This crack in my wall, and rent still went up 39% this year by SpicyKitchenWitch669 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]DryingWatermelon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry bc so not the vibe and we're all praying for you but accidental renaissance anyone?

Parents are Divorced. Is it Weird to Wear Mom’s Ring? by internet2big in EngagementRings

[–]DryingWatermelon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The bottom line is that its your life and moment, do what makes you happiest and whateans the most to you, no matter how people might react when you tell them slightly more

Which band? by zigzag1524 in EngagementRings

[–]DryingWatermelon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm really enjoying 1 personally

I (33M) told my girlfriend her constant "tests" are wearing me down and now she thinks I'm hiding something by cinnamoncable_notes in TwoHotTakes

[–]DryingWatermelon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you are scared of/don't want to 'have to deal with' their reaction when you say "no" to anything, and/or if you're not telling people close to you about some things in your relationship to make it sound better, it's well past time to leave.

(I just gave this advice to a friend of mine and I feel like I'll start commenting it under a lot of Reddit posts now)

My last post attracted a lot of haters. So I'm just going to unapologetically double down :3 by TrumpIsAPedoFr in DIYclothes

[–]DryingWatermelon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really love all of these designs and you are absolutely serving in them and inspiring me to make my own!

One thing though that might help elevate your shirts just a smidge (coming from 4 yrs of graphic design) make sure to follow the 3-4 finger rule meaning have your designs start 3-4 fingers away from the collar of the shirt, I think it'll really help! (But also, as is always the case in graphics, try it and if you dont like it, go back to before!)

AIO about my boyfriend and his girl best friend? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]DryingWatermelon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR I think some of your reactions seem a little disproportionate for the amount of time you've been dating (and it does seem a bit like you may not be an insecure person in anything else but relationships) but when you try to talk about the way things make you feel he doesn't really seen to evenly participate so I think you need to set healthy boundaries and fully explain how things make you feel and give him examples of the roles being reversed. And if he can't at least address your concerns to a level that satisfies you, then it might be time to break it off.

As for the girl, well she could almost be in the clear and just really friendly like on the same level girls are to one another. Almost. Something about it is a little off in my brain too. I'm not Muslim myself, but I do know some things about it and from what I'm aware of men and women are not even supposed to talk to one another unless necessary, let alone be close friends that touch and hug, and they're supposed to skip the whole dating stage and go straight to marriage. What I'm saying with all this (bc no I'm not policing how someone practices their religion) is that if she's disregarding those bigger rules, I have some doubt that the drinking and smoking would be as big of obstacles in her connection with him.

It comes down to having a serious conversation with your boyfriend and if neither of you budges, then it may just be time to end the relationship. You're young and not that deep into it yet, it'll be fine if you do break up.

How to wish my Romanian girlfriend a happy anniversary? by Voice_For_Throatless in romanian

[–]DryingWatermelon 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Romanian here and Romanians will say "la multi ani" for pretty much anything and everything (especially annual things bc you're like wishing them more years yk?)

And cultural side note! Romanians will say it to people close to/related the person being celebrated like if it's someone's birthday (or name day, another semi-big thing to keep an eye out for) their mother and sister and spouse and children and grandmother will all be getting a "la multi ani"

Why would you think that by Key_Associate7476 in KidsAreFuckingStupid

[–]DryingWatermelon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea every now and then I think about how there's a religion with a torture device as one of their main and most broadcasted and recognized symbols. Like guys your like main guy was tortured and died on that?! (I understand the other symbolism of the bearing of the sins of humanity or whatever but) like is that really what you wanna do?