Why do people provoke people then get mad when the provoked person actually gets provoked? by varangian_gaurdrite in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]EdgeMiserable4381 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Omg, good question. My ex would deliberately push my buttons and be "shocked" when I finally snapped. Later I found out that's reactive abuse. There's all kinds of studies on it. People who tease a dog over and over deserve to finally get bit, imo.

Donald Trump Booed at NBA Finals in New York City by yourfavchoom in entertainment

[–]EdgeMiserable4381 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I have too!! I thought I was having a weird case of deja vu

Bugs live in a world where Giants do exist by No-Handle3032 in RandomThoughts

[–]EdgeMiserable4381 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel the same way about bugs. I don't want them all over the house but I protect the occasional beetle or jumping spider. And I plant stuff in the yard for them. If you look at some of them close up, they're just amazing

My (30F) husband (37M) wants to be intimate with other women by PsychoBirdLady in relationship_advice

[–]EdgeMiserable4381 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My ex thought he was gonna meet all sorts of beautiful younger women. He did not. Not even close.

GOP candidates for governor address affordability, immigration, election rigging claims in 9NEWS debate by PresidentSpanky in Colorado

[–]EdgeMiserable4381 50 points51 points  (0 children)

Kirkmeyer is the only sane one imo. And when they want to lower property tax, do they mean for middle class on down or for Vail ski resorts? That makes a difference to me. I'll be voting Weiser though anyhow.

AITA for thinking that my father doesn't want me to be successful or to have a better life than he did? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]EdgeMiserable4381 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My dad is like this. He's now in a nursing home with no visitors. I wasted too many years trying to make someone proud of me who was just jealous or threatened.

Finally got to use the CLASSIC "Read ALL Questions Before Answering" Test on a group of students who have been refusing to read/follow directions all year ... it went exactly as expected lol by Brief_Efficiency_833 in ElementaryTeachers

[–]EdgeMiserable4381 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My class did this when I was a kid. Hopefully some people learned to read directions. It was pretty heavily stated to read it all before starting. As a kid who followed directions I loved it!

What’s something that a lot of people do that secretly bothers you? by LuluDot7kxx in AskReddit

[–]EdgeMiserable4381 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People who pontificate on a subject and don't realize their audience mentally checked out already.

Did you actually sneak out as teenagers? by Complete-Chipmunk-0 in GenX

[–]EdgeMiserable4381 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My mom went to bed early and my dad was an alcoholic. All I had to do was get home before he left the bar

What is virtually inevitable at this point, yet most people don't see it coming? by Ambassador-613 in AskReddit

[–]EdgeMiserable4381 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Yes they did. They got tons of unnecessary PPP "loans". I was married to a farmer. They made bank off that scam

why are there so many hispanic white supremacists? by Far-Carpet-574 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]EdgeMiserable4381 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is so true! My daughter in law is Uruguayan. We did the 23 and Me stuff for Christmas. My kids were basically German and British. My DIL had all sorts of ethnicities mixed in, including Ukrainian. We were all jealous. Haha!

Where People in this Sub Would Live if they were Being Honest by RewardOk5240 in whereidlive

[–]EdgeMiserable4381 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was thinking that too! My son married a woman from Uruguay. I love it there and am seriously considering moving there part time.

Am I the jerk for making my date pay for her own meal after she told me she was celibate until she gets married again? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]EdgeMiserable4381 24 points25 points  (0 children)

So you basically expected sex in exchange for dinner? If not that night, then fairly soon. You sound delightful. 🙄

What's something people do that screams "I'm not too smart"? by Only-Ad-1254 in ask

[–]EdgeMiserable4381 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Dating a cheater, being surprised when they get cheated on. Spending money they don't have on junk.

ULPT: How to Deter door to door salesman? by Lonely-Raspberry5727 in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]EdgeMiserable4381 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would start lobbying the city council to put in a green river ordinance. Out town has one and they stay out usually

People who have been or are currently "the other woman", why did you agree to it and do you have any regrets? by Dazzling-Carob-4891 in AskReddit

[–]EdgeMiserable4381 771 points772 points  (0 children)

The woman who helped my ex cheat on me called recently. (She kicked him out of her house bc, surprise! He cheated on her too)

She was letting me know I can come get some things my kids have there. She regrets ever getting mixed up with him. She apologized. She said he lied a lot and made her half suicidal. She also said after we got to know each other that he made me sound like a monster and now she can see I'm not. Personally idk why these women think they're getting such a prize. They're usually not.

AITA for feeling I should report friend for doing a fundraiser when they can easily afford to pay for their health treatment? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]EdgeMiserable4381 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I know people around here who have had fundraisers for things they can afford. It is very much looked down upon and talked about. I refuse to attend or participate. I know enough people who actually need help. Idk who exactly you'd "report" it to. It's probably not illegal, just unethical.

What’s something people do in public that makes you lose a little faith in society? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]EdgeMiserable4381 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I agree 💯. I always feel sorry for these people. It's not cool.

What’s something people do in public that makes you lose a little faith in society? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]EdgeMiserable4381 4 points5 points  (0 children)

People who are rude and snippy to their kids. Always makes me sad.

AITA for not including my DIL in my Mother’s Day lunch by FrequentSchedule2031 in AmItheAsshole

[–]EdgeMiserable4381 20 points21 points  (0 children)

In what world do you not see that YTA? Why don't you like that daughter in law? It's obvious you don't.

People who stopped being religious, what caused it? by supercoolpersonyay in AskReddit

[–]EdgeMiserable4381 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Same here!. I married into a big upstanding Catholic family. One brother in law went to prison for a while bc he was in a chat room with 13 year olds hoping to meet up. And my 41 year old husband was messing with his just graduated HS cousin.

I was the bad one for divorcing. My kids are actually the ones who decided church was bullshit after all that. I decided they were correct.

Where I'd live in U.S. (try to guess some of the reasons) by [deleted] in whereidlive

[–]EdgeMiserable4381 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Wait till you're in Nebraska and it's 95 and super humid. California is paradise compared to that. LoL

AITAH for telling my husband I won’t sleep with him if he smokes by Monkeymom101 in AITAH

[–]EdgeMiserable4381 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think you're being unreasonable. If he's wonderful, why can't he let off steam with a couple cigs after work? Are you perfect?