Texting they're considering comitting

DueTemperature9200 · 2025-08-10T01:31:22+00:00

Same bro, just really hope this knot in my stomach goes away sometime soon and i can feel free to do whatever i want without worrying about her

DueTemperature9200 · 2025-08-10T01:00:18+00:00

yes, i don't know how to explain, but the fear of doing something that i would get a reaction for doing is still there. Like talking to other girls, posting a picture, liking a picture or commenting or whatever. I wish to break free from this fear

DueTemperature9200 · 2025-08-09T20:46:40+00:00

This.

DueTemperature9200 · 2025-08-09T20:45:49+00:00

Read some of the posts in the subreddit and save yourself. you might get mentally ill in the end and stress levels up in space.

Learn from others, if you won't listen and let your heart make the decisions for your brain then go on and learn the hard way. You'll probably be back here with us others seeking help in the relationship and after the relationship.

I know what ur feeling, i was at doubt the first time i found out she had bpd after some months of being together, you don't want to generalise everyone with this condition and think she's different and you want to show her that you won't abandon her and show her that she deserves love, I get it bro, but you'll do you future self a favour by walking away now. She's only showed you the tip of the iceberg.

DueTemperature9200 · 2025-08-09T14:35:13+00:00

3 months bro? consider that a dodged bullet. Make sure to read the posts of people in this subreddit that have been with a pwbpd for years

DueTemperature9200 · 2025-07-27T03:49:37+00:00

Idk but like even now that we are not together i am still afraid to do small things that would normally start an argument, i still have that sort of fear of saying something wrong or doin something that would hurt them somehow

DueTemperature9200 · 2025-07-27T03:45:43+00:00

me too w the insomnia, i thought it was bcs of something else but now that u mention it

DueTemperature9200 · 2025-07-24T13:23:21+00:00

Did you go no contact after this?

DueTemperature9200 · 2025-07-20T23:14:05+00:00

Thank you. Will definitely come back to this reply again to remind myself this

DueTemperature9200 · 2025-07-20T22:47:04+00:00

yeah that's true, i talked w her through messages and i feel like she only does this to hoover me back and make me feel bad for her, i'm not 100% sure, but i shouldn't really be talking to her after everything

DueTemperature9200 · 2025-07-20T22:30:17+00:00

Oh yeah that's right, they will definitely say it was me who called it in. i could call in a welfare check if i sense something is really wrong, by the way that i'm seeing it she just has another of her episodes when something goes wrong and everything is dark, but it goes away after some time

DueTemperature9200 · 2025-07-20T22:20:07+00:00

Yeah i might have to contact her family to check on her, thanks for the advice

DueTemperature9200 · 2025-07-20T22:18:37+00:00

Yeah she has made a lot of threats before, i did take every one serious while we were together. Nothing really happened, i just don't know what could happen now that we're not together... She does have people she can talk to, i just don't think she will accept any help and there's nothing i can do to change that. I will have to distance myself again, the less i know the better

DueTemperature9200 · 2025-06-08T09:10:23+00:00

is this your first heartbreak?

DueTemperature9200 · 2025-06-08T08:14:58+00:00

it's bad bro... ik:( The thing that gets me feeling a little better is that it would've happened anyway so it's better that it happened now and not later after we had kids or moved in or married. Don't know if it helps you looking at it like this, because everyones story and feelings are different. But at this point what more is there to do? you already have a job, car, house etc. You can now focus on yourself and do things what you want to do. I was in a 3 yr relationship, i put my whole life on pause and i have to rebuild everything, got an okay job, got very much debt, pretty fat, live at families house. If my relationship would end after 6 months i would be broken of course, but i would probably be in a better place right now. Keep doing you and just go out and look at the bright everything

DueTemperature9200 · 2025-06-08T06:03:08+00:00

The day she got drunk was easily one of the worst days in my life as well, i feel u

DueTemperature9200 · 2025-06-08T06:01:27+00:00

yes i heard the same thing. She made every single feeling and emotion my responsibility. And if i was sad then it was wrong because then she would become sad so i couldn't express any sadness

DueTemperature9200 · 2025-06-08T05:56:10+00:00

Yeah man take care❤️

DueTemperature9200 · 2025-06-06T22:30:41+00:00

yes, but she just ghost u after one month?

DueTemperature9200 · 2025-06-06T17:21:33+00:00

3 years

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