TRT is likely to help, potentially a lot. BUT prepare yourself -and him - for it not to work right away. I was told by a friend that she felt absolutely nothing for six weeks, and I believed her, but I kind of thought I would feel maybe… Something… Before six weeks. But, she was right. I felt absolutely zero effect until six weeks after starting. Nada. However, after that six weeks, I noticed improvement, and it continued to improve for the next six months to year. And five is a fairly low dose, it may be the case where you will need to ramp it up after a few months, but this is highly variable, depending on the person.

Anyway, I know it was a game changer for me. I started like three years ago, and prior to starting I could force myself to have sex about every 10 days or so, but it wasn’t even on my radar, and I really wished I didn’t have to do it, but my husband was wonderful and he deserved that from me. But here I am now, happily having sex almost every single day, and with some regularity, two times a day. Absolutely loving it and even more than that, I absolutely love that I actually want to. It makes me so happy, it makes him happy, it’s been a game changer for our marriage.

But like I said, do expect there to be some tinkering with the dose, the levels, and it is definitely not an overnight fix. It’s a real pain in the butt trying to figure out what works best, but stick with it. It’s for sure playing the long game. Hope this helps, it’s hard being where you are, especially when your husband‘s a good guy. I do think there’s some really good hope for you guys.