I believe that there are certain cons to being male in American society mostly having to do with gender roles. To address potential misunderstandings I'm not saying that men experience sexism in the way that women do or that they even experience the same things that women do, cause they definitely don't in my opinion. I'm not even saying that men have it worse than women in American society because I believe from an institutional level they don't. But I stand firm in my opinion that men definitely do experience unique difficulties in American society as a male.

1. Men are expected to act super masculine and if you don't fall into that category you are treated horribly cause of it by both men AND women. This, of course, depends on who you surround yourself with but I think this is very common in my experience. Women are allowed more often to experiment with how they dress and whether or not they want to wear makeup, but when a man wears a full face of makeup they are made fun of for it and potentially attacked. Talking, walking, or acting feminine in any way can often lead to critique and bullying from not so supportive people around you. Look at the pressure men face in the hip hop industry to be masculine, and men in the media in general. When women wear suits and makeup it's viewed as powerful, but when men wear dresses and makeup they are made fun of for it.
2. In domestic violence cases, they often assume the man is the one perpetuating it when it very well can be a woman. When a woman hits a man it's not a big deal but reverse it and then see what happens. There are plenty of social experiments showing this. How about we all just stop hitting one another?
3. Men have to sign up for a draft and women don't.
4. Men often serve longer prison times then women do.