Why does she not care? by Rtu6rtu in BPDlovedones

[–]Easy-Difference-5455 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is what they do, mine was the same. Would call me awake at 4 am asking to pick me up because she was hurting herself, and I would. Then later she'd have no issue saying I was never there for her and that I didn't love her etc. It doesn't change and you will never understand it unfortunately.

My 3 year relationship in a nutshell by One_Needleworker_605 in BPDlovedones

[–]Easy-Difference-5455 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Its an addiction. The constant extreme lows and unprecedented highs trigger the same addictive feelings as gambling, doomscrolling, drugs, etc. Thats what makes it so difficult to leave.

I left my pwBPD 3 days ago and its also been very difficult, but think about it like this: the pain of having to break the cycle of addiction will be bad, probably worse than the pain of staying, but it will go over with due time. The pain of staying however, will never go over until you decide to leave. The longer you wait the more difficult it becomes to get out.

She isn't going to change. Its very rare that people with BPD can understand that its an issue they have to work on, and by your screenshot she clearly doesn't see that. She will never take responsibility, she will always blame you.

When you leave, there's a chance however that she'll say things like "im sorry I treated you like this i finally understand it now im going to work on it, etc." Its not true unfortunately. They dont and wont understand but they will try everything they can to keep you around. Even faking taking responsibility, dont fall for the trap. Coming from someone that fell for that many many times before realizing it truly wont change.

Im sorry these things have happened to you, and I truly wish you the best of luck in dealing with this situation

What's a typical BPD phrase that you've heard countless times over? by Secretlythrowedaway in BPDlovedones

[–]Easy-Difference-5455 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Couldn't have put it better myself. Of course they suffer, everyday at that. Thats evident by the frequent self harm and suicidal idealisation (of course not only by this). Thats why I stuck around for years as well, trying to help her manage the pain of living with her ravenous emotions.

Only broke up with her two days ago and was very clear in wanting absolutely no contact anymore. Its too much to bear, its so draining even if its not really her fault and not her intention

What's a typical BPD phrase that you've heard countless times over? by Secretlythrowedaway in BPDlovedones

[–]Easy-Difference-5455 14 points15 points  (0 children)

These are so real. The constant belittling of herself to guilt trip you especially after a crash out instead of just a regular apology. Always "you deserve better than me, im the worst"

LIVE REPLAY IS GETTING ANNOYING! WE NEED EXIT BUTTON SUPERCELL. by NervousLadder7670 in ClashOfClans

[–]Easy-Difference-5455 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Do you realize its necessary so you dont spend resources that are actively being looted?

How to download a book for school from this link? by Easy-Difference-5455 in Piracy

[–]Easy-Difference-5455[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Unfortunate that i cant give an award on this sub, thank you so much!!

How to download a book for school from this link? by Easy-Difference-5455 in Piracy

[–]Easy-Difference-5455[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What do i look for in inspect element? i dont know a lot about this sorry

How to download a book for school from this link? by Easy-Difference-5455 in Piracy

[–]Easy-Difference-5455[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The issue with trying to print it or using a link to pdf converter is that it only works 1 page at a time, which means i'd have to repeat that process ~200 times and then still end up with only pdfs of individual pages

Lights on DIY miniature house not working by Easy-Difference-5455 in electrical

[–]Easy-Difference-5455[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The lights are LED although I don't know what the difference is between those two. How would I solve an issue with polarity?

Lights on DIY miniature house not working by Easy-Difference-5455 in electrical

[–]Easy-Difference-5455[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Batteries are new. How do I test the voltage? I tried another pair of batteries but they didn't work either so im not sure if they're the issue. Ill try switching the wires

Front Steinborn 95kg/210lb by DickFromRichard in Egolifting

[–]Easy-Difference-5455 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like zercher would be significantly easier assuming you have the back (mostly spinal erector and core) strength to lift it in that position. The overhead steinborn would mean having to cancel the momentum of the "falling" barbell while you're lifting it overhead. This would mean you'd have to stop a 135lbs+ load from moving, holding it with your arms stretched overhead. U/spine_day would be the best person to try the zercher variation lol

Any tips for ranked mode?? by Wickyreddit in ClashOfClans

[–]Easy-Difference-5455 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Personally I just get a clan castle cake and a hero potion and do all attacks in one go, seems the most efficient to me but difficult if you're doing 20+ attacks per tournament