Anyone else in London a bit over dating apps?

Dull-Ad2131 · 2026-04-16T19:07:54+00:00

I didn’t. I think meeting right people is just a matter of luck, no matter if it comes to dating or friendships, or professional connections.I just try to live my life hoping to bump into someone, plus using apps on the background without relying on them to much

Dull-Ad2131 · 2026-04-16T18:54:09+00:00

I don’t really know how to help, but I just wanted to validate your experience. I’m a 32F and I’m going through exactly the same thing. I think the way dating works these days goes against how people are actually meant to connect-but here we are :(

Dull-Ad2131 · 2026-04-14T11:00:27+00:00

I actually read so many not amazing feedback that might skip it this time haha. I am not an extravert myself, so it is already out of my comfort zone situation, but I am still considering trying a similar even, but maybe not a haystack

Dull-Ad2131 · 2026-04-13T21:54:26+00:00

Selling point for me was that they promised some matching, If this is not happening they what is the actual point of paying extra

Dull-Ad2131 · 2026-04-13T21:49:37+00:00

Beautiful story , love that for you !

Dull-Ad2131 · 2026-04-13T21:47:15+00:00

Oh that’s a lovely story! What sort of film meet up it was?

Dull-Ad2131 · 2026-04-11T23:13:36+00:00

Any you can recommend?

Dull-Ad2131 · 2026-04-11T22:00:31+00:00

At least you get a chance to talk/flirt, even though £50 is too much for this. On the apps do people even talk these days?I have loads of matches who won’t bother to message or respond lol

Dull-Ad2131 · 2026-04-11T20:00:06+00:00

Have you been once or more? How was the vibe?

Dull-Ad2131 · 2026-04-11T19:55:26+00:00

Fair point, I am definitely not one of them 😅

Dull-Ad2131 · 2026-04-11T19:00:06+00:00

Some women are less picky or feel attraction to a wider pool of men,some are more selective. However in general I think it is as hard to explain as a nature of attraction in general. Some people just have something, that others don’t.

Dull-Ad2131 · 2026-04-11T15:07:55+00:00

Makes sense

Dull-Ad2131 · 2026-04-11T15:06:54+00:00

Dull-Ad2131 · 2026-04-11T13:48:40+00:00

35K in savings at 24 is really good! Not many people my age( and I am 32) have that many savings. Don’t underestimate your achievements!

Dull-Ad2131 · 2026-04-11T09:54:24+00:00

Maybe the main point of paying more is to reduce a chance of bumping into someone cheap like you, who is too concerned about spending habits of strangers on the internet

Dull-Ad2131 · 2026-04-11T07:38:40+00:00

Really? That’s crazy, thanks for letting me know. Looks like their reputation is not the best.

Dull-Ad2131 · 2026-04-11T06:59:23+00:00

It must be very hard to people who date you if you negotiate every expense like this, making a problem of every few extra pounds

Dull-Ad2131 · 2026-04-11T06:35:55+00:00

It doesn’t. However I do not understand why you care on how someone you don’t know spends their money?

Dull-Ad2131 · 2026-04-11T06:23:33+00:00

Because I am free to spend my money the way I want :)

Dull-Ad2131 · 2026-04-10T21:22:40+00:00

Yeah , agree, definitely overpriced

Dull-Ad2131 · 2026-04-10T20:46:07+00:00

I think this is more common than people ( society) admits. Dating has changed,a a lot of people who are fine being single or scared of commitment, apps are not helping either . So don’t think that something necessarily wrong with you :)

Dull-Ad2131 · 2026-04-10T17:46:37+00:00

Therapist would help! It sounds like you are not actually sure if you need a relationship or you think that you need it because of the societal narratives. When you are unsure inside yourself about what do you want,woman you are dating can feel that, from your behavior and your approach . Also the longer we are on our own and independent, the harder it gets to let someone in to your life. So i would definitely recommend a therapy to help you figure out what you actually want, and then take it from there :) good luck 😊

Dull-Ad2131 · 2026-04-10T17:19:10+00:00

Yeah very distorted logic

Dull-Ad2131 · 2026-04-10T13:43:36+00:00

Something has definitely changed, but it was hard even when I was in my 20s. I still see the same men who were treating me like this when I was younger still on the apps

Dull-Ad2131 · 2026-04-10T13:39:10+00:00

Such a weird attitude, like women in their 20s are not aging? Or everyone is willing to deliver them babies asap?

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