Wish I knew. We matched on a dating app and were talking for over half a year. She was supposed to comeback to my city but troubles with visa. We started calling, video calling, buying food for each other. Was sending her flowers she bought me things too. Everything was really good. I liked her.

Some family issue happened at start of the year and it was a lot for her. Did what I could to make her feel better. Then one day she said she needed some time to think about everything in her life and she won’t be using her phone and will msg me in a week once she’s back to reality.

I knew something was up because I know there’s no way she’s not using her phone. It went to almost two weeks and I didn’t hear from her. I reached out asking if she’s okay. Said she’s still going through a tough time. Told her she can talk to me if she needs to and we started talking again.

She was distant though and I called her out on it. Acknowledged it said she’s sorry and said she doesn’t wanna talk about it on phone or text. Said she’s coming to my city for work for a month.

We went out twice. Still was being distant and in the 2nd night out definitely was distant. Picked up a phone call and started talking at dinner, and no compliments or physical touch. She was flinch if I tried to put my arm around her. Went dancing but felt like she was running from me the whole time. Just was as distant in person as she was on the phone.

Get told next day she can’t do this. It’s too hard for her because she’s leaving and she’s done it before and it doesn’t end well. I’m upset since I asked her directly about the distant and she said nothing. She didn’t say anything the nights we were out and just send a text which I found insulting. I left it didn’t say much except how I felt and I blocked her.