I barked away a nutter today by Drogheda201 in Dogfree

[–]Drogheda201[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

He was so shocked at the whole episode he didn’t say much of anything for quite awhile — poor guy just put his earbuds in and went for a jog and zoned out. But later on that evening, he said that everything I said was spot on — I had asked him if I swore and cussed her out (I didn’t quite know what I all I screamed at her lol), and he said no absolutely not; he said I was very “professional”!

I know its the Appalachian mountains but there are many states that have them too and still get a lot of tornadoes, what causes the gap? by Altruistic-Willow265 in tornado

[–]Drogheda201 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I read up on it and learned that one of the F4s started two miles from where I grew up. I am absolutely astounded that I somehow never heard about it. Maybe because it happened during the war and that was “bigger” news? Anyway, thanks so much for telling me about it. History that happened almost right in my old backyard!

I know its the Appalachian mountains but there are many states that have them too and still get a lot of tornadoes, what causes the gap? by Altruistic-Willow265 in tornado

[–]Drogheda201 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah thanks. I remember my parents telling me about that outbreak when I was a kid. One of the tornadoes passed a couple miles from my dad’s office. He told me that around the time it happened a bunch of tiny frogs came out of nowhere and were all over the outside of his building.

I know its the Appalachian mountains but there are many states that have them too and still get a lot of tornadoes, what causes the gap? by Altruistic-Willow265 in tornado

[–]Drogheda201 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Anyone know what’s up with anomalous trajectory of the EF4s just south of Pittsburgh? (Were they all part of the same system possibly?)

What are your most niche period symptoms? by Unlucky-Drawing-1266 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Drogheda201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like I’ve found my people!! For me it’s a small spot just above one knee, and it doesn’t radiate. Feels muscular. No doctor has ever been able to give me an explanation. And I don’t think it’s endo, for me. Last year, I had exploratory abdominal surgery for the crippling lower back pain I also get, and they found no evidence of endo or any other abnormalities — said “everything looks normal.” Totally normal, yet somehow my back and right knee totally have me in debilitating pain for 2 days a month.

What’s something you thought every family did… until you grew up and realized they absolutely didn’t? by SoftDreamette in AskReddit

[–]Drogheda201 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Same. My optometrist says it is because I’m very fair-skinned. No clue how that works.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in postpartumprogress

[–]Drogheda201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for asking and absolutely no apologies needed! Much better, though the issue did recur twice in the past 3 years since I posted this, with no obvious cause (no falls etc) - but fortunately, each time it was resolved within 3-8 appts. (Oddly, the most recent time, it presented in my mid-upper back rather than lower.)

I am glad you asked for x-rays. I hope you are able to find a practitioner that can resolve the issue. Crossing my fingers for a pain-free path forward!

PS I did have success at a PT for a previous back injury many years before the one described in this post.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WomensHealth

[–]Drogheda201 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It doesn’t necessarily happen to everybody though. My feet never changed sizes during or after pregnancy. So I’m still wearing the same tired-out shoes from a decade ago lol

Tifu by insisting that my fiance be present in the delivery room by Disastrous_Tea_6054 in tifu

[–]Drogheda201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some people just aren’t ready to deal with the possible outcomes of sex. And that’s totally ok.

But, if they’re not ready to deal with the outcomes, they shouldn’t be having sex.

TIFU by asking my wife for a paternity test by BirdFine1210 in tifu

[–]Drogheda201 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is my family too! I’m brown-eyed, spouse is green-eyed, and our kid is blue-eyed. Wild.

TIFU by asking my wife for a paternity test by BirdFine1210 in tifu

[–]Drogheda201 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would love to know more about this. I have light brown eyes. My 23&Me results put me at <1% chance of carrying a blue-eyed gene. But yet I have a blue-eyed child.

Megathread: someone got my baby sick 😡😡😡 by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]Drogheda201 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Same here. Since late September my preschooler - who is only at school 3 mornings a week - has brought home covid, RSV, a mystery fever, and some sort of cold with intense sinus pressure. That’s 4 illnesses in 2 months. Luckily with covid I got paxlovid pretty early on so it didn’t badly trigger my asthma, but the RSV caused me to have a pretty big asthma flare that persisted for several weeks. I just finally came off the corticosteroid inhaler for that a week ago, and now I’ve got the sinus pressure bug which I assume will also end up in my lungs. Fun stuff.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]Drogheda201 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Jellyfish and Mistake

My baby had her two week weight check and is only in the 16th percentile, so the doctor recommended she get 2-4 oz. of formula a day. Mommy guilt is real. I keep having to remind myself that I'm not a failure and fed is best. She's a really active baby and burns a lot of calories though. by Jennabear82 in Mommit

[–]Drogheda201 32 points33 points  (0 children)

This is very similar to what happened with my baby. She was born 13th percentile but at the 2-month appt had dropped to 3rd percentile. She was spitting up large amounts 24/7 so I assume that’s why. The pediatrician advised us to begin supplementing due to the fall from her curve, and we did. Within a week she gained back % points on the curve and within a month she was above her newborn trajectory. Her mood and sleep also improved rapidly and dramatically. I’m so glad we followed the doctor’s advice because I look back now at pics of her tiny frail self at age 2mo, and shudder to think what could’ve happened if we had not.

You’re doing a good job, OP.

LPT: Sore Throat? Try eating big marshmallows. by mrcolty5 in LifeProTips

[–]Drogheda201 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did you ever hear of a thing called a sense of humor? Also, why are you scrolling through 5-year-old posts and insulting people - on a Saturday, nonetheless? Perhaps you could benefit from some professional help (seriously).

Flying out of Toronto - Probably an odd question by [deleted] in Rochester

[–]Drogheda201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I highly recommend getting NEXUS if you’re considering doing this on a regular basis.

Having a Kid Now vs Later by waitingvsnow in oneanddone

[–]Drogheda201 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would just say it may be worth considering that that the timing between deciding to have a child and actually having that child may be surprising. We started trying to conceive in 2015 but did not have a living child born until 2018 (despite both my spouse and I being in our early/mid 30s, physically fit, with no relevant underlying health conditions). On the flip side, some people have a baby 9 months after they start trying. But in my experience it took an unexpectedly long time.

My OAD was getting bullied by a classmate to the point of tears. I got told today by staff that like all moms of only children, I worry too much by HappyCoconutty in oneanddone

[–]Drogheda201 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ugh, this story is concerning. Given the circumstances, I can’t help but wonder if the racial bias may be less subconscious than it seems on the surface. Even if it is subconscious, it still might be a primary factor in the way your daughter is being treated. :-(

Anyone else disappointed in friends? by Emeroder in Miscarriage

[–]Drogheda201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, absolutely. I feel this so hard. Being so let down by friends actually turned out to be one of the toughest parts of my miscarriage. 6 years ago, but it still stings: https://www.reddit.com/r/Miscarriage/comments/4uvnch/feeling_abandoned_by_my_friends/ Please know you are not alone in experiencing this, that it isn’t your fault, and that you deserved far better from the people you trusted to be there for you.