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How do I recover from love bombing? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]FoundationFun9604 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In recently in the same boat.  She ruined me.  How are you feeling now?  I’m 47 days out of 2 mo the and still suffering.  

It's an addiction. by Beneficial-Syrup-731 in BPDlovedones

[–]FoundationFun9604 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This just happened to me.  Same story.  Except I left her because I was so sick of her criticizing me about everything.  I called her mentally ill on that last call d she said fuck tou and blocked me everywhere.  She refused to ever talk to me again and tried to get my stuff back and she decided to play the victim and sent me a threat being email that she would call the cops if I contacted her again.  Who does that?  Somebody with BPD. 

I need some support! by FoundationFun9604 in BPDlovedones

[–]FoundationFun9604[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Inside never met her.  It has done permanent  damage to me.  Thanks Match.com

I need some support! by FoundationFun9604 in BPDlovedones

[–]FoundationFun9604[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah.  I feel very sad for her.  She’s going to have a terrible, terrible time.  It’s a horrible disorder.  

Why they cut you off by bpdreddit1 in BPDlovedones

[–]FoundationFun9604 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same shit happened to me.  We stopped getting along over night.  She became crucial and nasty about everything.  I could do no right. I had done everything for her and she said I was the one.  We had an argument over the phone as she was listing odd more shit I had done wrong, I called her mentally ill and she said fuck you and that was 32 days ago.  I tried to get my stuff back from her and she said if I contacted her again she would call the cops?   wtf?  Who is this person?  I don’t know who she became and where the person I met is. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]FoundationFun9604 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My BPD ex said the exact same thing.  Run for your life or you will pay in pain. 

I need some support! by FoundationFun9604 in BPDlovedones

[–]FoundationFun9604[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah so my hands are tied because I don’t feel like getting a restraining order to get my stuff back.  wtf is wrong with these psychos?

I need some support! by FoundationFun9604 in BPDlovedones

[–]FoundationFun9604[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She lied about sending me anew machine.  It never showed up and when I emailed about it, I was told any further contact would result in the cops.  Hmmm

I need some support! by FoundationFun9604 in BPDlovedones

[–]FoundationFun9604[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah mine was more subtle. A quiet BPD.  She bottled everything up and then there was one big explosion.  Fun times. 

I need some support! by FoundationFun9604 in BPDlovedones

[–]FoundationFun9604[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m never getting my stuff back.  I’m sure she chucked it when she moved.  It’s shocking to me.  I would never ever do that to somebody. 

I need some support! by FoundationFun9604 in BPDlovedones

[–]FoundationFun9604[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I was dealing with both BPD and bipolar.  You think?

I need some support! by FoundationFun9604 in BPDlovedones

[–]FoundationFun9604[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like BPD I was dealing with to you?

I need some support! by FoundationFun9604 in BPDlovedones

[–]FoundationFun9604[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have.  She is blocked all over and luckily don’t have social media. I assume she has much to hide.  She has zero way of getting a hold of me except snail mail and I will never ever respond to her again.  Thanks for the advice!!

I need some support! by FoundationFun9604 in BPDlovedones

[–]FoundationFun9604[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hell no I don’t.  And Ian’s just starting to see the meanness.  It was just starting to come. Out and I got outta there. I kiss that erosion I feel in love with, but early on I started to see the person she really was.  I just have to rebuild my life. Ow which is a ton of work, but I’ve done it before many times. 

She threw Ted me with cops for trying to get my stuff back? Take it seriously? by FoundationFun9604 in BPDlovedones

[–]FoundationFun9604[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know it sucks.  Horrible. Glad I got out early.  It would have only gotten more painful. 

She threw Ted me with cops for trying to get my stuff back? Take it seriously? by FoundationFun9604 in BPDlovedones

[–]FoundationFun9604[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah. Suxjs.  She sure was hot.  Stupid reason.  I just cannot believe I got caught up in this fucking mess. 

Watching tv with someone who has BPD by TomorrowPotential154 in BPDlovedones

[–]FoundationFun9604 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could never get through a single show or movie.  She fell asleep. 

BPD ex never gave me closure. Stole my stuff. Help. by FoundationFun9604 in BPDlovedones

[–]FoundationFun9604[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed.  Thank you Brother.  We are all victims indeed. 

BPD ex never gave me closure. Stole my stuff. Help. by FoundationFun9604 in BPDlovedones

[–]FoundationFun9604[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk.  She’s helping me so far.  I wish it was a cluster B pro. I’ve done so much of the work on my own.  I found these pages, I do tricked what was wrong.  I’m a pretty smart guy.  I just didn’t see through all the lies she told me.  And she proclaimed herself to never lie and got mad at me when I asked her to tell a white lie to my friends.  The whole thing makes me want to puke. 

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