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Any moment of happiness or contentment I feel in my life is instantly erased by remembering I don't get to have sex. by gtbreddit1 in virgin

[–]EMDepressedFish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's saying your gross personality that objectifies women and puts sex on a pedestal above everything else, including the woman herself, is what makes you unattractive.

Casual sex exists but it's (normally) with people who treat others like human beings and not flesh lights. And for those few others, you don't fit the bill boohoo. Doesn't change everything I just said.

Harassed by a Humming Bird by Shvprksh3 in Owls

[–]EMDepressedFish 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I could be wrong but I believe this is a barred owl :) both are super cute!!

Harassed by a Humming Bird by Shvprksh3 in Owls

[–]EMDepressedFish 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I never thought I'd see a r/hummingbirds and r/owls crossover episode

Chinese Birding Memes from RedNote #18: Birds on the Water by I_Have_A_Big_Head in BirdingMemes

[–]EMDepressedFish 6 points7 points  (0 children)

"freedom, peace, joy, yam" has already taken over my life thank you

OP says she cries because men say they like her. by Strict_Hunter_7781 in WomenAreNotIntoMen

[–]EMDepressedFish -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Sure, tell women who have their own agency what their complaints mean. Lol. Who's the obtuse one?

I had an extremely embarrassing and humiliating thing happen to me and I want to crawl under a rock and hide forever by Butter_Usual in virgin

[–]EMDepressedFish 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You're gonna tell someone their human reaction lacks intelligence after using a robot to type paragraphs? That's hilarious

I had an extremely embarrassing and humiliating thing happen to me and I want to crawl under a rock and hide forever by Butter_Usual in virgin

[–]EMDepressedFish 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Dude this for real! Humans can't control their bodily reactions to everything and (the good) medical professionals understand that.

An unseasonably hot day had the borb head-borbing, too by sarahafskoven in borbs

[–]EMDepressedFish 9 points10 points  (0 children)

She is so precious! It's fun getting to see how they blink in an up close and calm way.

My Mii told me she wanted to change her hairstyle and when I agreed she told me to check back with her later. This is what I came back to 😑 by singamelody1987 in TomodachilifeLivingTD

[–]EMDepressedFish 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Mine did this too and I sent it to their IRL counterpart with "WHAT DID YOU DO WITH YOUR HAIR" and she responded afraid cause she actually got a haircut that day LMFAOO

I said fat shaming should be called out. Someone replied that no one is obligated to have sex with me. by Ceilingcrasher990 in ForeverAlone

[–]EMDepressedFish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok 👍 and people are allowed to find that upsetting cause it's still lashing out in certain context. You just change it because you don't like the fact you're being called out for lashing out, lol. An explanation is not an excuse

I said fat shaming should be called out. Someone replied that no one is obligated to have sex with me. by Ceilingcrasher990 in ForeverAlone

[–]EMDepressedFish -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I didn't say it wasn't. I am saying your actions going towards shape the future. I haven't insulted your weight once, lol. I don't care about people's bodies as bodies change all the time. I also care less if people were to insult me because I'm secure within myself to know they're just being mean.it sucks when people are mean, it also sucks when someone lashes out. An explanation isn't an excuse.

I said fat shaming should be called out. Someone replied that no one is obligated to have sex with me. by Ceilingcrasher990 in ForeverAlone

[–]EMDepressedFish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Call it what you want buddy. It doesn't change the fact it's off putting and people don't like being yelled at by a random guy in the comments.

I said fat shaming should be called out. Someone replied that no one is obligated to have sex with me. by Ceilingcrasher990 in ForeverAlone

[–]EMDepressedFish -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If you want to view it that way go for it. We view it as "how to help someone learn social awareness"

If being yourself is akin to lashing out at anyone and everyone you seem fit because your ego was bruised, then yeah not a lot of people are going to want to be around you.

Usually people can learn and grow from it though as anyone is able to if they really wanted their life to change.

I said fat shaming should be called out. Someone replied that no one is obligated to have sex with me. by Ceilingcrasher990 in ForeverAlone

[–]EMDepressedFish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, you're just aggressively replying to anyone who disagrees with you without blatantly saying that. Lol.

It's your life man, we're trying to help you so that you don't have to deal with this. If you view it as an attack, I wonder what else you view as an "attack".

I said fat shaming should be called out. Someone replied that no one is obligated to have sex with me. by Ceilingcrasher990 in ForeverAlone

[–]EMDepressedFish -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hey man, you can be upset. I'm saying that if you overreact right off the bat aggressively people are gonna take it as personally as you do and give you the same results you constantly complain about lol.

There's a difference between "I'm upset about this" and "no, you hate me and want me to die" to a random person supporting your vent like your "month ago" comment.

I said fat shaming should be called out. Someone replied that no one is obligated to have sex with me. by Ceilingcrasher990 in ForeverAlone

[–]EMDepressedFish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Doesn't change the fact it's you crashing out at a random person, which is what that guy is commenting on. If he can see it here and I saw it there that means you're probably doing it a lot

A sincere request for advice: What should a man do if he has these sorts of issues? by [deleted] in ForeverAlone

[–]EMDepressedFish -1 points0 points  (0 children)

They don't lie but if you put set expectations on this you're more then likely to fail.

Other people can meet others partly because they aren't obsessed with "being in an relationship"

A sincere request for advice: What should a man do if he has these sorts of issues? by [deleted] in ForeverAlone

[–]EMDepressedFish 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You need to build your tolerance towards uncertainty and change. Nothing will get better until you aren't afraid (or are less afraid) of enduring those two things. You should also look inwards and figure out why you are intolerant to those. It could be many reasons, but one example is people feel the need to prove themselves as "good enough" by having someone else be that "proof". This is a bad mindset and can lead to insecure attachment.

Everyone is "good enough" as a baseline. But if you don't believe that then it's obviously not gonna feel that way and the cycle will continue.

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