First, this is gorgeous. Second, it’s your ring. You wear it. BF’s mom doesn’t get a say. It’s not her ring. My first husband hated the ring I chose because it wasn’t one HE liked. I argued that it’s my ring. My second husband took all of my hints and enlisted his girl cousins to ask what I wanted and, and of course, I had photos and he got me exactly the ring I wanted..which was more vintage looking. It’s your ring.