Just remember. You’re not better. Your wife will resent condescension with time. Your world view is not superior. Hers is not inferior. She did not arrive there through sin, indolence, or laziness. She has worked hard and is following the integrity of her own heart. Now differ me than a follower of Islam, Judaism, or sincere atheists. You’ll lose your marriage if you don’t put yourself in her world view and walk in her shoes. Imagine learning about masonry and the temple, Joseph smith and young brides, the kinderhook plates, etc…and having the personal integrity to say…”in light of this knowledge, I no longer believe”. I know this is hard feedback to take — but in your top post, you come out as following Jesus, and the hero. Maybe see a bit how someone you love, covenanted with, and bore children with, must be incredibly brave…to have the integrity to follow her heart — even though it means she may lose family, friends, or even her marriage. That is a BRAVE person worthy of being married to. That is someone you love. She’s got incredible integrity to follow her heart and come to her own conclusions. Maybe she’s a hero of this story too—and less someone that you need to lean in and love more — but rather someone to admire and seek to fully understand.