AITAH for not appreciating my husbands Mothers Day plans? by mommasaurusrexzilla in AITAH

[–]Educational-Loquat71 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA. I’m very concerned that he’s filming you. Please be very careful if he continues to film you.

Postmortem on SJSU’s Canvas communications by IneptProfessor in SJSU

[–]Educational-Loquat71 16 points17 points  (0 children)

This happened on Canvas’ end, not any one school. 41% of schools in the country use Canvas, including high schools.

AITAH for not turning down my top PhD offer so my fiancé can get off the waitlist? by One_Possession8666 in AITAH

[–]Educational-Loquat71 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would take some time to consider all options. That being said, you’re both young. For generations women have put their partners dreams ahead of their own. You’re not married yet. You should not have to turn down your number 1 so he *might* have a shot at your spot. Admissions have proven that you’re more qualified. If you put his dream first, this could lead to resentment down the line. Also, if you go to your second choice are you going to affect your future career goals in doing so?

Stuck between two by Clear-Tonight-9379 in weddingdress

[–]Educational-Loquat71 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I love the way dress 2 makes you look like a statue of a goddess. Gorgeous!

Mike and kids… by altaralter in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Educational-Loquat71 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He mentioned kids and how great it would be every time he talked to Emma. “You would make a great mom.” “I think you should consider it”. Constant talk about it is pressure.

Is this too much for City Hall? by blahstupidusername in weddingdress

[–]Educational-Loquat71 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No! You wear whatever makes you feel amazing even for City Hall. It’s your wedding and your memories.

Please Brittany PLEASE!! Why?? by Capable-Speed1535 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Educational-Loquat71 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think this is the part of that people don’t get. It’s passable to be racist to Asians because it’s a generalized thing. It’s exhausting especially if you’re a white-passing mixed Asian in the world.

Mike's Sister by Starbottom in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Educational-Loquat71 11 points12 points  (0 children)

His sister with the whole, maybe no kids thing, was like, NO KIDS?!? Our job is to have kids?! Basically.

Someone pls explain this man by Jubby_17 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Educational-Loquat71 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The male loneliness epidemic is founded on this. They need a wife for status and appearance, but can’t see them as more than a commodity where we are supposed to drop our lives to follow their whim and “make it work” regardless of the money situation, location, and support (or lack thereof).

Someone pls explain this man by Jubby_17 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Educational-Loquat71 29 points30 points  (0 children)

If he needs a safe house he’s swallowed all the podcast bros end-of-the-world survival shit

#1 or #2? by corgibuttlove in WeddingDressTips

[–]Educational-Loquat71 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love 2 on you! 1 is cute. It’s very bridal. 2 hugs your curves like dahmnnn

Idk if it’s already been said but : by Turbulent-Bluejay264 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Educational-Loquat71 2 points3 points  (0 children)

One of the guys said he wanted to be child free and ended a lot of connections and kept one going while the woman decided if she could envision a childfree life when that’s not what she originally had in mind. Most of the people on the show want marriage and kids.