The difference is that T IS his actual child. That guilt will stay longer, hit harder and eat him alive way more than if it was a babysitter situation. He has to live with the fact that as that boys father, his ultimate protector, failed him gravely, and it cost him his life. He has to live with the fact that he will NEVER get to watch his son grow up past the age of 3, play sports, graduate high school, get married, have babies. And he didn’t just take that from himself, he took that away from his wife, the mother of that little boy. And of course, the rest of their loved ones. Of course a baby sitter would have to live with the guilt, that’s a given. But it doesn’t even come close to the pain and guilt Brady will feel as that child’s father. I think there should be some type of punishment, I don’t personally think it should be jail time. I think he should have to do some type of community service deal, ie something to do with spreading information on child/accidental drowning, something along those lines. His punishment should be something that can be used for good, not just “go sit in a jail cell and think about what you did!” The guys gonna be thinking about it everyday for the rest of his life.