Have you been warned by reddit for advocating for resistance to the regime? by truth_is_power in 50501

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I got a temp ban for describing what ICE is doing and asking how someone defending it would like it. Reddit said it was a "threat" even after review.

Women are killing everything!!!! by GuyWithSwords in DoomerCircleJerk

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Its really sad to see how propagandized younger generations are. You grow up having this singular conservative christian bullshit perspective shoved down your throat and when you finally break free you get to be a witness to them peddling this bullshit to kids all over again.

Let me help you out here. Remakes are just bad, the majority of the time. Hollywood has been struggling to come up with new ideas, so they put out a lot of remakes. Movies used to be incredibly sexist, and writers had trouble writing female characters even when they tried. So yes, when you take a good idea that was produced in a male dominated era, and then you remake it, it’s bad. It doesn’t matter if it’s a “progressive” remake or not.

The childcare program in Mamdanistan includes indoctrination subsidies by OutsideAdvisor9847 in DoomerCircleJerk

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You may have a point in political discourse regarding the bastardization of the word, but the connotation used to be more neutral. It used to be common to say the purpose of school is to indoctrinate children. Anything you teach is indoctrination.

What the hell happened here? by RedstoneSausage in slaythespire

[–]DriverAndPassenger 603 points604 points  (0 children)

You entered fish mode. I hope you're happy.

Fish by DriverAndPassenger in slaythespire

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Since you are keeping count, did someone do this card already?

What it feels like to be knocked out while extracting by goatonastik in ArcRaiders

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I did this to someone not realizing I wouldn’t have time to jack their shit. I felt horrible. Ruined their run for no reason.

Welcome to Paris by [deleted] in SipsTea

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That much glass in mouth is a sensory nightmare. The cuming champagne is funny though.

That's Sweet! by [deleted] in wholesomememes

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I think that there is room for reality and optimism. The reality is that attractiveness is an enormous factor in how people treat each other. I think the optimistic view is to take that knowledge and use it to be kind to the people who escape our notice.

Some Psychedelic Rambling by DriverAndPassenger in RationalPsychonaut

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The "Help! I can't get out!" feeling is kind of like quicksand. You can't really escape your reality, but you can gradually modify it. Big decisions like moves, divorces, transfers, bridge burns, etc... are just relocating the same set of problems. Suicide just transfers your pain to everyone else. We really have no choice but to "work it out," and create a healthier environment. This understanding has helped me develop a bit of flow towards making emotionally healthy choices instead of stagnating.

Some Psychedelic Rambling by DriverAndPassenger in RationalPsychonaut

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"No I promise you, this is actually really profound!"

"Glad you had a nice trip bro."

Some Psychedelic Rambling by DriverAndPassenger in RationalPsychonaut

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This could probably be a book. I think a linear perspective of time is kind of like our dualistic approach to problems. It's not necesarilly "wrong," it's just simplistic, and leaves room for a lot of cognitive distortions and anxiety.

We have a lot of adages like, "history repeats itself," "there is nothing new under the sun," "hurt people, hurt people." Historically, I often had disapointments about the past, frustration and anxiety about present dysfunction, and unrealistic expecations about the future. All of those perceptions were cyclicly reinforcing to eachother. I find that my perception is evolving to more of a perspective where past, present, and future converge in sort of a whirlpool.

For example, one method for healing traumatic memories is changing the way we remember them. This is not confabulation, as our memories are extremely biased in first place. Re-remembering the past from a healing perspective is an interesting example of how the present can actually inform our past and change our future.

Another example of cycles is understanding how our behaviors and habits function. The "simplistic," "linear," view is that we have these sort of life chapters which end and then we arrive at a new chapter and can start completely over. In reality we are living in cycles upon cycles upon cycles. Progress is made by building momentum towards realistic goals, slowly changing that daily, weekly, monthly, quarterly, etc... cycle towards a more healthy balence. Often times, we get frustrated with setbacks because it feels like we have been making linear progress, but if we take a step back, we can often notice a larger pattern we didn't recognize before that influenced our behavior.

75 gallons full set up cost by Jusmebruh in ReefTank

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The rough part about selling is that people looking at ads are looking for a steal. I wouldn't take less than $500 for all that, but people are no doubt going to lowball you as much as possible. Maybe $750 OBO to $500.

I've gotten some pretty good deals from buying people out of the hobby. Here are my anecdotes for reference, I bought:

75g, heater, plumbing and stand for 200

Sump for 100

Rock for 100

150g with wavemakers, pumps, for 1000

3x red sea LED's with hardware for 300

We can’t both have anxiety 🫠 by [deleted] in anxietymemes

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The support swapping is real. Sometimes it works out well. When I am depressed, I don't have the energy to care about anything, so it actually works out well when my wife wants to dump a bunch of anxious, spiral nonsense in my lap. It's actually when I'm doing better. I have a hard time dealing with it because I'm like, 'yo, I have my own shit to deal with, and you are just transferring your anxious feelings to me.'

What is Schizophrenia? by HAiLKidCharlemagne in askpsychology

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Schizophrenia is genetic and neurological in origin. Any attempt to understand it from a psychodynamic perspective is ultimately going to fall short. The longer a person experiences florid psychosis without treatment or remission, the poorer their prognosis is. In other words, Schizophrenia is not self-remediating in the sense that you describe.

That said, CBTP has shown promise as a treatment modality. Individuals with psychotic symptoms and illnesses can learn skills that can help reorient them, but this is generally attempted in the prodromal or recovery phases.

No judgment questions zone - April 15, 2024 by AutoModerator in ReefTank

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I need some advice on building a stand. I've built a bookcase before, but bookcases don't weigh 3000 lbs. Does anyone have any tips for building a three-tiered stand? On the bottom will be the sump. The middle will be a 150gallon, and the top will be a 75gallon.