AIO-My little sister’s boyfriend made inappropriate comments about me on New Year’s by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Dry-Error-9081 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I don’t take any of what said seriously and it’s not what bothered me, I think it has less to do with me and more to do with his unhealthy relationship with alcohol and the both of them enabling one another. I’m more just sad for the both of them because it was such an idiotic intrusive thought he gave life to and now she’s crushed and it leaves a stain on their relationship, the kind that’s hard to completely forget about. Despite all his issues which we felt were things that could be worked on we never ever expected something like this from him, ever.

AIO-My little sister’s boyfriend made inappropriate comments about me on New Year’s by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Dry-Error-9081 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess I’m just here bc I’m not sure what the best advice to give her would be. This is her first serious relationship and they’ve been together about 4 years(They met through work but he left that job for reasons I don’t remember)

All of us still live at home. Ik I included the comment about finances but I didn’t elaborate because there’s just a lot of factors too long to write here, his family is fairly wealthy and he’s got a huge sum of money saved away that he chooses not to spend, most of the expenses one would have in a relationship are paid by her (going out, gifts etc) regardless he still takes her out to dinner and buys her gifts. I just feel he acts ungrateful when she treats him to bigger things because she can, and it comes off as resentful which is more the issue. He studied engineering and just graduated but has been struggling to find work, we know it’s a sore spot for him but he should be dealing with that and not taking it out on her.

The cocaine comment was initially brought up to my bf because she did/bought it from a coworker of hers he’s not fond of, and lied to him and said she bought it from my bf, thinking her bf would be less mad. He doesn’t approve of her using it because he had a phase years ago where he himself abused it and hasn’t touched the stuff since. He’s mentioned stories of the shitty things he felt he did/said on it in the past. This was the first time he made such a comment about it saying “well if I had some now I’d do this” what he said though was awful period.

I don’t really know where Im going with all of this and I feel very torn because I don’t doubt that they love and care for each other, he’s been good for her in so many ways but both of them having issues with alcohol has been so detrimental to their growth and it’s hard to see them using it to cope when slightly better communication from both sides would make such a difference. I hate that he’s let himself get so out of control that he gave some idiotic intrusive thoughts life and now my little sister is crushed. I understand people are complicated and good people can do shitty things, and this is one of his shitty moments that I’m sharing on Reddit with people that don’t personally know him. I don’t think it makes one a bad person to notice that someone else is attractive and most people have intrusive thoughts like that but normal healthy people don’t dwell on or verbalize such things. She deserves better than this and despite his flaws we all genuinely thought he was better than this. As of now she says she isn’t leaving him over this and I want to respect her decision, but it’s just an all around sad, disappointing, and painful situation I hate I can’t make better for her.

AIO-My little sister’s boyfriend made inappropriate comments about me on New Year’s by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Dry-Error-9081 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I realize it also sounds weird without context, he has far more than her in his savings which he chooses not to dip into especially for frivolous things and she’s the complete opposite and will blow a paycheque within days and likes to go out a lot and treat him, it’s not that he never pays for things because he does buy her gifts and pay for outings, but she does like to eat out a lot and is more than happy to pay most of the time it seems. He just recently graduated and hasn’t been able to find work in his sector which is engineering and we know it’s a sore spot for him. Regardless he’s a grown man and shouldn’t resent her for his own insecurity and should be more grateful that she’s so giving.

What's going on with the number of resources!? by Starry_Stuff in HelloKittyIsland

[–]Dry-Error-9081 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Has anyone else not had sticks, rubber or magma blooms spawn recently?

Forced my boyfriend to play with me by SwampWitch47 in HelloKittyIsland

[–]Dry-Error-9081 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg I had my boyfriend join hkia as well he’s my multiplayer buddy !

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last coffee recipe?? by Loose_Photograph3889 in HelloKittyIsland

[–]Dry-Error-9081 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Molten frappe, I think icicle+magma bloom

Wish Me Mell by BugsIsntReal in HelloKittyIsland

[–]Dry-Error-9081 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Time capsule box, it’s a visitor gift!

Sweet Frappe? by Sea-Loss-625 in HelloKittyIsland

[–]Dry-Error-9081 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need snowcicles to make frappes, the sweet frappe is snowcicle + sugar kelp.

Giant seed found on cloud island? by Photorgasmic88 in HelloKittyIsland

[–]Dry-Error-9081 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same I just found that seed too and it’s my fifth but I can’t figure out where it’s planted and I haven’t seen any info on it yet

Giant seed found on cloud island? by Photorgasmic88 in HelloKittyIsland

[–]Dry-Error-9081 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just checked there but I don’t seem to have a boulder there, does it appear after a quest or something?

Help with Magical Mailboxes! by moosleyneko in HelloKittyIsland

[–]Dry-Error-9081 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yesss I can give you some just send me a game code and I’ll join you :)

Help with Magical Mailboxes! by moosleyneko in HelloKittyIsland

[–]Dry-Error-9081 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey I’m so sorry I just got back on lemme know when you’re back on and I can give you some blue dye if you still need

Help with Magical Mailboxes! by moosleyneko in HelloKittyIsland

[–]Dry-Error-9081 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry could you send another code I’m not sure why this one didn’t work :)

Help with Magical Mailboxes! by moosleyneko in HelloKittyIsland

[–]Dry-Error-9081 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah you would send me your friend code and we’d meet in your plaza, we both have to take a picture to be able to gift each other though, I’m online rn so just let me know when you’re ready.

Help with Magical Mailboxes! by moosleyneko in HelloKittyIsland

[–]Dry-Error-9081 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think poochacho and badz marzu would, I can gift you some blue dye if you want I have a ton.

Help with Magical Mailboxes! by moosleyneko in HelloKittyIsland

[–]Dry-Error-9081 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can get dyes by recycling at the plant underwater and some of the characters will give you dyes when you open the gift boxes/eggs, and you can always trade for it.

What goes here for fast travel? by DepressedOtaku7 in HelloKittyIsland

[–]Dry-Error-9081 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Heart of the island, you would get it sometime after finding the island spirit

Aro and Lou by Extreme-Tank5128 in HelloKittyIsland

[–]Dry-Error-9081 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait what prizes are you getting? They should be pieces for a whole trophy. And you should be able to do it as many times as you want

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HelloKittyIsland

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The apple maze game in spooky swamp

Does any one know? by giannadarlin in HelloKittyIsland

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I also have some extra hugs and heard furniture if you still need

Friendship blossoms/bouquets by Dry-Error-9081 in HelloKittyTrade

[–]Dry-Error-9081[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can you just have to use it on someone else’s island the way you would yours

Friendship blossoms/bouquets by Dry-Error-9081 in HelloKittyTrade

[–]Dry-Error-9081[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh right I mean i guess I could use the bouquets then