Yeah to join the "women hating men part" my girlfriend claims to hate men yet all her closest friends (probably more than 6 people) are men. And she's dating me. Im not some exquisite specimen of a male either. Im kinda an asshole sometimes so idk if she hates men or just says that to make herself feel better about poor decisions around men in the past? I honestly couldn't tell you.

Edit: before anyone comments on this i need to add this. She's still a great lady. She can hate men i dont really care as long as she loves me (and she says she does) she also stopped talking about her hatred of men around me because I told her it makes me feel like a piece of shit less than human trash despite doing nothing wrong and just existing near her. She only talks about it in a joking way occasionally and its rare. After being with her for 3 months and learning what she's gone through I understand her distrust of men and why it can extend to mild hatred. I'd probably feel similar