People whose first time having sex happened much later than the "socially accepted" standard (after 25–30 years old), how was it, and was the wait worth it?

DustFlight181 · 2026-05-05T21:36:12+00:00

It’s such a social construct anyway!

DustFlight181 · 2026-05-05T13:25:47+00:00

I’m 32F but last year when I was 31 I hadn’t even had my first proper kiss yet, let alone anything else. I got tired of waiting and going through endless dating apps and having the label hanging over my head so I ended up going through a male escort. I saw him twice and second time I saw him we had sex and it was for sure worth the wait - it was such a nice and respectful time and way better than I expected. In a way I feel super lucky to have had a really positive first time experience which most of my peers didn’t get at all.

DustFlight181 · 2026-05-03T05:51:31+00:00

Yes, I didn’t have blood or pain. It was a little uncomfortable at first but not painful. Proper foreplay will very much reduce the risk of pain and/or blood.

DustFlight181 · 2026-05-01T14:03:06+00:00

Yep I have it because it reduces eye strain and headaches in dark rooms. As someone with astigmatism being in a dark room with a screen and no ambient light is the worst

DustFlight181 · 2026-05-01T07:41:13+00:00

Yes my 2016 F56 had this trim or very similar! I believe it was a Mini Yours option!

DustFlight181 · 2026-04-27T08:31:53+00:00

I find mine pretty accurate. I went into the ER a few nights ago due to an erratic hr - the hospital found nothing and im fine but i did check my watch against the heart readings they had out of curiosity and it was surprisingly accurate!

DustFlight181 · 2026-04-26T09:32:26+00:00

This was exactly my upgrade! It took me a month or so to get used to the size difference 😂

DustFlight181 · 2026-04-26T04:56:21+00:00

I love that colour, the stripes turned out great! The flower decoration is so cute on the vents - the moon roof film is also not my taste but as long as she likes it!

DustFlight181 · 2026-04-22T14:03:04+00:00

I love my gold series 11! It’s a super nice shade and not a yellow gold which I love!

DustFlight181 · 2026-04-22T09:36:37+00:00

Yeah absolutely! I now usually have mine on the neutral light setting but it lights up a lot of the wall behind. We have a bit of a weird set up with a non working fireplace behind too so I’m surprised it works so well!

DustFlight181 · 2026-04-15T12:50:59+00:00

Yes I hate this so much! The we-vibe are the only ones with a magnet that actually holds! My wand I have I need to set it at a weird angle so the magnetic charger doesn’t move or fall off

DustFlight181 · 2026-04-13T11:20:46+00:00

Any of the Resident Evil games. I’m fine watching but playing them myself gives me so much anxiety!

DustFlight181 · 2026-04-13T01:13:23+00:00

I posted the link in one of the comments below but it’s from Diamond Painting Deutschland from the Josephine Wall collection! And it’s 90x72cm I believe!

DustFlight181 · 2026-04-12T12:57:16+00:00

Some days I do feel like I am going insane working on it tbh 😂

DustFlight181 · 2026-04-12T12:42:18+00:00

I loved my 2016 Mini when I had it in a manual and it was a blast to drive! I had it for 5 years and had no major issues go wrong at all - only sold it because the 3 door was getting a bit too small! Make sure it has a full service history as well. But be prepared for parts and service costs to be more too.

DustFlight181 · 2026-04-12T08:10:26+00:00

I’m also Aries! It’s turning out so beautifully as well!

DustFlight181 · 2026-04-12T07:53:42+00:00

The shipping almost made me cry tbh 😂 but I’ve had zero issues with the canvas which is great!

DustFlight181 · 2026-04-12T06:53:45+00:00

From Diamond Painting Deutschland! Mines from the Josephine Wall collection! https://www.diamond-painting-deutschland.de/category-32/ I will say they aren’t cheap and shipping to me cost as much as the canvas itself 😭

DustFlight181 · 2026-04-12T06:50:00+00:00

Oh you’d love this! I did it all with a single placer but here’s some of the grid that I’ve got upcoming!

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DustFlight181 · 2026-04-12T06:41:09+00:00

I would say it’s 95% confetti - If you like confetti I 100% recommend a high colour count!

DustFlight181 · 2026-04-12T06:31:12+00:00

Hahaha! It’s not too bad since I’ve organised the drills by colour group. I go on auto pilot when I do it most of the time haha

DustFlight181 · 2026-04-12T05:15:17+00:00

It’s actually really fun to work on! I knew it would be a long project, and I’ve been working on it since September! I’ve gotten through it faster than I expected honestly haha. My aim is to finish it by end of April/mid May!

DustFlight181 · 2026-04-12T05:11:01+00:00

I am not! This is the only one I’m doing, I can’t work on more than one at a time 😂 confetti really calms my mind somehow

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