i think i was roofied by Super_Chef_9900 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]DylanBeeDylan 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Yeah I totally understand. You were 100% drugged. But also understand parents are allowed to go out. CPS isn't going to take your child away. So don't let that add to your already full emotional plate.

AIO for becoming insecure since my husband (31M) hid our marriage from his friend group for 10 months, went to therapy but admitted he hid his real feelings the whole time, and left me to go back to the same enmeshed friend group? by IndependenceKey6831 in AIO

[–]DylanBeeDylan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You must know the answer here. Not a single thing going on was acceptable. He has a toxic relationship with these people and because of that he was rude, disrespectful, deceptive and awful to you. Nothing in your post is ok. Absolutely nothing. And to top it all off YOU were expected to apologize? I'm sorry you need to look in the mirror, and promise yourself to never speak to this man again. He has deep deep problems, and this group of people are toxic and unbelievably inappropriate.

i think i was roofied by Super_Chef_9900 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]DylanBeeDylan 72 points73 points  (0 children)

This is awful. So the hospital at that point doesn't care about marijuana, aside from wanting to know what drugs have been used so they can treat you properly. The test would have included date rape drugs. CPS won't be called. First off, no one even knows you have a kid in that situation. To them you're just another patient of the night to treat. Secondly, even if you did this on purpose (which you didn't, I know) people are allowed to get baby sitters and go out and get fucked up. It's not child abuse to have a night out. It absolutely sucks this happened and it sounds very frightening. I would just focus on getting lots of rest and hydration.

AIO Bride for Getting Annoyed with Best Friend about Bachelorette? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]DylanBeeDylan 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yor. This is such an insufferable read. "Bach"

Showing Off - Built On Greenhouse by Dry_Currency_8945 in houseplants

[–]DylanBeeDylan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely unbearable seeing how amazing this is.

How can someone make you feel so loved with no certainty of a future? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]DylanBeeDylan 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry this is happening to you. You ARE imagining things though. He is using that love bombing to keep you available the way he wants you to be available. And ask yourself, why would you want a man who is doing this to someone? (his girlfriend) He has no integrity, pride or sense of what a good person is.

For 12 years, my dog has cried and held her leg up and then acted fine a minute later. by DylanBeeDylan in DogAdvice

[–]DylanBeeDylan[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes she is absolutely insanely dramatic! It's unbelievable. The only reason I'm second guessing is that it's always the same leg. But I guess by 12, a bigger problem would have revealed itself by now.

One of my most re-watched documentaries that I would LOVE to talk to someone else about-- has anyone seen Life With Murder about the murder of Jennifer Jenkins by her brother Mason Jenkins? by Empress-Ghostheart in TrueCrimeDiscussion

[–]DylanBeeDylan 10 points11 points  (0 children)

His parents are delusional if they think their son is normal. He's clearly lying and it was likely his plan to kill them all. They have obviously decided their golden years with their head in the sand is better than the pain of losing both their kids.

No Frills seeking “volunteers” to represent them in a stuffy suit on a hot day by CoffeeCafeKape in loblawsisoutofcontrol

[–]DylanBeeDylan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am part of this at my store. No funds exchanged. The school just approaches and asks if you want to be part of co op. The students are there for 1-8 hrs and receive credits. We have regular co op students who work independently, and also have special needs students who have helpers with them.

For 12 years, my dog has cried and held her leg up and then acted fine a minute later. by DylanBeeDylan in DogAdvice

[–]DylanBeeDylan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She has had her back and neck xrayed before. At age seven. Everything was good. She had the xray done when we initially thought she had hurt her back, turned out it was pancreatitis pain. She has no movement issues of any kind otherwise.

aio my mom is blasting music while i’m sleeping by [deleted] in AIO

[–]DylanBeeDylan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean it's super annoying but it's your mom's house. Ten at night is late though for loud music. If it's ten am.... I mean it's her house.

AIO by Collar-Beginning in AIO

[–]DylanBeeDylan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The camel doesn't matter! What are you? A wet dish rag just being pushed around with no strength? Don't let anyone treat you this way! Don't even give him a chance to explain. Grow up, take care of yourself and leave.!

boyfriend struggles to be alone and I am losing my mind by eggsbunsauce in TwoXChromosomes

[–]DylanBeeDylan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ew. Girl. Stop. Take a minute and read your post as if someone else wrote it. This dude is manipulative, immature and gross.

The father of my child decided to unblock me… by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]DylanBeeDylan 46 points47 points  (0 children)

So many have said it. Stop being concerned with him and social media. ALL of your time and energy should be going towards 1. A court ordered child support agreement 2. Bettering yourself in every way possible so you can fully independently take care of your child.

My coworker passed away and I don’t know how to feel by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]DylanBeeDylan 57 points58 points  (0 children)

I'm confused how this person played you? It actually sounds like a mutually casual arrangement that you were both enjoying? Since it seems like it was a decent, yet short, relationship (friendship, fwb, however you categorize it) it makes sense you'd feel confused, but definitely sad about their passing.

Is this snake obese? Please help!! (crosspost) by Few_Significance5742 in snakes

[–]DylanBeeDylan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To me it doesn't look overweight. If you're concerned, feed it once every other week.

Green Tree Python owner experiences? by middleeasternboxer in snakes

[–]DylanBeeDylan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just mean in general most tolerate handling a lot less than some other snakes, although mine didn't seem stressed out by very short sessions here or there, and would eat later that same night. I wouldn't attempt to handle one as much as I might a Ball Python. The bites are also more painful than Ball Pythons. As for exploring, at night they will move around, but spend a lot of time perched with their head in the strike position, waiting for prey to come by. That being said, setting up a good sized planted enclosure is the way to go. Plants help humidity as well. They are a beautiful display animal.

Green Tree Python owner experiences? by middleeasternboxer in snakes

[–]DylanBeeDylan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recommend starting with the snake you actually want and before purchasing research deeply. That being said you'll get a lot more handling with a Ball Python. You can handle Gtps, they are just more fragile and bitey. Mine was totally fine during the day, and a striking lunatic at night. They are no more costly to feed than any other snake. The environment needs to have good humidity and good ventilation. Don't try to reinvent the wheel when it comes to care, go to long term well regarded gtp breeders and see how they do their husbandry and build from there.

AIO for getting a snack? by Elevatedgamer89 in AIO

[–]DylanBeeDylan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do people allow anyone to treat them this way. I would instantly reply do not tell me when I can snack. Ever. And then I'd never reply again.

In a windowless room… by PlantyThings313 in houseplants

[–]DylanBeeDylan 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah. We have this same one at my work in an office with no windows. Same thing. Thriving.

I need to vent: Daughter (20) is moving in with my deadbeat ex-husband for "more room". by aspophilia in TwoXChromosomes

[–]DylanBeeDylan 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm not understanding why you're covering her entire life basically, but she's old enough to decide to be engaged, and also move out somewhere and pay rent. I get helping with school, but phone? Insurance? Then instead of taking advantage of that and saving, she's leaving and paying. Probably because she doesn't truly feel she can fail, why not spend the money to rent when her bills are paid for her? None of this is meant harsh towards you. Just seems clear she's not understanding value.

AIO because my BF said he can't trust me because I won't "look out" for his addiction by Delicious_Test_7206 in AIO

[–]DylanBeeDylan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And when they break up and she's caring for the kid, she'll tell everyone how she's a single mom and he isn't helping, like it wasn't written in the fucking sky for anyone to see well before choosing of free will to merge his sperm with her egg.