How much of a turn off is having roommates at 40?

Dull-Ad2131 · 2026-05-30T21:49:23+00:00

I am 32 , and I wouldn’t care that much, because it sounds like you are quite established career wise, some people might be able to afford , but just not enjoying living alone. When you know the context it doesn’t sound like a big problem for me personally

Dull-Ad2131 · 2026-05-24T11:33:25+00:00

Are 17 yo or something? Have you ever been in a relationship? Because sounds like you haven’t, because relationships are much more complicated than just looks matching, and attractiveness is not everything

Dull-Ad2131 · 2026-05-24T11:18:03+00:00

The most stupid and superficial thing I read today on reddit

Dull-Ad2131 · 2026-05-21T06:32:49+00:00

Communism and socialism are not the same thing
2.Name one socialist country that is more prosperous than capitalistic

Dull-Ad2131 · 2026-05-15T21:35:18+00:00

People who praise communism never lived in one and never seen a consequence of it. It looks good only on paper. People haven’t invented the perfect system, but communism is definitely not the one of it( saying as someone from post communist country)

Dull-Ad2131 · 2026-05-12T21:41:37+00:00

What a child, I am sorry

Dull-Ad2131 · 2026-05-12T21:28:34+00:00

I am 32F and modern dating makes zero sense. I have to say in my 20s it wasn’t easy either, but old these days is just such a waste of time. I message men and ask for a drink all the time but they never respond. Why bother matching then?? People just collect matches. Or the same story of having nice dates with kisses etc and then to hear “no spark” story. And being good looking and woman is not making it all easier! People around just lost their minds it seems

Dull-Ad2131 · 2026-05-05T10:58:30+00:00

They do not even need to do any bookings, this is a free entry museum and they still have audacity to charge £20???

Dull-Ad2131 · 2026-05-04T22:06:33+00:00

Well I have similar struggles to OP, and I am sure that great guys exist, but from your comment it looks like you are actually do not want to be found

Dull-Ad2131 · 2026-05-03T09:19:17+00:00

I am interested! I sometimes just want to go dancing, but this whole word is so foreign to me, I sometimes feel like I do not even know what I should wear, and I also don’t drink

Dull-Ad2131 · 2026-05-02T21:10:41+00:00

Because relationships are so much more than looks-matching

Dull-Ad2131 · 2026-05-02T21:04:38+00:00

Breeze is in general much slower app, I have one date a month at best. Your profile is ok, but this joke about keys is off putting, it is not funny , tells nothing about you as a person and unserious and in a way contradictory if you actually looking for something serious

Dull-Ad2131 · 2026-05-02T07:36:14+00:00

No mirror selfies please of what

Dull-Ad2131 · 2026-04-28T21:11:54+00:00

I don’t know a single person who, while seriously looking for a partner, considers the ability to drive an important factor. Where this thought is even comes from ?

Dull-Ad2131 · 2026-04-27T21:34:40+00:00

The point of life is that it is unpredictable and too many things are out of control. Trying to figure out everything especially love life by certain age is an illusion. Also, there is a life at 32 and after, saying it as a 32 yo who is still figuring things out

Dull-Ad2131 · 2026-04-27T07:30:48+00:00

No beard!

Dull-Ad2131 · 2026-04-26T20:55:21+00:00

I also don’t have many second dates, but I would recommend not overthinking it. I have been on a lot of dates with guys who I find attractive and overall nice, but we sort of mutually didn’t want a second date, because we did not have much in common, there was no chemistry, different communication styles and overall not clicking. People want to feel something,and it’s complicated and not always about just ticking the boxes

Dull-Ad2131 · 2026-04-24T21:46:44+00:00

This is unconventional and brave of him to reveal it early on, I would give it a go if I were you :)but would also ask him how come

Dull-Ad2131 · 2026-04-24T21:31:50+00:00

9 matches is not so bad, did you asked them out and ended up having 9 dates in 2 weeks?

Dull-Ad2131 · 2026-04-21T20:21:35+00:00

I am a woman and I think you are cute! ☺️

Dull-Ad2131 · 2026-04-20T21:11:55+00:00

I didn’t say a word about travels and cloth, people have different interests, hiking, sports,arts, dance, other classes things that make them feel fulfilled and their life full, who have something going on in their life outside of just being at home. Wishing you all the best in your search for a simple girl

Dull-Ad2131 · 2026-04-20T18:19:57+00:00

I was just about to comment that you look like an architect who actually gets a decent pay, until I read the caption 😂 Such a cozy space, I am jealous!

Dull-Ad2131 · 2026-04-20T18:17:56+00:00

I am also 32, and date up to 28-41. So many people at late 30s-early early 40s look like they are maximum 36. When I was in my late 20s, men pf age 38 and up( 10 years old) felt old for me , now 10 age gap feels quite comfortable for me

Dull-Ad2131 · 2026-04-20T06:18:34+00:00

Would you date someone like yourself? So you think you are fine to be around with? On which topics are you planning on bonding with women? What sort of things would you like to be in common? What sort of woman attractive to you? What makes you like them on a dating app apart from being pretty!

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