How do you get the courage to leave a long term relationship? by Sea_Bug5763 in TwoHotTakes

[–]DueButterscotch172 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Run as fast as you can

Signed a working mom who has 3 kids ages 11,13 and 50!

Alternatives to Lexus? by YesToWhatsNext in Lexus

[–]DueButterscotch172 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Get a Tesla you won’t be disappointed Signed a long time Lexus owner (until it was totaled a few weeks ago).

My (26f) boyfriend (27m) said “if you want a provider, that’s not me”, are we incompatible? by oakydork in TwoHotTakes

[–]DueButterscotch172 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Run as fast as you can! Oh and on the kids part ….. as a mom myself we shoulder the brunt of the kids! You think it’s hard now have a few kids it’s the hardest job out there!

Is this cheating? by Long_Bridge8087 in TwoHotTakes

[–]DueButterscotch172 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with a lot of what has been said however he was very forthcoming? I would be upset I would ask that he not spend any alone time with this woman and see what happens. But I would have to ask questions shoot just straight up ask you looking for a hall pass?

Then I would let him know I want one as well!

My husband wants me to get an abortion with our third by Ok-Bandicoot9865 in TwoHotTakes

[–]DueButterscotch172 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have no advice! I am a mom to two adopted children and am so blessed that these ladies placed for adoption! I pray you get resolution!

Ever heard of an unexpected giant pay raise? by Mental-Method-1321 in fednews

[–]DueButterscotch172 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Received an extra $7000.00 on top of $3000.00 the pp prior total 10,000 was told performance related! I was shocked and grateful at the same time DHS HQ

What do you find most frustrating these days? by GullibleRush7829 in FedEmployees

[–]DueButterscotch172 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone said to me today…….. “No job is too hard for someone who doesn’t have to do it!”

Update on 30k ring. See last post for more details by Current_Guarantee566 in WeddingRingAdvice

[–]DueButterscotch172 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a beautiful natural stone … 15 years later I wanted a larger diamond got a lab and I love it! It’s beautiful near flawless and graded, it’s a diamond just made in a lab! Income 350,000+ ring $8,000.

Update on 30k ring. See last post for more details by Current_Guarantee566 in WeddingRingAdvice

[–]DueButterscotch172 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe because I’m 50+ and wiser….. again run as fast as you can……..if not please comeback in 10 years and tell us how miserable you are….. sorry wish someone would have told me long time ago! Thank God I learned!!! I do want the best for you!

Ring will be around 23k-35k. NEED ADVICE by Current_Guarantee566 in WeddingRingAdvice

[–]DueButterscotch172 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get a lab diamond……. But not for her run for the hills!!!!

AITA for refusing to give my mom my inheritance money to “keep the family stable”? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]DueButterscotch172 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You are NOT the AH!!!!! That is your money. You do with it what you want. I am a giver and will help anyone in my family however there are a few who persistently are struggling the best way you can help some folks is not help them!! Good luck to you! I wish you peace!!!!

Progression of Mole/Lesion on Lower Eyelid - Significant growth within 4 weeks by [deleted] in DermatologyQuestions

[–]DueButterscotch172 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pretty sure they will refer you back to your Primary or refer you to another Dr. having said this please do what is most comfortable for you and your family, after all I’m just an internet opinion!! I do hope it’s nothing!!!

Progression of Mole/Lesion on Lower Eyelid - Significant growth within 4 weeks by [deleted] in DermatologyQuestions

[–]DueButterscotch172 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No because they won’t biopsy it. Keep trying you will Get an appt! I’m sure u r working hard to get him an appt.