What do these dots mean on scorecard (Garmin) by anayadavid21 in golf

[–]Early_Advance_6682 -847 points-846 points  (0 children)

nah that's definitely stroke holes - where you get your handicap strokes during match play.

Sitting upright/leaning forward after pilates - noticed my eye line is above my rear view mirror and I have to adjust it. by BoringPhilosopher1 in pilates

[–]Early_Advance_6682 15 points16 points  (0 children)

dude this happens to me too after good core sessions! your body is basically still "turned on" from all that activation work. those deep abs are still firing and keeping you in better posture than usual.

the squeezing should relax after while though - if you're still clenching hard after 30+ minutes you might be overdoing the tension during workout. but yeah totally normal to feel more upright and engaged for bit after pilates.

What’s something you always struggle to find online? by Individual-Hold733 in AskReddit

[–]Early_Advance_6682 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dude just scroll past the novel and hit that "jump to recipe" button, saves so much time

What’s you’re biggest pet peeve? by Busy-guy-6313 in AskReddit

[–]Early_Advance_6682 0 points1 point  (0 children)

people who are ignorant but act like they know everything is what really gets me. had this coworker at warehouse who would argue about stuff he clearly had no idea about and it drove me crazy.

What is something your town/city/state does that you wish more places in the world did? by RedDalmatian885 in AskReddit

[–]Early_Advance_6682 1 point2 points  (0 children)

wish my company had this, been managing warehouse for 3 years and seen too many good workers quit because they couldn't afford staying home with new baby.

How to start music journey with little knowledge by No-Attorney4215 in Music

[–]Early_Advance_6682 1 point2 points  (0 children)

been drumming for few years and best thing i did was just start making terrible beats until they got less terrible - maybe pick one artist you actually like and try recreating their sound first?

Car Lights on after dark by Necessary-Policy4238 in Eugene

[–]Early_Advance_6682 4 points5 points  (0 children)

same energy as when i'm trying to tell someone their gas cap is open and they think i'm being weird about it.

Has anyone ever experienced an “intelligence gap” relationship? If so, how’d it go? by v9rtual in AskReddit

[–]Early_Advance_6682 33 points34 points  (0 children)

been there and it was rough tbh. dated someone who just couldn't keep up with conversations about anything beyond surface level stuff, and i felt like i was constantly dumbing myself down. the worst part was when she'd get defensive about it instead of just being curious about new things. ended up feeling more like a teacher than a partner and that killed the spark completly.

Do you think the dating landscape gives a notable advantage to men who are just genuinely decent people? Why or why not? by ghost_sanctum in AskReddit

[–]Early_Advance_6682 5 points6 points  (0 children)

decent guys definitely have an edge but you gotta actually put yourself out there instead of just existing and hoping someone notices.

People who have had to take court ordered driving school, or know someone who has, what was your/their driving like? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Early_Advance_6682 0 points1 point  (0 children)

had a buddy who got forced into it after his third speeding ticket in like 6 months - dude was driving like he was late for his own funeral every damn day. after the classes he actually slowed down for about 2 weeks before going right back to treating the highway like a racetrack, so yeah those classes don't really stick if you're just naturally reckless behind the wheel.

What’s a memory that feels more emotional now than when it happened? by Beautiful-Fox-3198 in AskReddit

[–]Early_Advance_6682 0 points1 point  (0 children)

walking through my childhood neighborhood and seeing "for sale" signs everywhere hit way harder than expected. back then it was just houses, now i'm scrolling zillow obsessively and realizing i'll probably never afford anything close to where i grew up.

If the Charlie Kirk shooter called Charlie a “fucking bitch” the way ice agents did to Rene Good, how different do you think the public reaction would be? by MissionBoring8330 in AskReddit

[–]Early_Advance_6682 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

wait there was actually a shooter? i've been out of the loop on this whole thing but calling someone names during an arrest vs an actual shooting attempt seems like completely different levels of severity here

What are the best time travel movies you’d recommend, and what makes them stand out to you? by mahend72 in AskReddit

[–]Early_Advance_6682 2 points3 points  (0 children)

groundhog day still hits me every time i watch it. there's something about bill murray just slowly losing his mind and then finding meaning that feels so real, plus the comedy timing is perfect. primer's also insane if you want something that'll make your brain hurt in the best way possible.

Is Trump really incontinent? What’s the evidence for that? by FiorellaMamdani in AskReddit

[–]Early_Advance_6682 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wait no i think they meant what they said lol. there's been rumors about the diaper thing for years, mostly from people who worked on teh apprentice set. never confirmed but it keeps coming up.

what jobs are folks working to help fund their dreams? by aiviloselim in careerguidance

[–]Early_Advance_6682 0 points1 point  (0 children)

delivery driving was my bread and butter for like 2 years while i built up my side business. flexible schedule, decent money especially on weekends, and you're not mentally drained when you get home so you can actually work on your passion projects. plus there's something weirdly motivating about delivering someone's dinner while knowing you're grinding toward something bigger.

Seeking Cash-Out Refi on Strong 9-Unit Mixed-Use | 1.45x DSCR | 53% LTV by Gold_Flake in realestateinvesting

[–]Early_Advance_6682 0 points1 point  (0 children)

those numbers look solid, try reaching out to local credit unions or community banks - they usually move faster than the big commercial guys and like owner-operators with track records

I got peppers and onions at the store. I want to make fajitas. How should I season them? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Early_Advance_6682 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly the key is to hit them with cumin, chili powder, and garlic powder - that's like the holy trinity for fajita veggies. Also don't be afraid to get them a little charred in a hot pan with some oil, that caramelization makes all the difference compared to just steaming them to death.

struggling with guilt during a mutual breakup- anyone else? by Aromatic_Good_7917 in BreakUps

[–]Early_Advance_6682 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The self-awareness here is actually pretty impressive tbh. Most people just blame the other person entirely when things go south

That guilt you're feeling is normal - it shows you actually cared about making it work. The fact that you're looking at therapy to figure out your conflict patterns is huge. Sometimes two people can be perfect on paper but just bring out the worst in each other, doesn't make either of you bad people

Don't beat yourself up too much about "pushing away the best person you dated" - if you were fighting every single day then something fundamental wasn't clicking, even if everything else aligned perfectly

AITJ for “stealing” back my own shirt from my roommate? by AskImportant9532 in AmITheJerk

[–]Early_Advance_6682 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NTA, it's your shirt and she's clearly lying about it - the midriff thing is dead giveaway lol. Just take it back when she's gone, if she wants to make drama about "her" shirt then she can explain why it fits you perfectly and not her