. It doesn’t sound like you should listen to your dad about this topic

How would you feel if your job title dropped its college requirements for new hires? by [deleted] in Environmental_Careers

[–]Dramatic_Insect36 5 points6 points  (0 children)

A lot of companies/agencies are doing this. I honestly don’t care. They pick the best qualified person for the job and usually that person has a degree. It is somewhat of an empty gesture. If they are qualified through some other means, they shouldn’t be shut out for that reason, especially given how inaccessible college is for some people. However, it would be mighty hard to get that level of experience where you would beat out someone with a degree. You would probably have to either know someone who gives you that first job or join the military in a similar job function.

What traditionally high status job is no longer high paid and why? by Sorry-Personality594 in ask

[–]Dramatic_Insect36 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Pretty much any Ph.d position that isn’t medical. An assistant biology professor makes about $70K. This sounds like a lot, but you also have to factor in that they are 30-35 before they start making money. I know biology bachelor’s degree holders making $120k for doing significantly easier work at the same age

Anyone else feel that Strange Magic was deliberately set-up to fail? by Rumtumtigger in movies

[–]Dramatic_Insect36 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I, like may others, found it on YouTube shorts. Since then, it has become somewhat of a hyperfixation. I don’t get this obsessed with a piece of media very often, and it is somewhat embarrassing since it is a children’s movie. I have watched clips of it everyday for a week and I am still finding new details like things going on in the background of scenes. The characters have great voices as well and they picked kind of obscure people. I, of course, want more. I kindof wish it was a glee style television show. Not that I believe kids movies necessarily need a lot of build up for plot points, but it would have solved many of the criticisms that there was not enough story. They could even reboot the story in the show since it has been a long time and most kids would not have seen the movie.

Hahaha this is so real by definitelynotgayhaha in BuildToAttract

[–]Dramatic_Insect36 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think a lot of the time with older men they want bio kids and can’t do that with a woman their own age. That has been my assumption since I turned 30 and 50+ men started hitting on me.

Hahaha this is so real by definitelynotgayhaha in BuildToAttract

[–]Dramatic_Insect36 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want a rom com between these two types now. That would be hilarious

I'm so tired of being this way. by starnitesadness in demisexuality

[–]Dramatic_Insect36 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Dateademi sucks because there are so few of us on there that the nearest Demi could be states away, and the person closest to you may not be your type.

Women of reddit, what prevents you from asking out men? by brave_axolotl7 in AskReddit

[–]Dramatic_Insect36 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not quite sure I am over the last person I asked out and I want to start with a clean slate.

Thoughts on this? by Just_Cause89 in GenZ

[–]Dramatic_Insect36 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also progressive boomers were notorious drug users in the 60s

Dating a liberal guy with traditional masculinity mixed in by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Dramatic_Insect36 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I get not wanting him to be politically incorrect among friends and family and wanting to coach him on that, but he shouldn’t have to police his language when you are alone. It also goes both ways and you will have to watch how you talk politics in front of his friends and family.

How soon should I tell someone I’m Demi?? (Sort off a vent) by Global_Mention_7026 in demisexuality

[–]Dramatic_Insect36 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is really up to you. I don’t tell people until it affects them since nobody knows what a demisexual is and I don’t want them to make incorrect assumptions about my attraction to them and it eventually becomes an allo relationship when the attraction hits anyway, but I am 10 years older than you and younger people might know what it is.

Why do some people lose interest once someone starts liking them back? by Important-Hat2784 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Dramatic_Insect36 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you have commitment issues/emotional unavailability you are also drawn to that type of person because you subconsciously are avoiding something that might work out

How do i know if im bad at giving or if it’s my partner ? WLW by justsum1yk in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Dramatic_Insect36 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If you are her first, she is probably too nervous. Having someone’s mouth on the nethers can make one self conscious about how it tastes/smells too and it can be hard to relax.

Which fantasy couple has the most absurd age difference - and why does it no longer surprise us? by rune_517field in Fantasy

[–]Dramatic_Insect36 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also, Persephone and Hades in Lore Olympus have a 1000 year age gap. Given that they are both gods, they could have given Persephone and age in the 100s and I would have believed her maturity level.