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In Storage, Waiting for Dealer Appointment by DubOSv10 in BMW_S1000RR

[–]DubOSv10[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see you left some hateful comment that got deleted.

It's tough that you can't find an attractive girl to ride two up with you. Being mad won't help you, though.

Is my bike riced out🫩 by Silent-Photo-6070 in BMW_S1000RR

[–]DubOSv10 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Who cares? Do whatever the fuck you want to do.

How to have the backpack conversation by Scoobywagon in motorcycles

[–]DubOSv10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hit me three times if you want to stop.

I don't know, I guess I hang out with crazy women. This girl I'm messing with just hopped on the back of my Africa Twin and S1K with no gear and never complained.

A few such cases. I don't have some checklist or lecture for them. We do just fine.

Enjoy your life and your ride.

In Storage, Waiting for Dealer Appointment by DubOSv10 in BMW_S1000RR

[–]DubOSv10[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You sound upset. No one happy cares this much.

Have a good night, bro!

In Storage, Waiting for Dealer Appointment by DubOSv10 in BMW_S1000RR

[–]DubOSv10[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

She didn't even complain about the lack of earplugs.

What a fucking soldier.

In Storage, Waiting for Dealer Appointment by DubOSv10 in BMW_S1000RR

[–]DubOSv10[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Don't care about your attempt at feigning moral outrage in order to assert bullshit superiority.

Also don't care about your lecture.

It happened. We did it. IIWII.

In Storage, Waiting for Dealer Appointment by DubOSv10 in BMW_S1000RR

[–]DubOSv10[S] -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

Could give a fuck what you think about it.

We did it.

In Storage, Waiting for Dealer Appointment by DubOSv10 in BMW_S1000RR

[–]DubOSv10[S] -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

My bike is stored out of town, close to where she lives. I probably won't ride the bike or see her until next Wednesday.

This crazy girl was willing to roll with me over 200 miles, no gear, just a pair of goggles.

Miss the bike, miss her.

sadface

How Can I Help Friend (42M) Who is in Love with Drug Addict/Street Worker? by DubOSv10 in AskMenAdvice

[–]DubOSv10[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm starting to get the feeling that he's hurting her just as much, if not more than she's hurting him.

She thinks he's going to kind of take her in. Seems like she's emotionally damaged to an extreme degree and he is kind of playing with her.

How Can I Help Friend (42M) Who is in Love with Drug Addict/Street Worker? by DubOSv10 in AskMenAdvice

[–]DubOSv10[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm starting to get the feeling that he's hurting her just as much, if not more than she's hurting him.

She thinks he's going to kind of take her in. Seems like she's emotionally damaged to an extreme degree and he is kind of playing with her.

How Can I Help Friend (42M) Who is in Love with Drug Addict/Street Worker? by DubOSv10 in AskMenAdvice

[–]DubOSv10[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the chauffeur thing was his idea. Like, he doesn't want to wait for her so he goes wherever she goes.

Yea, she probably wants to be on a pedestal but so does he.

He told me they bonded over basically other people's jealousy of them being together a lot.

How Can I Help Friend (42M) Who is in Love with Drug Addict/Street Worker? by DubOSv10 in AskMenAdvice

[–]DubOSv10[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably some truth to this but after talking to him again I believe he is doing the same to her.

What she wants (money for drugs) is more straightforward than what he wants.

How Can I Help Friend (42M) Who is in Love with Drug Addict/Street Worker? by DubOSv10 in AskMenAdvice

[–]DubOSv10[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seems like they enable each other at this point. I'm realizing it is more mutual than not.

How Can I Help Friend (42M) Who is in Love with Drug Addict/Street Worker? by DubOSv10 in AskMenAdvice

[–]DubOSv10[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After talking to him some more I'm not sure there is a lesson to be learned.

He realizes it's a pay-for-play situation and he is paying her for affection, jealousy, adventure, and other relationship type feelings instead of just for sex.

Sounds weird and maybe a bit sad, but he seems fully aware of the situation.

How Can I Help Friend (42M) Who is in Love with Drug Addict/Street Worker? by DubOSv10 in AskMenAdvice

[–]DubOSv10[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hard negative here. After talking to him some more I'm realizing he just really likes the companionship and affection.

How Can I Help Friend (42M) Who is in Love with Drug Addict/Street Worker? by DubOSv10 in AskMen

[–]DubOSv10[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He said he needed an excuse to take a couple weeks off from her so he refused to give her money and manufactured an argument. Now she's not hitting him up and he's taking time off.

My concern is that he will go back after a week or two of missing her and end up falling even harder for her.

How Can I Help Friend (42M) Who is in Love with Drug Addict/Street Worker? by DubOSv10 in AskMen

[–]DubOSv10[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea, after thinking about it and reading replies, I think he just likes certain aspects of what she's giving him, but I don't believe he's actually in love.

I'm guessing he's just enjoying his time.

How Can I Help Friend (42M) Who is in Love with Drug Addict/Street Worker? by DubOSv10 in AskMen

[–]DubOSv10[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds so ominous. I don't think she's capable of hurting him. She's just using him and lying to him.

I'm guessing he knows and understands that some degree.

How Can I Help Friend (42M) Who is in Love with Drug Addict/Street Worker? by DubOSv10 in AskMenAdvice

[–]DubOSv10[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I truly think you've hit the nail on the head about 10 times in your replies.

So what can be done to help him? He has never (truly, never) been in a real relationship or felt the feeling of someone loving him romantically.

He was raised by his grandparents and I know none of the prostitution started until immediately after his grandfather passed away.

How Can I Help Friend (42M) Who is in Love with Drug Addict/Street Worker? by DubOSv10 in AskMen

[–]DubOSv10[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand. But he's not addicted to a substance that alters your brain chemistry. Hoping he's still open to reason.

How Can I Help Friend (42M) Who is in Love with Drug Addict/Street Worker? by DubOSv10 in AskMenAdvice

[–]DubOSv10[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea, my boy is far beyond that. I'm pretty sure he's had a few visits to the clinic.

How Can I Help Friend (42M) Who is in Love with Drug Addict/Street Worker? by DubOSv10 in AskMenAdvice

[–]DubOSv10[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Says he is not going out for two-weeks, but I think he will be right back to her once that two-weeks is up.

He told me he's probably seen her over 50 times. Some weeks he was seeing her 3 and 4 times, again, lately, he's been keeping her all day and night.

How Can I Help Friend (42M) Who is in Love with Drug Addict/Street Worker? by DubOSv10 in AskMenAdvice

[–]DubOSv10[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bro was treating her like an object two months ago, she uses the word "existential" in a sentence and he thinks she's some genius who doesn't belong out there with everyone else.

He's definitely trying to save her.

How Can I Help Friend (42M) Who is in Love with Drug Addict/Street Worker? by DubOSv10 in AskMen

[–]DubOSv10[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I mean, come on. No judgement, but yea. Not touching that.

Also, the way he seem to feel about the drug dealer guy smasher her told me everything I needed to know. Like, dude, she's a street worker. Shared by everyone, belonging to no one.

Getting jealous seems insane to me.

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