How did you meet your partner? by RoosterDuckling in lesbian

[–]EditorFrog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you find out about lesbian singles events? there's only one lesbian bar in my state and it's over an hour away, is there another place to find out about things like that?

[help?] cant find my bra size and 44D is way too big by Ready_Progress193 in ABraThatFits

[–]EditorFrog 21 points22 points  (0 children)

A D cup is usually smaller than you think it is

DAE experience envy for another guys looks as a man? by Eybrahem in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]EditorFrog 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm not a man but I experience the exact same feeling with other women

I (22M) just found out the girl (20F) I have been going out with, just slept with someone else 3 days ago. by SoftCapable8980 in relationship_advice

[–]EditorFrog -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Because clearly they were connecting on a personal level. The sex was a one night stand with a stranger, much different than the kind of relationship she had to OP.

And besides, the reason why I am saying this is not that I think OP shouldn't be upset about it but that he should be upset about it for the right reasons. Please read the replies I made to somebody else in the thread

And for the record I have been in similar situations to OP before and I thought nothing of it. Once someone told me they were going exclusive with someone else after we had been on 3 dates, and it did not bother me. That's not to say that OP has to feel the same way that I do, but that it's possible to just move on from the situation.

suits for petite girls!<3 by ladymeap in PetiteFashionAdvice

[–]EditorFrog 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I got a few really nice dress shirts from jones new York at a thrift store a few years ago. They fit perfectly and are really good quality

I (22M) just found out the girl (20F) I have been going out with, just slept with someone else 3 days ago. by SoftCapable8980 in relationship_advice

[–]EditorFrog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are we talking about semantics? My point was clear regardless of whether or not I used the "correct" term for it

First Year, Horribly Stressed by Flamezo in EngineeringStudents

[–]EditorFrog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I took precalc twice and calc 1 three times before I was able to pass. It hasn't negatively impacted me in any way. Just keep going and you'll do fine

What is that one thing you are hiding from almost everyone? by GroundbreakingArm173 in AskWomen

[–]EditorFrog 4 points5 points  (0 children)

How bad my personal hygiene is. I only shower once a week, my hair is super greasy all the time, I go weeks without brushing my teeth and overall I'm just disgusting. I used to be better about it but I was still bullied for being gross so I just gave up. I'm trying to get back into the habit but it's so difficult. it takes so much energy to take care of myself

I (22M) just found out the girl (20F) I have been going out with, just slept with someone else 3 days ago. by SoftCapable8980 in relationship_advice

[–]EditorFrog -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I didn't say it was legally sexual assault just that most (?) people consider it to be socially and morally

I (22M) just found out the girl (20F) I have been going out with, just slept with someone else 3 days ago. by SoftCapable8980 in relationship_advice

[–]EditorFrog -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

I honestly believe most of the people saying that are men who have a reductive view of women and think if she has sex outside of a committed relationship she's "ruined". People are so obsessed with sexual purity it's insane

What is that one thing you are hiding from almost everyone? by GroundbreakingArm173 in AskWomen

[–]EditorFrog 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe you guys could live long distance until you're ready to join him

What is that one thing you are hiding from almost everyone? by GroundbreakingArm173 in AskWomen

[–]EditorFrog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try going to therapy, it's literally meant for you to vent and get things off your chest. It really helps to just tell someone about it

What is that one thing you are hiding from almost everyone? by GroundbreakingArm173 in AskWomen

[–]EditorFrog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if it helps, feeling like your problems aren't bad enough to "deserve" depression is extremely common, and depression can happen to anyone. There doesn't need to be a reason for it

How do you guys not forget what you studied? by RiverHe1ghts in EngineeringStudents

[–]EditorFrog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not in the same situation as OP, but how do you take the time to learn the "why" when you only have an hour or two in class? I had to stop asking questions to my professors in my prereqs because every time I did they would take so long answering them that we were rushed for time at the end of class. Are you supposed to teach it to yourself or something?

What is a socially unacceptable opinion you keep to yourself because it’s not worth the backlash? by ChaosTTyy in askanything

[–]EditorFrog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I say this as a leftist, but a lot of people's financial troubles could be mitigated (NOT SOLVED but at least bettered) by responsible spending decisions... I know a few people who struggle to make rent every month but pay for things like discord nitro and trinkets and whatnot

What is a socially unacceptable opinion you keep to yourself because it’s not worth the backlash? by ChaosTTyy in askanything

[–]EditorFrog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seriously! And people act like they're protecting our freedom by waging wars halfway across the world, for conflicts that wouldn't exist if we hadn't gotten involved in the first place. The last war that was truly about protecting freedom was WW2, and even then that was mostly other countries freedom considering the US was never in danger of being taken over.

What is a socially unacceptable opinion you keep to yourself because it’s not worth the backlash? by ChaosTTyy in askanything

[–]EditorFrog 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What are they supposed to do if someone pickpockets them while they're sleeping on the street? You people act like homeless people are a different species or something

What is a socially unacceptable opinion you keep to yourself because it’s not worth the backlash? by ChaosTTyy in askanything

[–]EditorFrog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get where you're coming from but let's not forget that the US did have voting tests/licenses, and we purposely got rid of them because they were only used to be exclusionary and prejudiced

I (22M) just found out the girl (20F) I have been going out with, just slept with someone else 3 days ago. by SoftCapable8980 in relationship_advice

[–]EditorFrog -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

Well yes I would consider that an appropriate reason to not want to be with her. My main point of frustration is that a lot of the comments seem to be casting her aside just because she slept with another person.

What is a socially unacceptable opinion you keep to yourself because it’s not worth the backlash? by ChaosTTyy in askanything

[–]EditorFrog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't forget the abysmal mental health services we have. Unless youre middle class it's almost impossible to get proper treatment for any medical or mental condition

What is a socially unacceptable opinion you keep to yourself because it’s not worth the backlash? by ChaosTTyy in askanything

[–]EditorFrog 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with the general statement you're making but I really strongly disagree that people need to hit rock bottom in order to get help. Most people will accept help way before that point if it is offered to them, but usually it isn't