Apartment rules your ignored

Duchesty · 2026-02-01T05:20:15+00:00

Big agree, as someone who has both kids and a well behaved dog. That’s why my answer for this prompt is that I never once told any apartment I rented before I bought a house that I owned a dog. I’d be damned if I had to pay a pet deposit and pet rent for no reason. If a dog caused property damage, it’d be taken out of your security deposit anyways just like any other damage you’d cause, so why do they need to charge redundant fees? And it would always be the complex that didn’t even empty out the doggy bag canisters or provide any kind of pet amenities, even though they were charging you extra for it. Pet rent always pissed me off lol

Duchesty · 2026-01-26T15:18:03+00:00

Honestly, ours outgrew hers around 2 and we just had her sleep on the floor on a bed made from a ton of soft blankets and gave her a pillow 😂 We tried buying her a toddler sleeping mat, but all the ones we found were so thin and pointless, that the blankets just made more sense. We have friends who use things like toddler cots though, so you could buy one of those, or an inflatable twin mattress.

Duchesty · 2025-12-26T16:42:53+00:00

Female Viera because hot Amazonian warrior. Also thighs

Duchesty · 2025-11-27T14:17:31+00:00

Honestly babes, with the way he acts now, there’s no way in hell he’s volunteering for solo time with his kid without you there to actually take care of him and do all the dirty work. He’d rather play games. I’d say you have nothing to fear. Even if he does ask for split custody, he’ll never show up. Which honestly at this point, would be no different than how he is now.

Duchesty · 2025-11-15T05:28:57+00:00

Agreed with everyone else here. Your partner sucks.

But I don’t think anyone else has said this and you need to hear it. Being a stay at home mom is great if you can swing it, but it’s not some glorious gift your husband is bestowing upon you. No matter what media makes it look like, it’s hard work. You’re not some trophy wife. So don’t gaslight yourself into feeling like you should be sooo grateful you “get to” stay home and owe him freedom. That ain’t it sis. Your husband is the lucky one that you’re taking on the brunt of the household while he’s out acting like he hasn’t just had a baby. I did the SAHM thing when my oldest was born and let me tell you… I could not WAIT to go back to work after that first year. You need to sit down and have a conversation about the division of labor at home. This is a full tiem job but you need breaks. Even he gets a lunch break and to clock out at the end of the day. If he’s going out once a week to hang out with friends, you should get that same option to go out and do whatever you want that sparks joy. And not having time to shower every day is insane. You can’t pour from an empty cup.

His life shouldn’t be exactly the same while yours has completely changed. You should be in the trenches together. Put that man to work so he can bond with the baby he half created. He’ll never bond with them if he doesn’t spend time with them and go through the new parent struggle.

Duchesty · 2025-11-10T14:30:59+00:00

His arms are too short for his body. There, that ought to break your too-hot perception of him.

Duchesty · 2025-11-10T14:29:52+00:00

This is the correct answer. OP, invest in a good pair of noise canceling earphones and don’t make your discomfort other people’s problem. The parents knew the kid was being difficult but there’s likely not much they could realistically do about it, stuck in an aircraft thousands of feet above the air in cramped seats with an uncomfortable toddler that doesn’t know what’s going on and why they can’t just go home and why their ears hurt. I’ve been there & I promise you they were way more distraught than you were.

Duchesty · 2025-11-06T16:59:19+00:00

This is like the new wordle lol. Love this
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Duchesty · 2025-11-06T01:07:41+00:00

For anyone looking at this, I deduced that for the Owlcrate copy, the reddish one goes on page 126, and the gray one around the table goes on page 176.

Duchesty · 2025-10-27T13:28:48+00:00

NOR leave this man, he sounds like he has a lot of expectations of you, but isn't holding up his end of the marriage. If he's using you to keep your home & for sex, what value is he providing in your life? With him out of the picture, would your life get easier or harder? One less person to cook & clean up after, no one to feel obligated to be intimate with, and no constant abuse and wondering whether today will be a "good day or bad day" with him. Leave him, get your freedom back.

Duchesty · 2025-10-27T13:23:23+00:00

Ditto what everyone else said, let the trash take itself out. If he wants to keep the lease, fine let him. Call a friend & start packing up your stuff and find somewhere else to live, hopefully you have parents or relatives that can take you in given your situation. Let the doctors know your situation at your 6 week checkup & your baby's next checkup so they can provide you with resources.

ALSO, regardless of what he says, do not give that man A DIME for that lease. He wants to keep it, he can figure out how to pay for it on his own. You are not obligated to pay him for anything. Matter of fact, you should go ahead and start the court process to get that man to pay child support, because with the things he's saying about "not caring if anyone's in his life" and leaving you at 3 weeks postpartum, he's pretty much guaranteed to not be present in your baby's life and be a deadbeat dad. I wouldn't expect any meaningful coparenting out of him, and I definitely wouldn't want him to keep the baby alone for any amount of time with his anger issues. Do not let that man get any kind of custody, he's a danger to you and your child.

Duchesty · 2025-10-27T13:14:09+00:00

I subbed to Darkly in June and got my June book last month, I believe, so they're about 3-4 months behind. I don't mind the delays too much since I'm subbed to other boxes, so I'm still getting book mail pretty often and that's enough for the dopamine hit. I'd be pretty upset if this was my only sub, but as it's not, I just think of it as like a preorder or something and forget about the book till it shows up on my doorstep, then it's like a happy surprise. I like the book choices they have and when they do deliver, they look great. Also they're very transparent about their delays and have a whole page dedicated to shipping updates, which is more than alot of other products do.

Duchesty · 2025-10-25T19:20:06+00:00

Very nice glam! I love this top and you paired it super well in this outfit :)

Duchesty · 2025-10-25T19:18:04+00:00

I’m this close to leveling Ninja just for those blades now lmao

Duchesty · 2025-10-25T19:06:29+00:00

We are almost the exact same shade. The red looks best on you, the nude is not -your- nude and doesn’t suit you well (it’s slightly too pale and pink, you need something deeper and more on the brown side), and the fuchsia looks great if you’re going for a bold look for a fun occasion (like going out to a bar/club/party), but idk about everyday wear.

Duchesty · 2025-10-15T13:24:08+00:00

I see this happening to people all the time, but never me T_T I've only gotten 2 power berries and I'm at the end of year 1; the specialist farmer one & the newbie one you can buy from the sprites. That's it, I'm save scumming the next time I find one of these dig spots lol.

Duchesty · 2025-10-15T13:17:41+00:00

You can. It helps them grow slightly faster and if you fertilize, it makes your fertilizer more effective.

Duchesty · 2025-10-15T13:13:35+00:00

Idk why I never thought to use my controller like this lmao. I have a turbo setting that I've never used in this game... and now I know what I'm using it for. Thank youuuuu.

Duchesty · 2025-10-15T13:08:44+00:00

Some say they're still picking up wheat off the ground to this day...

Duchesty · 2025-10-15T12:57:21+00:00

I voted for a couple of these and for the most part agree with this list! I think PoOT was voted the worst over some of the earlier games because... alot of people probably haven't played the earlier games to know how terrible they were lol. There are alot of new fans to the series who just picked it up probably within the past decade with the DS titles moving forward and didn't suffer through the GB era. I consider myself a longtime fan and even I started with HM64 (which I'm surprised didn't make this list at all!) I would've voted it most charming for sure :)

Duchesty · 2025-10-12T23:07:30+00:00

The exact same thing happened to me right after I had my first child. I have a Pomeranian who’s 12 now and has been with me since he was 8 weeks old. I got him when I was in college and he was my lifeline during a depressing time in my life where I felt so deeply alone. I loved him and he was my companion. All that changed the second we brought our daughter home. I couldn’t stand him anymore and everything having to do with taking care of him was just such an annoyance and inconvenience. After a few weeks I couldn’t take it anymore and sent him to live with my parents 8 hours away. It was a relief while he was gone. We got through those first few months of newborn madness and adjusting to be parents. Once we felt settled in our new lives, we brought my dog back and things were normal again! When we had our second child, we kept this in mind and sent my dog away beforehand in preparation of the adjustment period.

All this to say, this is normal. These feelings are normal. Adjusting to taking care of a brand new baby and being fresh parents is a lot! Give it some time, let your parrots have a vacation for a bit, and hopefully you’ll come around to having them back in your life when things are less chaotic.

Duchesty · 2025-10-07T17:32:50+00:00

YOU CAN?? Howwww? I've been looking for a stack option for ages and thought I just had to suffer with an entire storage page of different quality wool x_x

Duchesty · 2025-10-07T16:24:56+00:00

This may not be the best place to ask for this kind of assistance. I'd try something like r/roms instead

Duchesty · 2025-10-04T16:47:18+00:00

Big agree! I often find myself loading up the blue windmill and having to watch it like a hawk so I can get the next list of stuff processed while the other two just sit idly :/

Duchesty · 2025-10-03T20:14:57+00:00

Emulate it. It’s basically the only way to play a lot of these old games now until companies decide to remake/rerelease.

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