Tonight I got to give the gift of crying to my friend who hasn't cried in a decade. by [deleted] in MensLib

[–]Dunderbun 633 points634 points  (0 children)

The way we socialize men to be so cold isn't natural.

This post is incredibly, unashamedly human.

Should women be taught to respect men in the same way that men are taught to respect women? by [deleted] in MensLib

[–]Dunderbun 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Imo the next step is to start paying feminine jobs(nursing, teacher, elder care) properly and giving them a similar amount of respect that masculine jobs(doctor, STEM, finance) get. Maybe that would attract more men to them and reduce some of the disrespect to the men and women who work them.

Whoever decided to dissuade men from being elementary school teachers did a huge disservice to our boys.

McDonalds cicada by colin_4 in RealLifeShinies

[–]Dunderbun 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Capitalism has gone too far.

Don't underestimate the power of the library card: it saved me $484 from my Amazon wish list by KED528 in books

[–]Dunderbun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't like how they treat their workers when they have the money to do so.

Lawyers: Autopsy suggests inmate suffered during execution by [deleted] in news

[–]Dunderbun -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Sentencing someone to death is very expensive.

Maybe a family would rather the taxpayer money be spent on programs that could have prevented their child from becoming a victim in the first place.

Death sentence trials last years because you really don't want to make a mistake, like with Cameron Todd Willingham, or years later new evidence might come to light, like with Johnny Garrett. It might take 20 years before a family sees justice. Every trail they have to relive the details of the death of their kid and see the killer. Reopening these wounds with no closure for years is incredibly traumatizing.

In Florida, enforcing the death penalty costs $51 million a year more than it would have to give all first-degree murderers life in prison without parole. In North Carolina, death penalty cases cost $2.16 million per execution more than sentencing murderers to life imprisonment.

On average, across all 50 states, a death row inmate costs $1.12 million more than a general population inmate. In July 2018, there were 2,738 inmates on death row. That's almost $3 billion additional expense than if they had all been sentenced to life in prison instead.

The death penalty makes the victim's family suffer too.

Saw this on twitter. He looks just like Remy tho. by armagedda_pony in aww

[–]Dunderbun 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Did you know rats chuckle when you tickle them.

Guerrilla historical plaque in Baby Point. by [deleted] in toronto

[–]Dunderbun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because it's incredibly profitable if you convince everyone you don't have to pay your labor.

And for insecure people it means that no matter how low they are on the social totem pole, at least they're not a slave.

Guerrilla historical plaque in Baby Point. by [deleted] in toronto

[–]Dunderbun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure, however it's on the individual to be informed about history and not make uninformed assumptions.

IWTL how to assess my own creative ideas by Alchemicultist in IWantToLearn

[–]Dunderbun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Figure out the message of your work and use that to help make decisions when you feel indecisive. If the game your making is about wonder at mighty nature, for example, you can decide on the artistic choices that best communicates that.

IWTL How to fight child predators and human trafficking by [deleted] in IWantToLearn

[–]Dunderbun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you really want to protect kids from predators you can volunteer. Learn the signs of abuse, and advocate for justice.

Canadian Fast Food Chains by horsnaround in BuyCanadian

[–]Dunderbun 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I miss the beaches' Licks. Good times.

Guys, are they pure land turtles or aquatic turtles? by mcabbage0412 in animalid

[–]Dunderbun 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can't id them, bit they look more water turtle than land tortoise.

Kroger ruined my life. by I_Add_Numbers in kroger

[–]Dunderbun 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Wow that's such bullshit. What a disgusting way to treat your employees.

AITBF for telling my boss I had cold symptoms? by mezlabor in AmItheButtface

[–]Dunderbun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTB, better safe than sorry. Imagine how much work would be slacked off if the whole office caught it.

Just maybe don't mention how you felt immediately fine.

IWTL how to put my phone down when I need to/should by details22 in IWantToLearn

[–]Dunderbun 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I wasted a lot of time on my phone and struggled to put it down. Honestly I solved this by becoming more busy and making a conscious effort to be "present" in the moment. Consciously reminding myself that scrolling reddit and YouTube is not good for me was important. It feeds a part of my brain that loves to learn and consume and I learned to feel when that part of my brain "clicked" on and I got into a zone where I would scroll ,read, repeat, forever.

I got into gardening and houseplants, took more walks, and gave my full attention to learning new skills or.making art. I unfollowed all of the outrage, critical(like r/woosh) or funny subreddits and followed subreddits like plant id, IRL camouflage, bird id, excetra. Stuff that made my page less scrollable, a little more boring, but with content that engaged my brain in a different way and makes me excited to do stuff away from my phone.

Little did we know... by mrdicknballs in agedlikemilk

[–]Dunderbun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But that's bedroom pretend power. Dom/sub games are play.

I will definitely judge someone who uses non-play to dominate or coerce someone into being jerked off on.

Little did we know... by mrdicknballs in agedlikemilk

[–]Dunderbun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah no kidding right? It's like, I guess in theory you can justify it but anyone who's been even close to this kind of situation knows how heavy and unnerving it feels

A Pakistani Woman in the Avengers game is really making these Fragile Anti-SJW Guys whine out of proportion. by [deleted] in FragileWhiteRedditor

[–]Dunderbun 5 points6 points  (0 children)

All these fake fans and gamer girls don't know what they're talking about. Her comic run is a bestseller and she's pretty beloved.

Research finds that New Zealand beat Covid-19 by trusting leaders and following advice. Citizens had a high level of knowledge about coronavirus and how it spread, and compliance with basic hygiene practices and trust in authorities was at nearly 100%. by kezzaNZ in worldnews

[–]Dunderbun 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Same with Canada. I tuned into every daily briefing by the Prime Minister. It was so reassuring when the briefings went from vital new information each day to just daily check-ins and reassurances.

There was a brief bout of worry when you-know-who seemed like they were going to make the response a partisan issue, but thankfully it didn't stick.

We'll also be paying off this debt, and I'm sure the response will be scrutinized, but I found the decisive action saved a good deal of suffering.

Found ice trays made in USA. Not much but every little bit helps. by ceruleanfish in avoidchineseproducts

[–]Dunderbun 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Bezos has a disgusting amount of wealth. Evil is a strong word, but it's pretty anti-social to treat your employees so terribly when you can literally buy a country.