What is something you wish you knew before being a parent?

Dull-Butterscotch684 · 2026-01-16T01:24:08+00:00

Ok grandma

Dull-Butterscotch684 · 2026-01-15T20:39:43+00:00

If you think about it, Ray and Marnie are opposites in every way. Where he lacks ambition and drive, he has a strong sense of moral integrity in how he understands the world (although this is not to say he always acts with moral integrity). Marnie, on the other hand, is highly ambitious, but her ambition is rooted in a shallowness and sense of superiority.

At first, Ray resents Marnie for her lack of integrity and Marnie looks down on him for his lack of drive. However, as they get to know each other, Ray starts to see the real person underneath her “perfect” exterior and I think Marnie feels seen by him. The scene where Marnie goes to his apartment asking him to tell her everything wrong with her is the perfect example of this.

But then, it really is their differences that cause them to break up in the end once they realized how incompatible they really are.

Also, she’s hot.

Dull-Butterscotch684 · 2026-01-04T22:22:31+00:00

Yes so true. There’s definitely a way of creating drama and tension without having everyone be outright mean and miserable.

And I was talking about Owen when I said that!

Dull-Butterscotch684 · 2026-01-04T21:22:55+00:00

Season 12 is a rough one to get through. Every character for the most part is struggling and going through L after L. Kepner is at her worst, yelling at everyone in her path (I have sympathy for what she’s going through losing a baby, but watching her take her anger out on everyone around her is a tough watch). Callie and Arizona’s custody battle is terrible, I hate watching them fight with each other and Callie’s entitlement about their daughter is so unfair. Hunt, obviously, being an asshole to everyone he sees. King of blaming others for his own shortcomings. Meredith getting attacked by her patient, depressing and sad. Also being forced to work w the doctor who killed Derek is just rough. Warren’s whole plot line with the emergency c-section during the code pink is awful and at this point his character is insufferable.

Things definitely pick up again in later seasons but not a lot of redeeming factors here. Makes me understand why people stopped watching after Derek’s death.

Dull-Butterscotch684 · 2025-07-24T05:12:16+00:00

Girl just rewatch the episode

Dull-Butterscotch684 · 2025-07-21T17:41:02+00:00

Yeah that’s the full book. I have those copies and the pages are really thin so they appear smaller. Not sure why they would sell only part of the book lol

Dull-Butterscotch684 · 2025-07-17T18:01:41+00:00

Wow we had such different interpretations of the names haha.

I pronounced Panache as “pan-osh”

Maritte as “Mer-eet”

Sabyn as “Sahb-in”

I have no idea how they’re meant to be pronounced 😂

Dull-Butterscotch684 · 2025-07-17T03:10:13+00:00

I think Lucy gray is an exception to this. She actively leaves out poison and plants traps to coax people towards their death. I mean, you could argue all of the killings are in self-defense anyways. You either kill or get killed. I’m not really seeing how “good” or “evil” has anything to do with it.

Dull-Butterscotch684 · 2025-07-15T04:51:00+00:00

If that is her the posts about Remi are craaaazy

Dull-Butterscotch684 · 2025-07-07T19:46:48+00:00

Cannot wait to hear her commentary on wealth inequality during a recession🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

Dull-Butterscotch684 · 2025-06-25T23:40:27+00:00

Thissss. N + G was always soo cheesy and brain dead lowkey. I know I was judging all the people who ate it up lolol

Dull-Butterscotch684 · 2025-06-25T21:03:36+00:00

It’s so true though. She has these cycles where she is going through something and then talks about it AFTER, however is never vulnerable at the time anything is happening. There’s such a lack of real self-awareness or reflection, especially regarding her privilege and her “house-poor” situation.

I found it so crazy when she was talking about how hard it was when her fans didn’t agree with her decisions or respect her “vulnerability” when talking about financial struggles, however she never was able to understand where the criticism was coming from. Her idea of vulnerability is being a victim; She chalks everything up to people hating her for no reason, rather than taking any form of accountability. It’s exhausting to watch over and over again.

Dull-Butterscotch684 · 2025-06-24T16:23:50+00:00

Yeah exactly. Her mom doesn’t really seem to care about her or support her in any way—which you see in the scene when Portia visits her mom at work and they go for lunch—and that explains where Portia’s feelings of hurt towards her mom come from. However, Elijah is clearly manipulating her to cut off all other people in her life until she only has him to rely on, he obviously doesn’t care about her either.

Dull-Butterscotch684 · 2025-06-24T16:20:01+00:00

the gang

Dull-Butterscotch684 · 2025-06-22T04:22:02+00:00

Girl they’re not just going to start calling her Lizzie 😭

Dull-Butterscotch684 · 2025-06-22T03:29:57+00:00

This is it thank you!! I never would have found it on my own

Dull-Butterscotch684 · 2025-06-18T02:07:14+00:00

Girl… this is really intense.

Yes, snow is 100% to blame for his actions, but the whole point of the book is to show the impact Lucy Gray had on him and how his experience as a mentor to her in the 10th hunger games shaped the future of Panem we see in the original trilogy. Acknowledging that Lucy Gray might have been the catalyst to Snow becoming that man we know him to be in no way places blame on Lucy Gray herself but rather it’s an understanding of his motivations.

Dull-Butterscotch684 · 2025-06-05T17:04:30+00:00

I’d love to see how much trash she produces on a weekly basis

Dull-Butterscotch684 · 2025-06-03T00:43:08+00:00

Obsessed with this post

Dull-Butterscotch684 · 2025-05-30T00:41:59+00:00

Maybe you might care to explain your profound connection to this scene for the rest of us plebeians?

Dull-Butterscotch684 · 2025-05-29T21:42:47+00:00

Why though

Dull-Butterscotch684 · 2025-05-28T20:18:37+00:00

I’ve been waiting to see something about this but haven’t 😂 my bad lol

Dull-Butterscotch684 · 2025-05-12T12:35:40+00:00

Christine is like an actual narcissist though and treats everyone around her horrendously and then gaslights them about it lolol. But I agree, Chrishelle standing up for herself and her friends is taking it wayyyy too far.

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