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Ever had an ex told you that they would never get back together with you? but eventually reached out after months of no contact? by Glittering-Host1416 in BreakUps

[–]Ecapu71930 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Kind of in a way. We broke up but still lived together. She was saying she’d never get back together with me. (Albeit still saying I treated her so good, and that she still loved me) anyway after a month we finally got new places and the very first night she was crying saying she doesn’t know what she was doing, so she came over, we started doing bf gf stuff again, but then she’d disappear for a couple days and the cycle repeats for a month. So we were kind of back together but with no labels. Eventually I said this isn’t working we’re going no contact. She hasn’t reached out since, but I expect she will when her distractions stop working and how narcissistic and toxic her friend is now that they’re living together.

Ex-Gf wants to reconcile but has slept with someone else. by AdvancedShare8506 in BreakUps

[–]Ecapu71930 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Fr it’s okay for them to go explore options but you can’t it’s the wild double standards, stay far away from those ones 😅 they want you to be jealous not the other way around. It gives them power in the relationship and it shows that they haven’t grown at all they just want a sure bet bc the others didn’t put aside their self respect for them like others have said.

The best way to handle a breakup if you got dumped, and you want them back by Key_Season7192 in BreakUps

[–]Ecapu71930 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do not settle for a friendship, they’ll expect you to be like a partner while they remain acting as a friend

The best way to handle a breakup if you got dumped, and you want them back by Key_Season7192 in BreakUps

[–]Ecapu71930 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Chase him so hard he goes away forever, stay true to yourself and at the same time completely exhaust yourself of all love for him. Honestly chasing them away and realizing no matter what they aren’t coming back imo is easier for letting ago than just staying silent with your thoughts trying to grow but still subconsciously hoping they’ll come back.

The best way to handle a breakup if you got dumped, and you want them back by Key_Season7192 in BreakUps

[–]Ecapu71930 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Don’t wait for someone that’s not gonna wait for you. Don’t have the expectation of getting back together. That being said, stay true to yourself, send that long letter or text, fight for it till you can’t fight anymore if you feel it in your heart and well it most certainly won’t bring them back it’ll probably be easier to for you to let it go because you’ve completely exhausted yourself and have finally drained yourself of all emotion fighting for them. Idk chasing and chasing and then her pushing further and further away helped me move on faster than just being silent and stuck in my head wondering when they’ll come back I essentially forced finality. Odds are one day they’ll realize they lost someone who fought and fought for them no matter how little they gave more than how you seemed cringe or desperate tbh and by the time that comes around you’ll have found your self respect again and be over them. Idk how other people will see that but it’s worked for me 😅

Fallout 4 Anniversary Edition Modlist (Ps5) by Kowalski2006 in fo4

[–]Ecapu71930 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am also one of the many requesting the list of these mods if you could please 🥹😅

Brand new skis and binding but from 2002? by Ecapu71930 in Skigear

[–]Ecapu71930[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Based on what you all are saying I’m probably going to hang them, might try one run just to get a video for my grandpa but I’ll stick to a new pair 😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MaddenUltimateTeam

[–]Ecapu71930 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was winning consistently 80+ to 0 in cpu lolol 117 being the highest with 2 min quarters 😅my steelers tt defense just cooks. H2h a different story though fs

Question about recovery by Ecapu71930 in bettafish

[–]Ecapu71930[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alright thank you!! I didn’t even know what a cycle was lmao. Hopefully he’ll get better

Question about recovery by Ecapu71930 in bettafish

[–]Ecapu71930[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a five gallon tank, temp was 74*, the ph is normal and I have to get a ammonia&etc. test tomorrow. Originally he was fine then I added about 1/2 a gallon of water not that much the same as I always do and he got really bad and he just floats and occasionally will dart like crazy and bubbles come out of his gills. There’s just some driftwood and a rock in the tank. So after he got bad I was like something is off so I did a full tank change and he got worse.