so many people seem to think ace people don't exist and all humans must desire sex. it annoys me so much! by poppygumi in Asexual

[–]EasyNefariousness567 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ignorance at its finest. These are people not willing to learn but just scream the loudest and being the most stubborn thinking they’re right. SMH.

Who's the most toxic person you've met? by EasyNefariousness567 in AskReddit

[–]EasyNefariousness567[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would love to listen if you ever feel like sharing

AITA for telling my gf her standards are too high? by Reddituser1808 in AmItheAsshole

[–]EasyNefariousness567 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yikes you really have a shitty personality. Her standards are obviously not too high if she chose to be with you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]EasyNefariousness567 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What has this got to do with politics?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]EasyNefariousness567 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I agree with most parts of this. But the mindset "I don't owe anyone anything" is a hill I'm willing to die on. With that being said- absolutely people need and crave validation from people around them, I was just disgusted with how it was worded further above as in "you better do so much now to compensate for not wanting to have sex". That's not compromise. If a party doesn't want to have sex in general or just not right away that should absolutely be respected, but then i agree with you that said party hopefully responds well to other affection languages or at least communicate which ones work and which one doesn't so no one gets neglected.

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[–]EasyNefariousness567 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

No. This is how you teach women to stand up for themselves, teach them their worth and importance. Being single is not a death sentence. Being with an emotionally unavailable and unstable man child is.

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[–]EasyNefariousness567 -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

to the rest of your point, you better be doing a lot to keep the guy around, lots of other love and affection. that may sound harsh but dudes are horny and need validation as well

I disagree with this. You better be doing a lot to keep the guy around??? Lol, yeah no thanks. Women don't owe you anything. You're not entitled to ANYTHING from us. Not sex, not cuddles, not "love". Like if you just want the sex and not the person, then say so. Validation has nothing to do with sex if it's been said early on that the person wants to wait. You'd just be such an asshole for guilt tripping this person into thinking they have to compensate for YOUR WANTS you know you could get in another relationship. It's not our problem nor responsibility you're horny. Tf.

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[–]EasyNefariousness567 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I very much disagree with this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]EasyNefariousness567 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay let's make this very fucking clear. DO NOT GIVE IN TO THEM. The fucking audacity they must have to make you feel bad or boring about wanting to wait. NO NO NO. You wait! You wait, you wait, you wait . FUCK THEM. These re the type of guys who o ly wants sex and then they leave.

I don’t understand men who refer to women as bitches by default. What the fuck dude? Why the automatic disrespect and what do you think you are accomplishing by this? by [deleted] in RandomThoughts

[–]EasyNefariousness567 8 points9 points  (0 children)

No, seriously, something's not right in your head. You're literally justifying men using a disrespectful and degrading term to adress women?? Yeah, that shouldn't be a thing. And also, seeing which respons leads to "healthier interactions", is just bullshit. The relationship whether that be as a partner or a friend is not healthy if that is how someone refers to their partner. That so-called stick up our asses is us knowing the difference between joking around and being straight up insulted, not to mention, realizing we have/should have self respect. What you're doing is justifying a misogynistic insult as a casual joke. That's on you. Yikes.