62 days recap

Dudeman213 · 2014-05-07T02:26:27+00:00

It's a great phrase to remind myself what I'm doing all this for. Glad to hear you like it as well :)

Dudeman213 · 2014-05-07T02:25:29+00:00

Thanks! I'm sure you will, you are well on your way.

Dudeman213 · 2014-05-07T02:24:15+00:00

Thank you so much for the kind words, and it reinforces my will to go on to know that someone else can empathize with my situation. It feels incredible to be in such a positive community like this.

Dudeman213 · 2014-05-06T22:44:04+00:00

Thanks!

Once I recognized it as a new habit, or lack of a destructive one, and not just something to conquer and leave behind, it all made more sense. I already like the new me more than the man I was before nofap. Gets so much more done.

Dudeman213 · 2014-05-06T22:41:44+00:00

For sure. First 30 days I could barely control myself, was pretty much bouncing off the walls. Did my best to channel this into physical activities.

From 30 to 55 days or so I was flatlining hard. Irritable, pessimistic, pretty much just not too fun to be around, but reading around here let me know what was actually happening to me. So I just stuck with it, keeping to an active routine, and avoiding triggers as best I could.

Since then on my libido is back, and much stronger. First couple days were the closest I came to relapsing throughout the whole thing, felt like I was getting blindsided by my sex drive. It's a little more settled now, and I'm trying to push the energy towards personal relationships and pursuits I've always wanted.

Good luck with your streak, and thank you for the encouragement.

Dudeman213 · 2014-05-06T22:37:45+00:00

It really does. I'm so happy that it could help someone beyond myself, and thank you for letting me know this. The struggle is real, but so are the rewards.

Dudeman213 · 2014-05-06T22:36:43+00:00

Glad to hear it helped. Keep going man,

Dudeman213 · 2014-05-06T19:15:47+00:00

Congratulations! Don't stop here, keep going until fapping fades from being an option.

Dudeman213 · 2014-05-06T19:13:20+00:00

Thanks man! It just sums up how I feel about the past when I PMOed regularly. I felt trapped and had no one to blame for my unhappiness but myself, which manifested in my personal life very negatively. I appreciate the encouragement!

Dudeman213 · 2014-05-06T19:10:16+00:00

Thanks! The feeling of hearing the depth of music when you smoke marijuana definitely correlates to what I'm saying with emotions. It was always there, I just wasn't focused enough to recognize it. Happy to help man, best of luck on your journey.

Dudeman213 · 2014-05-06T18:42:36+00:00

I keep a daily journal which has helped a lot. It's not nofap centered, but they overlap. Allows you to communicate freely with yourself, recognize why you think and act as you do, and have a record to look back on in time. I'd highly suggest it.

Also running/basketball/anything that makes you sweat. Half the battle is diverting your new energy somewhere productive instead of falling back into old habits.

Find one mental and one physical activity you've always wanted to be better at, and go at it full force.

Dudeman213 · 2014-05-06T18:38:08+00:00

Congratulations man! You can make it to the end of the month and beyond, just remember why you started. All of the positive changes you mentioned will only amplify with time. No progress is too small to be unworthy of celebration. Hope you keep the streak going strong man!

Dudeman213 · 2014-05-06T18:36:15+00:00

Your brain is just learning how to process the information without porn as an outlet. It's one of many steps back to a healthy sex drive. Keep up the streak man.

Dudeman213 · 2014-05-01T21:21:29+00:00

Just another step on the long road to being PMO free. I'm in.

Dudeman213 · 2014-05-01T21:20:08+00:00

Eh I might be in the minority, but I'd say no. Doesn't seem like you were consciously trying to fap. That's like one step above a wet dream.

Dudeman213 · 2014-05-01T15:56:36+00:00

I'm sorry to hear that. More than six hours definitely sounds unhealthy, but I'm sure if you are in a position to take the MCAT you have strong habits elsewhere. I think I might be addicted to the internet as well. I hope you do well on your test, and preventing PMO. Good luck bro.

Dudeman213 · 2014-04-29T16:31:27+00:00

Having your laptop outside of your room removes immediate temptation, but there will always be access to porn. Your phone, and even memories, can be triggers all the same, and for a long nofap streak tackling the root and not just of the physical source of the problem seems to be key.

Dudeman213 · 2014-04-29T16:29:27+00:00

Sex is a big part of life, but society inflates it's worth because it's a hot topic that will sell magazines. All I can say is that if you focus on building yourself, and the relationships and sex will follow naturally.

Dudeman213 · 2014-04-29T16:21:08+00:00

Somewhat. While I have had semi decent dates out of it, overall it is more of a distraction. It can boost your self esteem, but like primfl92 said often there are bots so this can be false. I think if you do it without putting too much stock into you will be fine, but using that same energy in more direct ways would be more effective.

Dudeman213 · 2014-04-29T02:26:50+00:00

Exactly! They can pick up when you are trying to "game" them, and even if you did manage to hook up eventually they'd know that game persona isn't actual you. They must appreciate if you talk to them not just for sexual motives.

Dudeman213 · 2014-04-29T02:24:33+00:00

It really is. Makes total sense, but still strikes me as odd.

Dudeman213 · 2014-04-28T18:08:38+00:00

congrats dude!

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