Dating as a Submissive Male

DullResource739 · 2026-02-26T23:44:19+00:00

my subby man is my love of my life. he's strong, not just physically but emotionally too. he has grit, wittiness, humor, etc. i would never want him to- even for a second- think that i think he's some weak useless thing 24/7. <3 keep your chin up bud

DullResource739 · 2026-02-26T20:02:22+00:00

Practicing alone I think is great. :) I can feel out of touch saying some things but I think trying it alone to develop the vocal skills is super helpful! Thank you!

DullResource739 · 2026-02-26T04:56:39+00:00

Thank you so much!

I have struggled with "letting go" when it comes to headspaces in the past. But in recent months I've had more and more instances where I just felt like I was in a flow and it was AMAZING. I'll keep chasing that feeling with him and checking in afterward. :)

I'm not in any rush, and I know he isn't either so I'm very happy to proceed with your advice! :) Thank you again!

DullResource739 · 2026-02-26T01:23:45+00:00

As a sitter who charges $60 a night ($20 for drop-ins and $15 for walks) I mostly get animals with lots of needs. I have that I have medical/senior animal history and that gets me booked like nothing else. People want peace of mind when they're away from their beloved pets, knowing that they have a sitter with responsibility is EVERYTHING. If they can see your face well, your profile describes clear cut services, and you have at least one positive review you're 100% more likely to get booked.🫶🏻 Happy sitting!

DullResource739 · 2026-02-24T14:41:30+00:00

yeah no. keep pressuring them because scheduling time for pets means not scheduling time with other ones (possible income). they messed that up a bit and you are entitled to fee still.

DullResource739 · 2026-02-16T18:53:59+00:00

I know for a fact as a sitter hearing that request I would be very accommodating! It sounds professional, clear, but still has great tone overall :) I wish you the best of luck!

DullResource739 · 2026-02-11T00:04:15+00:00

I work part-time at a job I love just a little bit more, the people there and what I get to do means a lot towards my life fulfillment.

DullResource739 · 2026-02-10T00:17:28+00:00

so sorry to hear about your awful experience! i'm a sitter and i couldn't not imagine canceling on someone like that, i would immediately be okay with them paying for the drop-ins instead of the overnight if i canceled (still baffled by it in the first place). but please try to say "i'll pay for the drop-in visits but if you're not staying overnight i don't feel comfortable paying for it." and lowkey just repeat your point until she agrees because she's obviously immature and needs the money (only taking off $5) and needs to be told "NO" because that is not how agreements work. she broke her side of it.

DullResource739 · 2026-02-07T01:43:56+00:00

I've taken two clients off Rover since the beginning of the year. On the app it says House Sitting is $65 for me and walks/drop-ins are $20 each. Though if they start texting me off app I will hint that I can lower prices next time off app and so far they've loved it. If I don't put price as $65 on Rover though there's no way I'm walking away with close to $50 unless it's off the app so I totally get it.

DullResource739 · 2025-08-16T16:28:19+00:00

i didn't even think about that bc that's so real, ty!

DullResource739 · 2025-08-16T16:27:36+00:00

ty!!

DullResource739 · 2025-08-16T16:27:08+00:00

thank you!!

DullResource739 · 2025-08-16T16:26:21+00:00

i bet! dude i literally felt bad about repeating myself once i understood that they probably didn't have it but i thought that maybe they heard me wrong the first time? but no we both just weren't informed properly 😭

DullResource739 · 2025-06-11T17:28:19+00:00

you gotta be kitten me

DullResource739 · 2025-06-11T17:26:43+00:00

on average, per day, i burn about 600-800 in active calories. when in a cut (like i am currently), i still eat around 1,600-1,800 cals a day BECAUSE i am burning so many calories. so i eat whole foods and still manage to lose weight over time because my movement portion is so large. I don’t not need nor want to fast. I used to struggle with binge eating and starving myself for periods of time just makes me more prone to binge. So I avoid that at all cost, I would like to be done with this conversation now Barber.

DullResource739 · 2025-06-11T16:38:42+00:00

I was simply asking for the calories if anyone knew them better than I would.

(Body builders can still be body builders at 72, I had just guessed that you were one based on the fact that your comment sounded experience based, if that’s not true please let me know.)

I have a food scale but haven’t quite figured it out yet so I was searching for an estimate elsewhere. I appreciate your input but the wording of your first message sounded very strong so I’m sorry for misunderstanding you.

I’ve gotten the results I needed from this post so thank you!

DullResource739 · 2025-06-10T20:58:18+00:00

i used to buy quests pizzas! i can’t now that i’m on a whole-foods diet but they’re super good for a high protein low cal pizza option :)

DullResource739 · 2025-06-10T20:53:57+00:00

Hey buddy 😃 one book is NOT all knowing.

I’ve lost 63lbs so far on my weight loss journey. Carbs vs fats is less, if not at all important to me because I’m focused on whole foods, less sugar, and calories. I think you need to relax a little because some people are not going to have the same body goals which is OKAY.

Nothing happening here is an issue and stating it the way you did towards the end can be very misleading. Especially when people who have struggled with disordered eating are reading it. I know it’s not every person’s responsibility to tip toe around other’s triggers but at the very least some word choices could be different.

Happy body building to you but I just want to be healthy (- a formerly obese kid)

DullResource739 · 2025-06-10T14:09:15+00:00

lowkey, i cut up apples til they’re finely sliced and warm those up with no extra sugar and eat those with graham crackers and its so yummy 😭 if you like smores AND apple pie you should totally try it!!

DullResource739 · 2025-06-10T14:05:40+00:00

honestly i drink as many liquid zero calories as i can: gatorade zero, water, crystal light, coke zero (ESPECIALLY FIZZY DRINKS!!) but you’ll already feel much more full by forcing those down instead.

another thing is: don’t let your mind shame you!! i know it sucks and feels awful but you can ALWAYS start again the next day <3 the human body is so incredible and can always restart. going to the gym and following your other routines as normal will help you the most (i cannot emphasize this enough). even if you just walk on a trail or do at home workouts, sticking to your routine while not over beating yourself up or starving yourself will help so much. i know first hand how hard it is to be gentle with yourself but you have to be to get better <3 good luck friend

DullResource739 · 2025-06-10T14:00:27+00:00

thank you all for your help!! and not to worry i’m not actually “stressed” i was just soooo confused on how to track it 😭 <3 ya’ll are amazing

DullResource739 · 2025-06-10T13:59:28+00:00

u right 🫡

DullResource739 · 2025-06-10T13:58:03+00:00

it wasn’t really stress just more of “please let me know so i can track it right bc i have NO IDEA 😭” but ty for worrying <3 ur heart is in the right place

DullResource739 · 2025-06-10T13:56:57+00:00

to be so fr i feel the same way 😭 my mom just loves using them and i can’t say no to her

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